please help me out because i cant digest alone, there was this guy am in love with and it reciprocate back but there is age difference between us, well am 22years and his 36years and he has a child and i still love him cos he tells me immediately we met and he called me that he scared of me cos his thoughting may be i will leave him on the way or may be my parent will disagree with me, so he called me and say i shouldn't give him response now that i should go and digest it and share with people b4 giving him answer cos relationship is not a 5 years journey, pls advice .

Dang!!!the age difference is just too much WTF

double08:

Dang!!!the age difference is just too much WTF

I dnt think so!!! as a woman before she gave birth to 3-4kids, her looks will march with the man's.

@ poster so far he can take care of you and you love him, no big deal!!!

@poster
at least he is/was fully honest with you.
the age difference is something to consider but NOT a major problem. . . . . . . just remember that when you will be 34 and still young and full of energy, that guy will turn 50. also that you may not have the same desire in the long run.

i think you guys should date for a while and see how it goes FIRST then in some few months then make up your mind about it all.

U wanna marry a grandpa?
Come on, say 'yes' to that young guy in your area.

The age difference too much, ooooooooooooo,caution ur self first.oooooooo

Thoughting

Anyway, if you don't mind the age gap, I don't think his child is an issue!

What you should be considering is if he has what you want in a husband.
Do you love him that much and can you Torrance him for the rest of your life?
Age is not the main issue in marriage.Their are other more important things you should check.

Go for it,

@ post, the age diff is too much, remember that men get tired easily on bed as soon as they clock 40

Aprilmay:

remember that men get tired easily on bed as soon as they clock 40

I beg to disagree.

Love is all that matters.