| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dididrumz(m): 12:03pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! The guy asked for advice not for insults, why are you behaving like this? Na wah to some of una ohh |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Groovenaija360(m): 12:04pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Guy you messed up big time  Why didn't launch the business by your self and then put her der to manage it  You trusted her for half a milli, chai Which Family problem did she solve? That was what she told you, now what if she used the cash for her personal dealings nko? Open her own business elsewhere, save the cash in her account, do fix deposit. She even used the cash without telling you?? Guy, guy, guy, remove your shoes now................ oya run for your dear life 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dottore: 12:04pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!
To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!
If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!! Na wao. Would you say the same thing if your brother was the guy in question. The kind of things people put in their homes as wives sha |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by stagger: 12:04pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
ramselly:
My Relationship Is Tearing Me Apart
Hello Nairalanders!
Please i need mature advice only.
I and my girlfriend have been dating since 2015, she has always been supportive in everything and every business i do, thou we dont stay in same part of the country.
I have always told her i cannot settle for less and i cannot get married to a lady who cannot manage her resources and make do with what was available as i want the best for us. In 2016 we talked about setting up something for her to do so as to keep her busy and so i had to enrol her to catering school where she learnt baking n so many more. Fast farward to 2017 january, we planned in opening a shop for her, in july 2017 she got the quotation of roughly 700k for the shop opening the shop and buying Goods for the shop, In september 2017 i sent her 500k for her to commense with the opening of the shop but to my greatest suprise she never used the money for the purpose rather she used it in settling family issues. Its been a year now and i intend quitting the relationship because its not what i planned 4. Please i need matured advice. Sorry if my points re not clear enough. You have goten a foretaste of what is to come. This is no wife material. 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Uguruzik(m): 12:04pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! Chineke m eeeh! This is seriously TERRIBLE. What a poor family. Without a boyfriend una go peme abi? Use your head next time don't come here and disgrace your family. 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by AnanseK(m): 12:05pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Christmas budget...��
1. Peruvian hair= N50,000
2. Shoes= 75,000
3. Clothes= 63,000
4. Inner wears= 10,000
5. Phone= iPhone 8
6. Makeup= 15,000
7. Fixing of cat eyes= 12,000
8.watch = 10,000
9.jewelries= 16,000
10. Pocket money= 55,000
11. Human hair= 20,000
Total= N 326,000
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Source of Money
1. Peter womanizer= 30,000
2. Chukwudi mumu= 15,000
3. Umez big head= 25,000
4. Kayode mouth odour= 10,000
5. Vincent married man= 40,000
6. Paul big belle= 15,000
7. James driver = 10,000
8. Boy friend= 5,000
9. Mumu 5= 30,000
10. Ebuka Facebook= 10,000
11. Emma church= 15,000
12. Michel neigbhour= 10,000
13. Philip course mate= 3000
14. Alhaji abuja= iphone 8
15. David village = 20,000
16. Akin Facebook= 10,000
17. Frank Onitsha= 15,000
18. Donalex Facebook= 15,000
19. Chigozie hard face=10,000
20. Chidi stingy man= 4500
21. Paul k leg= 20,000
Hustling starts December 1st. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by mob4ever: 12:06pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Sad she lied to u, she should have jst told u what exactly she want to use the money for. I hate lies. |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by ovieokodhi(m): 12:07pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! response from a typical gold digger, so what's wrong in using the proceeds from the investment in settling her family issues? I pity your future. 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by josephubah111(m): 12:07pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Oloshooo Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by aluko360(m): 12:08pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! Clap for yourself... When you grow older and you are lucky to be gainfully employed or probably a business owner, you will understand that money spent should be well accoounted for. From your post it is obvious that men fund your lifestyle and its people like you that keep sugar daddies ,ritual killers and yahoo boys in business. By the way, what value is left in a lady who squandered all the capital meant for her business. I am 100% sure she wont do what she did if she got the capital from a finance house. 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dottore: 12:08pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! baffles me how ladies think their pussy is an investment. Reasonable ladies have values and are hardworking and are asserts to their men. My sisters are good examples. Thank God Wh0res are revealing themselves 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 12:09pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.
How is she a useless girl.
Its not by force to be in a relationship
If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.
Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man At times I always wonder why God wasted His energy to create this kinda useless low self esteemed hungry b1tch like u... u are just a waste of time and a potential hungry hoe-losho with worthless value 2 Likes |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by loadedvibes: 12:09pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Was just gonna read comments and laugh and go.. But bros you get sense and E show say you grow with your papa and mamma plus your papa na real man. Shalom man ogasharpsharp:
OP you know why I like you? Because your spirit man is strong, and it is this spirit man in you that is urging you to quit the relationship and run while you still can.
No matter how much I love a girl I can never drop up to 100k (even 50k, I don't give cash I rather spend) at once on her but you dropped a whopping 500k. Now, take a look at how the ladies on this thread are trying to trivialise that large sum of money, that's half a mil right there!
