Guys I'm really grateful for all your contributions, thanks a lot.

She called on Tuesday evening still asking me that what is problem. I then express myself to her and told her what she did is not proper. She then felt a bit provoked telling me that I don't trust and Love her. Hearing her statement, that really pissed me off. So I took a bold decision to quit the relationship when blew the news to her over the phone. Telling her is over between the two of us, saying too that I don't want us to be seeing each other again (as people who wish to stay together forever).
But could you believe this, that same evening around 10:45pm she came to my place (she never did that). She said that I should take the Holy Bible and say to her that I don't love her (God knows that that is impossible). I then responded to her that if she really say she loves me, then why would she go on doing things that will hurt me. She then insist that there is nothing between her and the guy. I finally insist that she should live me alone and go back to her mothers home. She tried to kiss me and I pushed her away. She came back holding me and crying, which lasted up to an hour. As she cries, I didn't say anything. From the look of things then, it seems she is not living, she is not going back home, she was ready to stay through out the night (she had never slept before at my place). So around 12 midnight I had no choice but to forgive her and warned her not to do things that will hurt me again. She then agreed and promised that such will not happen again, then I took her home.

Now she is always flashing me (greeting) on phone sending text that She loves me. After work yesterday she came to my place and spent the remaining time with me for the day. Now she is at my work place for a visit.

The text is just too looong to read, couldnt you have sumarized the story?

Can we suspend this thread now? - Atleast until you catch her doing another neighbor!

Always remember 2 use ur condom. .one mistake can ruin ur life.

Lol@omo~fat

Thanks a lot guys

Did you address the part where she goes to the other guy's room or make her swear by that bible that nothing has happened between her and the other guy. Cos if u did not address the problem itself, you just postponed the evil day.

person don solve problem, una still dey find solution

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DEATH,
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It's boring when there is no problem. Bad for business

deniyor:

Did you address the part where she goes to the other guy's room or make her swear by that bible that nothing has happened between her and the other guy. Cos if u did not address the problem itself, you just postponed the evil day.

She swore with the Bible, that she did nothing with the guy, thanks.

kpolli:

person don solve problem, una still dey find solution

Thanks again. All I can do is put my trust in God, let HIM choose the path that best fit me.

Did you address the part where she goes to the other guy's room or make her swear by that bible that nothing has happened between her and the other guy. Cos if u did not address the problem itself, you just postponed the evil day.

Exactly, at least to find her guilty, should in case their is need for future reference.

roots:

She swore with the Bible, that she did nothing with the guy, thanks.
Thanks again. All I can do is put my trust in God, let HIM choose the path that best fit me.

funny!i've been in ur situation. .dis particular girl also swore with d Bible and i later found out she was lying.
Desperate women will do anything 2 survive. .i was only fooled once. .now i be chairman 4 women affairs.

boy1:

funny!i've been in your situation. .dis particular girl also swore with d Bible and i later found out she was lying.
Desperate women will do anything 2 survive. .i was only fooled once. .now i be chairman 4 women affairs.

Thanks bro. I'm careful, I will not allow emotions to drive me. It's her own problem even she swore or not, myself I will just be careful and observe her.

deniyor:


It's boring when there is no problem. Bad for business

lol!!!

mmm!watch her closely and decide if u still want 2 go ahead with d relationship.
Have u ever thought of tying d knot b4 she gains admission 2 uni.?

omofat:
Guy man, I feel your pain.

But the truth is there is probably very little you can do. No amount of warning or ultimatum will stop your woman from going to see this chap.

Trust me. She has developed 'a thing' and she wont stop. You are in a no-win situation; If you make noise about it, she will do it secretly or she will kuku leave you altogether. If you dont make noise about it, then you will live in silent pain and she will still leave you. If you leave her first then she will say you overreacted and that shebi there was nothing going on. You cannot win!

Until she goes and sees what's behind the door and maybe gets a few of her fingers burned, she will not listen to you.

Sadly, a lot of people have to experience certain things before they learn. Your woman is one of such.

Grin, bear it and hope for the best.

you have said it all

Look @ dem wif 3D ...buh warn her dah if she gets Pregnant ...dat u won't be held responsible ...Act normal ..don't get intimate wif her again ...Look for anoda geh and get friendly wif her ..make her jealous and I bet u she would realize dat u guyz are drifting apart and she wuld reset

roots:
Guys I really appreciate u all.

She looks so innocent and gentle after her Dad abandon. I love her passion to be educated, she looks nice too.

Guys, I did threatening her in the past, that is better to quit the relationship. I even told her that I'm moving far away from her to stay with a friend for weeks. But hearing that she cried with her heart beating fast to the extent that she nearly collapse and maybe die. Now I'm even scared to tell her that again because of the past incidence. what do you think I should do. Thanks alot.

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How old r u? D girl is seeing the other guy..stop being neive