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My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by jiblotech: 7:27am On Oct 21, 2018
I'm not your usual victim, nor was my attacker your usual rapist. I'm one of the 9% of people who get raped who are male. And one of the 1% who was raped by a woman.

I was in my early 20s, and talking online to a woman on the internet. We kind of hit it off. I decided to do cross country vacation, and she suggested I stop by, spend a few days to a week at her school, that I could 'crash' in her apartment before resuming my trip.

That sounded ok, so when the time came, I packed up and started my road trip. In time, I was near her town, so I drove on in, gave her a phone call to get directions on just where in town her apartment was, and drove on over. She met me at the door, we hugged, and I gave her a little gift I'd brought along as a thank you for the invitation. We went inside, I put my bag down, she broke out some wine, and we talked for a while.

Her roommate arrived home at that point. A very large woman, I would have guessed her at more than twice my weight, since she was easily more than twice my size in volume. She grabbed a glass of wine too, and joined the conversation. She was pretty flirty, more so than I would have expected with a stranger, but I shrugged it off.

I thanked my online friend again for letting me stop over, and as she had things to do, I went out to explore the town for the rest of the afternoon, only coming back after grabbing a bite at a local diner.

My friend was headed out. She hadn't known exactly when I was arriving, and already had accepted a party invite. I was cool with that, I'd been driving quite a while that day and was already pretty tired when I got there, and my second wind was wearing off, so I decided to crash on the futon she'd indicated was for me.

I think I got a couple of hours of sleep, before I was woken up muzzy headed, with hands down my sweat pants, one of which had a fairly firm grip on a rather tender part. It was already somewhat dark out, and the curtains were pulled, so at first I didn't know who it was, but I assumed that my online friend was more friendly than I expected.

That assumption didn't last long, as the grip became painfully tight, and I was suddenly having a hard time breathing with a lot of naked weight on top of me. I was a bit naive, sexually, back then, and didn't know about 'cock rings' or using elastic bands to restrict the blood flow to the penis to cause and maintain an erection, but I learned that night that even a sufficiently tight grip can cause enough blood to pool and provide an erection even when you really weren't 'in the mood'.

I'm not going to get any more graphic, but let's just say I was used like an inflatable male doll by a woman I barely knew who was much larger than I was, and stronger. I was pretty much in shock, and not really thinking straight, but I remember thinking at the time that this just didn't happen to guys.

I don't know how long it lasted, as I was just trying really to breathe and not to think about what was going on, but after some time, she made a long moan, then got off me and left the room for her own room. Parts of me were in pain, and I seriously considered bolting out the door right then, but I was a long way from home, didn't know where any hotels were, hadn't really planned well enough to take along extra cash in case I needed one, and told myself she surely wouldn't be back that night.

So I switched into jeans and curled up, trying to get to sleep and not think about what had happened. I heard my online friend come back a couple hours later, trying to be quiet so as not to 'wake' me, and just pretended to be asleep.

The next morning, I packed up the little I had brought in quickly, and as soon as my friend woke up, I made up some bogus lie about having miscalculated the dates, and told her I had to leave, and couldn't stay for the week. I was on the road again in minutes, and I never saw either one again, nor spoke with my 'friend' online again.

I know it wasn't her fault, but it took me quite some time to start to think logically about the whole thing, and not simply to try and pretend it never happened.

Yes, I was traumatized, and it took me more than a few years to fully put it 'behind me'. But it's good that I can, because where a woman who is raped by a man can always get sympathy, both from men and women, I generally get disbelief and belittling comments.

I'm a man, and I was raped by a woman. So I just don't matter.

Continue reading @ https://mystoryxyz..com/2018/10/my-story-how-i-was-raped-by-woman-man.html
cc @ lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique, seun
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by daddytime(m): 7:30am On Oct 21, 2018
Lol
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by PUSSYBBQGRILLS(f): 7:39am On Oct 21, 2018
Some men dey find women wey go rape them o.

Forget story.

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Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Nwodosis(m): 7:53am On Oct 21, 2018
May be you are a hay and yet to own up, a lot of straight men are in desire to be raped by a woman!
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by IamD18: 8:14am On Oct 21, 2018
PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
[s] Some men dey find women wey go rape them o.

Forget story.[/s]
Nwodosis:
[s] May be you are a hay and yet to own up, a lot of straight men are in desire to be raped by a woman! [/s]

Silly, unreasonable and stupid comments like these are the reasons why male-rape-victims are not taken serious in our society.

A big disgrace to humanity, that's what you both are.

Spits angry

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Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Kingosytex(m): 8:24am On Oct 21, 2018
noted!!

where is NwaAmaikpe sef?

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Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:24am On Oct 21, 2018
PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Some men dey find women wey go rape them o.

Forget story.

And this is what you have to say?. If it was the other way round ,you would have been masturbating all over the thread calling men scum. Hypocrite.

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Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Kingosytex(m): 8:26am On Oct 21, 2018
PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Some men dey find women wey go rape them o.

