olunifemi:

Romantic Comrades,

Words have been going around the world that Nigerian men are not romantic at all. All they know is 'babe whats up, can i insert my manhood in you?".

All of you know that buying flowers, chocolates etc is not our culture, but why are these women complaining?

Is it not these same women that will curse you if you go to their house in Naija with flowers instead of a bowl of tastee fried chicken on your left hand and a recharge phone card on your right hand?

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Nigerian women, what else do y'all want men to do in order to pass the romantic test?

Guys, what do you think you can do to update your romance library?

happy easter to you all.

davidylan:

You are a thief.

ikamefa:

how?

evil_mia:

being romantic doesn't mean buying your girl expensive gifts. you can be romantic even if you down have much money. Being romantic is seen by the act itself and not measured by how much material things you can give your girl. You can Burn your girl a CD of her favorite songs, call her to just to say you miss her, send her sweet text messages, cook her favorite food sometimes, walk in the park while holding each others hand, do wholesome activities together, go to church and profess your love for her in front of the altar, the list are endless,

omoge:

those lil kisses, (not chopping mouth )
those[b] lil pecks[/b]
those lil strolling and holding hands
those lil whispers of sweet nothing
those lil chats and adivce to each other
those 'hey, how is your day going'
those studying together in the library and stealing look
those ''i love yous''- Enough Naija guys can do this without sweatin' it.
those carrying her when she says ''sweetie, i hurt my foot''
those horseplay
those text message

so much more,

be a gentleman to your lady that's Romance.

Busta:

sometimes, things are best left the way they are.

but tha babes really like the simple wats up can i put ma "zoom zoom in your boom boom"

adconline:

Sometimes Naija women always think that most naija men are not romantic and here is my argument.

If this is really true, then it happens that women have not taught them. Men cannot learn romantic treatment from men, assuming that most Nigerian men are heterosexual.
If this is really true, then it happens that men have not imbibed romantic values from their parents. Our moms never treated our dads romantically and our dads never treated our moms romanctically as defined by western standard.
If this is really true, then its becuase women have not challenged Naija men to be more romantically involved instead of serving as breadwinners, bill payers and providers.
If this is really true, then its becuase women have not prefered chocolates and flowers over recharge cards, Tantalizers and Mister Bigs

adconline:

please remember naija where there are few parks in the city, let's remember naija where few people have access to internet let alone owning computers. Let's remember Naija where romance may mean a different thing to comon folks on the street

donenick:

@Olunifemi
how many men have u met that re not romantic?