tell Vivian mak she giv u real pussy

falcon01:
To quit is simple
Note you can never stop it completely you can only reduce it to a point of 1 per month, like me now I masturbate 3 times per month sometimes I can go 2 months I used to be an addict but the fear of impotency and losing the sensitivenes of my penis made me stopped.
1. Dont feel.bad about yourself for wanting consider it normal its your body.
2. Reduce your Masturbation to twice a day 1 when you wake up and one at night.
3. Drink lot of water as it helps to increase your sperm due to fact that you ate an addict and this means your sperm count is getting low
4. Try reducing indecency thoughts
5. Keep yourself busy during the day

I love but sence of handling issues. We need more people like u on Nairaland. not some Hippocrates who r first to cast stones even when they commit the most.

Hahahahahahahahbaabbabab...... If u get job.... Get babe.... Get busy..... Won't u be sleeping alone at night..... But d feeling aways outta dis planet.....

free cheap and very affordable sex is the solution. beg the girls to start giving it

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

To be frank with you masturbation is like a fire which you just light up it will keep seeking more embers to keep burning. my advice is you quit watching porn, see it as a thing that is blocking a blessing from happening in your life. once you give it a bad name you will hate to do it at any moment. Peace

Alzirida:
Many comments here are not realistic.


Even while having real sex people masturbate before they can jack off.
Some fellows hardly have orgasm while fvcking their spouse unless they had mind sex with someone else.

To me Masturbation is not bad.
What matters is the addiction that may come with it.

Addiction is the problem. Addiction to anything is bad not just masturbation.


Masturbation saves marriages especially for offshore workers

how can one masturbate with your cute looks. baby can we hang out 0.8.064824031

darichlife:


To be frank with you masturbation is like a fire which you just light up it will keep seeking more embers to keep burning. my advice is you quit watching porn, see it as a thing that is blocking a blessing from happening in your life. once you give it a bad name you will hate to do it at any moment. Peace

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Get engaged more often with out door stuffs... Even if you are inside get off such thinking into your heart by reading ur bible meditating stop watching porn!
And decide you are not going to do that again no matter wat may God deliver you.

NuhRegular:
Lol.. Nairaland is the worst place to come to in this case . See comments.

Get busy my dear.. Get busy.. Get productive.. You're obviously idle that's why you have these thoughts so often. If you're a student there are many ways you could keep yourself preoccupied. If you're not, dedicate yourself to a cause, become a volunteer for an NGO, attend workshops, list is endless

I swear. Can't stop laughing o

Oluwamoney:
It's not easy to quit mastubating, if i tell you my own story you won't believe it, i started mastubating before i clocked 10yrs, I'm 26yrs now, do the calculation urself. Though i want to stop but it ain't easy mqan

I see my brother here �

Only Jesus can help you. I can't help you, just call upon the name of the Lord

monte231:
I love how chaste your comment sounds. Are unmarried?

Lol thanks and errrm yes... Why?

To stop masturbation work on your thought
your actions comes from your thought
once you notice that urge to masturbate, stand up form where u are move around,pick ur phone play game

if in the night, u are alone speak in tongue, sing praises to God

the idea is to do something that will distract or wave that thought because when u dwell on that negative u can't escape the action

Guy!!

What the boy needs is a rude awakening. The thought of having his preek cut should send shivers down his spine.

Tell me that your parents didn't threaten you with some impossible stuff while you were growing up.

Crenzywilliams:

Very sick reply to a young lad seeking help.
If you got noting positive to contribute why not shut the f-up

Oluwamoney:
It's not easy to quit mastubating, if i tell you my own story you won't believe it, i started mastubating before i clocked 10yrs, I'm 26yrs now, do the calculation urself. Though i want to stop but it ain't easy man

Ar u for real??

Zivaharry:
ah jux de rol for floor... Hahahahahahaah bahdddd maannn

you can sign up too

Please what is masturbation??

husbandsnatcha:
OP mokenano! let me help u,listen carefully


ist of all avoid any nude picture,semi nude or quater nude cos we ladies ar demons u see believe me



2nd ,if u see a fine girl dnt luk at her
if u see a semi nude one wt mini skirt shout blood of jesus 3times (in ur mind)


lastly ,igbor ncha is a serious case , always think of marriage cos unmarried ladies ar scattered everywhere!
Warning! despise nude picture lyk serpent cos 55% of us ar wt d underworld! tank me later !

All these things na lie,it is only ur mind that can stop it.I barely go a week without a nude from a lady and av never masturbate on it....

