Why is it that when you confront women caught cheating they deny then become violent and abusive as if to say "why did you catch me". If the person is/was your driver can you overcome the shame?

She WON'T

Akobaje, I sympathise with you. It seems you have lost your driver for sure. As per your wife, if you can get over the shame thats cool. It's all up to you.

PS. stop spending all ur time chasing that money and spend some time with your wife(or next wife) attending to her sexual needs. It will save you the stress of looking for a driver, gardener or houseboy again. Goodluck

How Old are you, Sir?

LOL, he has a driver so he is Sir? don't mind me though!

deniyor:

Akobaje, I sympathise with you. It seems you have lost your driver for sure. As per your wife, if you can get over the shame thats cool. It's all up to you.

PS. stop spending all your time chasing that money and spend some time with your wife(or next wife) attending to her sexual needs. It will save you the stress of looking for a driver, gardener or houseboy again. Goodluck

Unfortunately it is true that while chasing too much paper, someone else is taking care of your home (OP) and it happens to be your driver, such is life!

deniyor:

Akobaje, I sympathise with you. It seems you have lost your driver for sure. As per your wife, if you can get over the shame thats cool. It's all up to you.
PS. stop spending all your time chasing that money and spend some time with your wife(or next wife) attending to her sexual needs. It will save you the stress of looking for a driver, gardener or houseboy again. Goodluck

SA Goddess:

Unfortunately it is true that while chasing too much paper, someone else is taking care of your home (OP) and it happens to be your driver, such is life!

^^^^^^blaming the wife's infidelity on the husband lack of interest in the bedroom is a cheap shot.
if he was spending too much time at the office then wifey should have COMMUNICATE with her husband about her cootiecat being left out instead of simply jumping on driver's dikc.

a hoe will always and forever remain a hoe whether you fukc her 10 times a day or not!

@poster
what else can she do apart from trying to put the blame on you (reverse psychology) or simply cry and blame it all on the devil!? LOL.

driver will go six feet

ice234:

driver will go six feet

That's too hard, castrate the driver and send the whoree away.

Spyker:

That's too hard, castrate the driver and send the whoree away.

he will stil be alive and it wil hurt anytime u see him

This happened at the Nigeria LNG RA 1 on Bonny Island and the man had a nervous breakdown.

A married mother of five is begging a guy to sleep with her and said she did not care about hurting her husband.
And the husband is a hunk of a man.

Nigerian women often behave like dogs.

The man should sleep with the housegirl

It would be nice to castrate the driver, send the w, re away and all that but isnt it mindboggling that the woman concerned is well educated? I read that some poor guy had a nervous breakdown. That's just how serious it gets. Any other suggestions? What if one should expose them? What happens to the kids and the rest of the family?

We don't have a driver, so that hypothesis doesn't apply to us.

And my wife isn't a cheat.

would it be betta if it was ur gardener or door man
pls wat difference does it make who she cheated with===perharps if she had slept ur boss===u could hold ur head high with pride
trust me if my driver is hot as some can be=====am not talking about the babalawo looking ones
there r loads of drivers in nigeria that r very articulate and are drivers simply cos they kind find betta jobs n need to survive

men have been sleeping with house gals, friends and sisters etc wat is the effing big deal
after all if u cant beat them----which i know u cant----ur beta off joining in

vivaladiva:

would it be betta if it was your gardener or door man
pls wat difference does it make who she cheated with===perharps if she had slept your boss===u could hold your head high with pride
trust me if my driver is hot as some can be=====am not talking about the babalawo looking ones
there r loads of drivers in nigeria that r very articulate and are drivers simply cos they kind find betta jobs n need to survive

men have been sleeping with house gals, friends and sisters etc wat is the effing big deal
after all if u cant beat them----which i know u cant----your beta off joining in

Surely you are not married. I hope you find yourself with your megadi (babalawo type) when and if you get married.

even if i was married, my response would still be the same aite
wat has marriage got to do wiv my ability to think logically
ok so she f-c-uked d driver, WATS THE EFFING PROBLEM
would it be betta if she fu==cked ur boss

vivaladiva:

even if i was married, my response would still be the same aite
wat has marriage got to do wiv my ability to think logically
ok so she f-c-uked d driver, WATS THE EFFING PROBLEM
would it be betta if she fu==cked your boss

I see you need time to understand what marriage has to do with such situations (everything). It does not matter whether it was the boss or the megadi. The fact is that it was not the boss. it was the driver and this is not a hypothesis. My wish for you still stands

ok so wat do u want to do about ur cheating wife
i will tell u the diff btw catching ur wife with a driver or the boss, as far as naija is concerned

if na ur driver, u will fire ur driver and then proceed to fire ur wife
if na ur oga, u either suffer in silence or u fire ur self, when u fire ur self then perharps u can fire ur wife
if ur too afraid of returning to d job market, u will not only suffer in silence---u might even accept ur wife's appology---when she tells u it was the devil

do u get it now brick head

vivaladiva:

ok so wat do u want to do about your cheating wife
i will tell u the diff btw catching your wife with a driver or the boss, as far as naija is concerned

if na your driver, u will fire your driver and then proceed to fire your wife
if na your oga, u either suffer in silence or u fire your self, when u fire your self then perharps u can fire your wife
if your too afraid of returning to d job market, u will not only suffer in silence---u might even accept your wife's appology---when she tells u it was the devil

do u get it now brick head

Its not difficult to tell a naija woman.

if ur looking for my sympathy---u can def forget it
if u like u can cook ur wife n feed her to your dogs if it makes u happy

My wife cheating on me!! heavens be praised! I will sack the driver and send her to her parents for 3 months within which time i will scatter lagos red with excessive choooking