Trust me when I say most of them have never seen that amount of money in one go. Their account balance will testify. But they will tell you that "How much is even 500k sef?" Never encourage stùpidity in a woman because that is their default settings and it is your job as a man to correct that otherwise you bounce.
Investing money on a girl is like pouring water in a basket, it will never be enough. And these girls never have to make such sacrifices so they don't know what it takes and how it hurts when an agreement between two parties is reneged upon. Abi you no get family wey need half a mil? Abi you dey crase ni?
End the relationship as your spirit being is telling you, she will still do more as the relationship progresses, especially if she gets away with this criminal act of hers without any consequences. Yes, what she did is criminal but being a woman (synonym for stùpidity) she will try to shame and blame you for it (Baby you are not understanding, you don't really love me, etc).
A REAL man must always train his babe to know that for every transgression against him there will always be dire consequences otherwise see-finish will occur. Shalom!
PS - Never spend such money again on a woman unless she is your wife. They don't have sense! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Replay07(m): 12:09pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
FzanyAjibs:
Most ladies you meet are supportive. They can play that you role with care, advices or just their emotional presence so leave that out.
Now, here is the deal: Half a million is a big deal.
That amount can do some things or even bulk up if you have fix it in ALAT.
I trust that you've learnt now that you should never spend Big on any girl that isn't engaged (formal family introduced ) to your family.
Family problems would always be there. One cousin needs WAEC money, a brother needs this or that, the painful thing you might discover is that some part of the money might have been spent on less important stuffs like new phones, aso ebi, etc and not critical stuff like health, etc.
500k would have settled a lot except she paid house rent for someone. Maybe another guy.
You appear to be the one considering a breakup. Guess what I think : She might be thinking just the same too. I'm fact, she might be planning to serve you a line soonest.
She needs to be taught how to spend money. She needs to make up for the money. This can't end in 'I am sorry' or rounds of sex (if at all) else she would do it again.
If managing resources is the only issue you have with her, I can bet that she is not a bad woman. You should strive to maintain your relationship and push to marriage aptly.
You can't find the perfect human. Even you aren't perfect. She needs to know how big the problem is.
She may not have squandered the money if the 700k were complete.
You should know the situation na.
She was happy you helped her.
She can't touch the money.
But it's not complete.
She had a lone 500k in her account. Which probably never happened before.
She must have bragged about her balance to a sibling.
Or one mistakenly spotted it while playing with her phone. Then tells others.
A need arises and they push the question to her.
Sade, do you have up to 45k with you? Lekan needs to resume school and as you can see, there is no money at home. I'll return to you by ending. (never happens)
She must have faced difficult dilemma but had no choice. She sent the money and the moment its less than 500, it starts raising down to like 25k.
She can't dare tell you nor ask you for any more money during that time. So she started taking out of it for hair, nails (if at all) and other ladies thing.
When the money reached 280k, her brain booted up, she realized how much was gone already and started feeling bad. She redefines her shop ambition to a smaller plan. But she would need 350k to do that. She needs just 70k more.
Feliz, her ex has been disturbing her for some time now. She noticed things have changed for him since he came back to Nigeria from his masters at UK. She realized she can just play smile for a little and perhaps raise the 70k or even more from him. So things went south. She spent a few more (30k) on cloths and accessories to look better around Feliz.
Now with 100k to remake, she did everything with Felix, but got only 20k during the entire week of hard labour in the other room. What a shame. Felix lives a fake life and wasn't really buzzed up as she thought.
Well, she spent the remaining of that month attending to some other men that have been on the wait list.
She made the 100k laslas. And tried to get a lower shop behind you. You found out and questioned her on why. She claimed she reduced her taste and is okay on this new level.
I am tired of writing. Lots can happen. Lots would have happened.
Next time,
If the budget is 700k and you know you can afford 500k.
Tell her it's ready. Tell her to bring 200k.
Since you're dating her, you should know her work and her income strength. If she has no job, where did you expect her to raise 200k from? Her family?
Lastly, keep the woman and appreciate her.. Visit her family once in a while and see how life is for them over there. You are going to be part of the family too if you proceed.
very nice comment. U neva can tell what happened exactly if u don't take time to get to the root of the problem. 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by inereunwa1(m): 12:10pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
SantiRAMBO:
I don't know when guys will have sense
Lets gather here and pray for this brother... #SayNoToEmotionalSlavery
The girl is not sensible, she's got the brain of a fish and the earlier you look elsewhere for love the better for you.. Many girls will worship you for giving dem 500k and here you are wasting it on a dullard in the name of relationship. and yet some people are complaining that it's not still enough greedy |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 12:10pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!
To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!
If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!! Are your parents really proud of your fish brain and hunger status?... I weep for you |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Tolani0167(m): 12:11pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Why re ladies so selfish 500k and u call a man broke ass? Some ladies are meant to stay unmarried for life. Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Alphaman007: 12:11pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.
How is she a useless girl.
Its not by force to be in a relationship
If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.
Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man sister you for just keep quiet dey read comments if you know you're not intellectually capable of giving reasonable comments |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
All these girls bashing this dude for sending his hard earned money are simply Stupid.
