Hello everyone! I'm sure you all had a great week.
Please I need advice from matured minds here. And please be objective and honest.

I have known this lady for quite some time now, 3 years or there about. We both have really been good friends. However, along the line being just friends, I've come to really like this lady that I would love to marry.

For the backdrop, I have known her since we both finished school, hinted it to her that I really do like her then.

Now here's the part that I'm confused about: she's working and I'm yet to, however I really do like her and I'm afraid to tell her.

what do I do?

Naaa...wrong use of word...u ain't confused ma nigga,U RE INTIMIDATED...and its ok to be,men re wired to believe they shld av more..afterall we re providers, i cant hlp u with ur low self esteem since its job related,but i can tel u dis...if shez working n ur not,shez not in ur level, shez not even in her male colleagues level, as a woman ,she'll be ranking along with her supervisors or senior manager cader...shez not ur mate again bros....but wat do i knw,love cn do anything

mikezuruki:


Now here's the part that I'm confused about: she's working and I'm yet to, however I really do like her and I'm afraid to tell her.

what do I do?

focus on getting a job and remain friends.

mikezuruki:
Hello everyone! I'm sure you all had a great week.
Please I need advice from matured minds here. And please be objective and honest.

I have known this lady for quite some time now, 3 years or there about. We both have really been good friends. However, along the line being just friends, I've come to really like this lady that I would love to marry.

For the backdrop, I have known her since we both finished school, hinted it to her that I really do like her then.

Now here's the part that I'm confused about: she's working and I'm yet to, however I really do like her and I'm afraid to tell her.

what do I do?

At your age you still de fear to toast woman. She carry fire for head ?! What did you now learn all tru your days in school. Not every you ask out will say yes to you, learn to move on n keep shooting your shot till you get what you want. Many no fit finish the bird wey de sky abeg

ikeno:
focus on getting a job and remain friends.

and continue to be friends with her even after I get the job?

mikezuruki:

and continue to be friends with her even after I get the job?

when you start hustling it gives you more edge to be bolder,confident to tell her your intentions, plans for both of you not just a guy that's trying to get in her pants

mikezuruki:
Hello everyone! I'm sure you all had a great week.
Please I need advice from matured minds here. And please be objective and honest.

I have known this lady for quite some time now, 3 years or there about. We both have really been good friends. However, along the line being just friends, I've come to really like this lady that I would love to marry.

For the backdrop, I have known her since we both finished school, hinted it to her that I really do like her then.

Now here's the part that I'm confused about: she's working and I'm yet to, however I really do like her and I'm afraid to tell her.

what do I do?

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ikeno:

when you start hustling it gives you more edge to be bolder,confident to tell her your intentions, plans for both of you not just a guy that's trying to get in her pants

That's why I double my effort everyday.
And on the other hand, I get the impression that before I get there, she may have 'slipped' away. I fear that too.