Just because someone is a father of 4 doesn't mean they are old and shouldn't be going out to enjoy themselves.

I dont know what it is with these white bitches and Nigerian men.

THE AMAKA:

for 1, im not angry, im correcting you. and I'm Nigerian-American, not stuck in between. so you think you're insulting who again? 
just accept the fact that you're wrong and ignorant.
so to say "I thought only Nigerian girls could do such a thing, not white people" is just ridiculous. you don't even live in a society for the basis of comparison, you are just going off of what you believe.
tell me what makes you think these white people are such angels, and Nigerian girls are so evil to be the ones that only do such?
your "opinion" is very ignorant.

shoeflower:

@ Outstrip -I am still wondering why a father of four is hanging out at night clubs getting drunk and why his wife seems to be blaming everything and everyoen else except her husband

Just because someone is a father of 4 doesn't mean they are old and shouldn't be going out to enjoy themselves. Me and my husband, who is still relatively young by the way, have always partied together. If you had read the post properly, you would have noticed that I had just had a baby at the time he strayed. The fact that he actually went out without me at that time is still something that we argue about although I am aware that we were having a few problems at that time and living in this certain part of Europe has taken its toll on both of us. And I don't know where you get the idea that I am blaming everyone else apart from him. Do you live in our house? Do you know what we have gone through since this has happened? Do you really think he would just say sorry and I would accept it and everything would be ok like it was before - get real. It's been hell for us. He did what he did by choice - drunk or otherwise. There is absolutely no excuse for it! This is something, as husband and wife, that we are going to have to work through for the next few years or so if we survive that long.
[b]The white girl confirmed that the condom had split and that it was a one off! However, she refused to take the morning after pill the next day to avoid any possible pregnancy. He gave her one of his email addresses for her to contact him to confirm that she had taken it. He didnt hear from her for a while until she decided to disclose that she was pregnant and wanted to keep the baby as she was getting old (30!) He didnt answer her mails and she kept sending them  complaining that he wasn't helping her throughout her pregnancy etc. She is cheeky! [/b]Did she really expect that he would leave me to go and rub her swollen feet? She got what she wanted but is now harrassing him like she is the wife and he is living with his mistress. This is a case of fatal attraction! He doesnt comunicate with her at all and and I know this by what she writes in the mail that she hasnt seen him since that night etc. However since he mentioned DNA she seems to have gone a bit quiet. We need to know if the child is his or some other foolish black man. If it's his then we will do what we have to do. If not, good luck with her trying to find her baby daddy! Hope she teaches the child to keep her legs closed when it comes to other peoples husbands. I dont know what it is with these white bitches and Nigerian men.

shoeflower:

This relationship may not survive his infidelity.

davidylan:

kiss and make-up. He was just sowing his wild oats.