I have made a covenant with my God that I will never date a dependent girl let alone a broke girl. I will not pay your fees, your rent, your shopping as long as I have a "boyfriend status".
Enough of all these bullshit!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! Sorry, how old are you?... u the think like an unfortunate cheap Biitch... u are a disgrace to this generation 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Jewingle(m): 12:12pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
highqueen:
Mtchew.
You are very stingy.
To even think that you spent months before sending the damn money after she helped you with your business and everything.
She has been supportive yet you still wanna wave that off by quitting.
Na your type deh tell their wives not to help their family members.
Mtchew mumu |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Edge1(m): 12:12pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.
How is she a useless girl.
Its not by force to be in a relationship
If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.
Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man Why are you this shameless?  1 Like 
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| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by bukatyne(f): 12:13pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.
How is she a useless girl.
Its not by force to be in a relationship
If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.
Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man Did you read the OP? Obviously not! |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by njimezz(m): 12:13pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
jUST LISTEN TO URSELF AND I KNOW U ARE A GIRL, AUNTY IF SAY THE BOY IN QUESTION IS UR BROTHER U GO HAPPY. SHE SHOULD TOLD THE YOUNG MAN RATHER THAN USING HIS MONEY FOR FAMILY ISSUES AND WHAT IF THE YOUNG MAN BORROWED THE MONEY AS LOAN, U'LL TALK THIS RUBBISH. NA WA OOOOOO FOR ALL THIS SLAY QUEEN WITHOUT BRAIN. WHO TOLD U THAT THE YOUNG MAN DOESN'T HAVE RESPONSIBILITIES ABI. U HAVE TELL GUYS U BELONG TO THOSE CLASS OF GIRLS WHO ARE LAZY AND JOBLESS TOO Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 12:13pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
highqueen:
Mtchew.
You are very stingy.
To even think that you spent months before sending the damn money after she helped you with your business and everything.
She has been supportive yet you still wanna wave that off by quitting.
Na your type deh tell their wives not to help their family members.
Mtchew Oloriburuku, how much is your papa’s salary in a decade?... All these one pants with one bra girl with cheap bleaching cream forming posh.. no people like u their papa dey write okada wey you as a daughter dey sell your smelling hole.. hoe-losho 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 12:13pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
ramselly:
My Relationship Is Tearing Me Apart
Hello Nairalanders!
Please i need mature advice only.
I and my girlfriend have been dating since 2015, she has always been supportive in everything and every business i do, thou we dont stay in same part of the country.
I have always told her i cannot settle for less and i cannot get married to a lady who cannot manage her resources and make do with what was available as i want the best for us. In 2016 we talked about setting up something for her to do so as to keep her busy and so i had to enrol her to catering school where she learnt baking n so many more. Fast farward to 2017 january, we planned in opening a shop for her, in july 2017 she got the quotation of roughly 700k for the shop opening the shop and buying Goods for the shop, In september 2017 i sent her 500k for her to commense with the opening of the shop but to my greatest suprise she never used the money for the purpose rather she used it in settling family issues. Its been a year now and i intend quitting the relationship because its not what i planned 4. Please i need matured advice. Sorry if my points re not clear enough. First of all, you'll have to forgive her... Perhaps it could be there was really issues to settle at home, we all have had that kind of challenge come to us. Then when you've forgiven her, give her more trials and test till you know she is the perfect companion for you. And please, my brother marry a girl who is born again, and walks in the Lord... You wouldn't bother if she's the right one, because you'll know she is the right one. God bless you. |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by handsomeyitayo(m): 12:13pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!! Werey ni e... how much do you expect to be spent on you.. your type needed to be use for money ritual..at least 500k he tried..in this Nigerian economy . some people are looking for that amount to invest in business .. idiotic fool ole ....ajibole .. you are a broke ass too ...If to say am around you I would have dealt you mercilessly not beating ...but hmmmm...did dey agree on that ? She said she needs it for business not family issues.. you said he is a broke ass.. all they know is money... foolish idiotic ..the yu think is easy to get money ... Ladies like yu needed to suffer ... You will be the one that will broke in Jesus name...
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Ganamustgo(m): 12:14pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.
How is she a useless girl.
Its not by force to be in a relationship
If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.
Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man Its either you didn't read the post or you can't comprehend it. The money was budgeted for starting a business, not for family problem. I'll advise the guy to use his head. |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Princedapace(m): 12:16pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Bizibi:
I won't bother myself about setting up a business for a gf/fiancee,the best I can do is get a high paying job for her but if she is a serious person that want to be in business then I can help her and even go extra length to expand the business after seeing its growth.some Nigeria ladies are not really good in business,it is better getting them a paying job. U have a point. Most of them can't create wealth.. But jobs are hard to get. That is why we sometimes resort to this.. Seriously, naija guys dey try.. 1 Like |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by benswagtt(m): 12:17pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! you should have said you needed another father... |
| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by bossrillboss: 12:18pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!
To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!
If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!! 
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| Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by kinibigdeal(m): 12:20pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!
If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!
You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!! 
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