Honestly bro it is not easy,most especially when you aren't married.
But it has to do with time.
1.engage yourself in job that exhausts you.(if u are truly serious)
2.At your spare time, think about other things that gives you pleasure other than sex,actively engage in them.(indoor and outdoor activities)e.g.video games,scrabble,table tennis,billiards etc
3.stop watching porn or indecent musical videos.
4.where tight jeans to bed, if your room is well ventilated.
5.Read inspirational books
6.exercise when those thoughts comes.maybe push-ups,you can target 160 (20 per round)
7.pray and read your Bible or Quran, they are the best books to lift your spirit
8.Talk to an experienced adult you can trust,your peers may not help at this stage.
9.overtime you Will be needing a girlfriend too
Wish you good luck.There is no habit can't be stopped,it is just the will and determination.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Go READ THIS https://boldanddetermined.com/quit-masturbating/

sketcherJ:


it is a big lie bro, masturbation doesn't cause impotency.. make your research

I never said so. I said fear of impotency

falcon01:
I never said so. I said fear of impotency

still d same

Our 700th to luwamoney:
It's not easy to quit mastubating, if i tell you my own story you won't believe it, i started mastubating before i clocked 10yrs, I'm 26yrs now, do the calculation urself. Though i want to stop but it ain't easy man

oga i started mine when i was 12year' now am 21, sometime when i meet a gal my pen!s wont just rise up or if it dose it wont be rock (strong) as it use to, but am reducing it now, i can go 1 and a half week sometimes a month without masturbating.is your pen!s still strong? or do you perform well when been with a gal? is it afecting your sexual performance? pls reply

Here's what I did that helped. I asked my girlfriend (who I know really hate the act) to move in with me.
Although it was difficult at first cuz she deprived me of the little privacy I have but it helped me to stop constant masturbation.
I can't do it when I'm at work and when I'm at home, she either has some gist or she's hanging around me for no reason so no time to masturbate.
Although I still do it sometimes when she's asleep but not like doing it every night, in the morning and in the bathroom the way I do before..
It's not like I ask her to have sex with me everytime I have the urge to masturbate but she somehow keeps my mind away from it with either talk, play, sex, food or TV.
And she leaves me exhausted when we do have sex so except I want to kill myself, I don't masturbate.
I still find myself going back to it when she travels and I'm home alone but I can see drastic improvement in the number of times I do it.
That should help you if you have the resources to accommodate your girlfriend.
Masturbation is not a bad thing bro, it's only in this part of the world that people see it as so bad. It saved you from cheating on your woman, from contacting STDs, from idleness cuz most of the time, we sleep after and from making unnecessary advances on women you don't want to get serious with.
Someone even said before you give a woman money, masturbate 2 times and see if you still want to give her.

the only solution here is "your mind". you need to fill your mind with different things always.especially when you are alone like things you wish to have and how do you go about about .just your mind .only .keep on practicing it all the time and also try to go out with friends to have fun.that's just the solution

grossintel:
Lol, you're still very young and I think it's normal at your age. I doubt you can completely stop it, but stop being idle and find something doing, this will help you reduce it.

Don't stay idle..get involve in extra-curricular activities like gym and sports like football, basketball etc. All these involve you being in shape, so you would want to remain fit without gasping for air when doing the sport. so, over time you would get over it...
Then stop watching porn..............

Martinez19:
Masturbation is addictive and needs discipline and strong exertion of willpower to break free from. Programme yourself or life will programme you. Life is already dealing you masturbation, better programme your self to be an individual that doesn't masturbate. First, m know what you want to do with your life and get serious about it. Great men don't waste their time on useless and unproductive habits. Spend your time doing things that add value to your life.

oga, great men have or even still jerk off. Even you sef still self-services.. wanking isn't bad. wanking is
having a special relationship and bond with your body. Now why would anybody want to stop that?

Oh Son I feel sorry for you boy. Masturbation is bad, you need to work on your mind.
I wish I can pass you one correct kpekus to download tonight.

Stop watching porn and pray to God to help you overcome it. The rest will be history son

Stop using Android phone probably buy a phone that can only make call.

zicoraads:
Nairaland can be the worst place to come for advice. But, do these number of guys masturbate, or it's just a joke to them?!

babes masturbate too. it's just that girls keep theirs discreet.

99 percent of humans (including virgins) have masturbated at least 1 {once} before the age of 19

both male and female genders [monks and nuns] touch oneself.


i masturbated as a devil's alternative to keep my virginity, then quit masturbation and kept a clean sheet for 3 years, but fell back to it for some years before your guy finally quit.

you can stop by choice*.

use pepper spray as lubricant and masturbate your last.

hibeekay007:

oga, great men have or even still jerk off. Even you sef still self-services.. wanking isn't bad. wanking is
having a special relationship and bond with your body. Now why would anybody want to stop that?

So you mean great men masturbate four times daily like the op spending hours on an unproductive habit? Mind you, I said

Great men don't waste their time on useless and unproductive habits.

not that they don't at all. Please read.

By the way, when you say great men have or even still jerk, how do you know for certain? Are you there when they masturbate? Do you think everybody lives by the convectional standard? Point of correction, I have never masturbated in my life even though I have watched porn and it's been five years since I quit porn after a nine month ride in the habit. As a young man, if you want to be great and you have a crippling porn and masturbation habit then sorry for you.

if u are ready send me mail, uanene@yahoo.com

The key is simple but if u are not tot how will u know