Forget story.


are you one of them?
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Biingoo: 8:33am On Oct 21, 2018
My friend shut up and Goan sit down! rape kee you there!
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 21, 2018
I am a believer, I believe.
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Khd95(m): 10:43am On Oct 21, 2018
Na comments I come read
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by fr3do(m): 11:19am On Oct 21, 2018
I feel for the writer, because his attacker was fat.
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by SignatureNG(f): 2:28pm On Oct 21, 2018
fr3do:
I feel for the writer, because his attacker was fat.

you no well grin grin

check my signature
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by victoronyekwelu(m): 7:59pm On Oct 21, 2018
really wanna experience this sh!t still trying to figure out how a woman will rape a man
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by oyatz(m): 10:00am On Oct 22, 2018
If na me, I will be begging her (the rapist) to continue and come back the following day.
I don't know why women to like raping men
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Deckline(m): 11:18am On Oct 22, 2018
Lies... Lies everywhere!!
Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by Auladimeji1: 12:47pm On Oct 22, 2018
fr3do:
I feel for the writer, because his attacker was fat.

Re: My Story: "How I Was Raped By A Woman" - A Man Recounts His Ordeal by jiblotech: 6:50am On Oct 27, 2018
jiblotech:
I'm not your usual victim, nor was my attacker your usual rapist. I'm one of the 9% of people who get raped who are male. And one of the 1% who was raped by a woman.

I was in my early 20s, and talking online to a woman on the internet. We kind of hit it off. I decided to do cross country vacation, and she suggested I stop by, spend a few days to a week at her school, that I could 'crash' in her apartment before resuming my trip.

That sounded ok, so when the time came, I packed up and started my road trip. In time, I was near her town, so I drove on in, gave her a phone call to get directions on just where in town her apartment was, and drove on over. She met me at the door, we hugged, and I gave her a little gift I'd brought along as a thank you for the invitation. We went inside, I put my bag down, she broke out some wine, and we talked for a while.

Her roommate arrived home at that point. A very large woman, I would have guessed her at more than twice my weight, since she was easily more than twice my size in volume. She grabbed a glass of wine too, and joined the conversation. She was pretty flirty, more so than I would have expected with a stranger, but I shrugged it off.

I thanked my online friend again for letting me stop over, and as she had things to do, I went out to explore the town for the rest of the afternoon, only coming back after grabbing a bite at a local diner.

My friend was headed out. She hadn't known exactly when I was arriving, and already had accepted a party invite. I was cool with that, I'd been driving quite a while that day and was already pretty tired when I got there, and my second wind was wearing off, so I decided to crash on the futon she'd indicated was for me.

I think I got a couple of hours of sleep, before I was woken up muzzy headed, with hands down my sweat pants, one of which had a fairly firm grip on a rather tender part. It was already somewhat dark out, and the curtains were pulled, so at first I didn't know who it was, but I assumed that my online friend was more friendly than I expected.

That assumption didn't last long, as the grip became painfully tight, and I was suddenly having a hard time breathing with a lot of naked weight on top of me. I was a bit naive, sexually, back then, and didn't know about 'cock rings' or using elastic bands to restrict the blood flow to the penis to cause and maintain an erection, but I learned that night that even a sufficiently tight grip can cause enough blood to pool and provide an erection even when you really weren't 'in the mood'.

I'm not going to get any more graphic, but let's just say I was used like an inflatable male doll by a woman I barely knew who was much larger than I was, and stronger. I was pretty much in shock, and not really thinking straight, but I remember thinking at the time that this just didn't happen to guys.

I don't know how long it lasted, as I was just trying really to breathe and not to think about what was going on, but after some time, she made a long moan, then got off me and left the room for her own room. Parts of me were in pain, and I seriously considered bolting out the door right then, but I was a long way from home, didn't know where any hotels were, hadn't really planned well enough to take along extra cash in case I needed one, and told myself she surely wouldn't be back that night.

So I switched into jeans and curled up, trying to get to sleep and not think about what had happened. I heard my online friend come back a couple hours later, trying to be quiet so as not to 'wake' me, and just pretended to be asleep.

The next morning, I packed up the little I had brought in quickly, and as soon as my friend woke up, I made up some bogus lie about having miscalculated the dates, and told her I had to leave, and couldn't stay for the week. I was on the road again in minutes, and I never saw either one again, nor spoke with my 'friend' online again.

I know it wasn't her fault, but it took me quite some time to start to think logically about the whole thing, and not simply to try and pretend it never happened.

Yes, I was traumatized, and it took me more than a few years to fully put it 'behind me'. But it's good that I can, because where a woman who is raped by a man can always get sympathy, both from men and women, I generally get disbelief and belittling comments.

I'm a man, and I was raped by a woman. So I just don't matter.

Continue reading @ https://mystoryxyz..com/2018/10/my-story-how-i-was-raped-by-woman-man.html
cc @ lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique, seun

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