Eberechi24:
All am seeing is sex sex sex, So sex is definition of relationship?

I will hold on to friendship that impact my life positively over sex freak relationship.

PUSSYHOE:
Like you don't get paid for it.

PUSSYHOE:
Like you don't get paid for it.

Eberechi24:
All am seeing is sex sex sex, So sex is definition of relationship?

I will hold on to friendship that impact my life positively over sex freak relationship.

HardMirror:
nonsense as usual. This thread is a reply to toks2008's thread which also centred on sex so how should i address a topic that relates to sex without talking about sex? I hail ur current boyfriend for enduring such a low iq

Eberechi24:


Low IQ? because I commented on your thread. Truly It was wrong of me to comment on your thread. I am truly sorry, it won't happen again.

Sorry.

Saffi:
You have given him sex from the first month of knowing you. Given him all the styles and never denied him sex, what’s there to look for in marriage? I think what toks was trying to say is stop giving wifely duties to boyfriends. It doesn’t make sense. You have to be strategic when it comes to getting married, I’m so sorry. In this generation of lazy laid back men who do not want commitment if you’re not strategic you’ll have egg splattered all over your face.

Now if after a year, both of you are of a certain age let’s say mid to late 20s and he’s not made any suggestions about marriage, made efforts about taking you the isle, what is he doing? If you’ve shown you’re worthy, and he claims he loves you why is he not taking that extra step? They’re some exceptional cases, but for the most part of a man sees a future with you, he’s not going to waste time and allow the years to go by without putting a ring on it. He’s thinking about children and your fertile years, he’s thinking about other men who could possibly take his place, he’s thinking about the pressure you may receive from family. All I’m saying is that women should be smart and read in between the lines.

highpriestess:
I kinda of agree with toks2008.

If we ladies should stop opening for guys, I think they will hasten up with whatever plans they have or leave the relationship.

HardMirror:
many of my married friends infact over 90% of them were having sex with their gf that they are now married and now wives. tell that no sex story to the gods. he wont dump you because you have sex together. he would dump you for other reasons. stop being deceived. you girls make sex so special because it is the only thing most of u offer in the relationship.

HardMirror:
is this a joke? so a guy would commit to marriage because of sex? sex that a hundred other girls would give for free? this must be a joke. so a guy would hurry up because he want to have sex with you. then if he does not enjoy the sex i guess he would also hasten to divorce you. smh. #fishbrains

HardMirror:
Yesterday a thread made front page and the advice to single ladies was to abstain from premarital sex and dump any guy that does not propose marriage to you within a year.

This is one of the most unrealistic and useless advises ever!

This advice would worsen your situation. How do i know? You should stop listening to theories and start being practical. Best way to know what works is to study what has worked already.

1. No sex before marriage.
One of the most hypocritical advises ever invented!!! Fact!
Do you have friends that are married? Ask them if they never had sex before they eventually married each other. Experience as shown me that sex never discourages a man from getting married to you. On the contrary it has lead to many marriages.

Before you deny him, are you even a virgin? If your guy is the type that needs sex once a while and you dont give him, i laugh at your fooolishness. He would soon bed a girl that would make him dump you real fast. Most girls i know also want occasional sexual pleasures, why not make each other happy?

If you dont want to have sex before marriage do it for better reasons not as strategy to keep a man.

2. Dump a guy that does not propose to you within a year.
Another advice that would destroy your chances of getting married.
You will endup dumping guys till you die!
We guys dont like desperate ladies. Infact we flee from desperate ladies. Once you start forcing marriage into our discussions, just know that even if the guy was planning to marry you that year, he would start getting stressed with your desperation. We dont want a girl that cannot work with our plans.
I am still trying to build my business and all you contribute is marriage marriage marriage.

I just made N5million and told you then you start calculating that we are ready for marriage.

The number one thing you can do for a guy is to support his hustle. He will marry you before any other girl. You know why? Very few ladies contribute anything to a guy's life. If you are the type that is supporting his hustle in fact you even cook for him once a while because you know he had a busy day trying to make ends meet. He would sleep that night thinking of you and how he is not ready to lose you.


Many guys married girls you will call ugly because of this. They know she is not beautiful but they would tell her she is the most beautiful lady in the world just because she makes them happy


Candid advice form your boy -Hardmirror

Dont let toks2008 use his advice to destroy your relationship

Toks2008:


Your thread is dead on arrival cos you did not even comprehend my thread in the first place.

1. Is sex outside marriage right in the first instance?

2. Is discussing marriage the same as proposing marriage.

I don't use vulgar words online but you are a confirmed olodo.

Saffi:
Giving them sex but how often and how soon? Were they performing wifely duties for their boyfriends continuously? Did they give everything for free without a ring? I think that’s exactly what toks was trying to say, because of course most couples of this generation have sex at least a few time before marriage, but it’s the way you go about if. I don’t expect you guys to agree with him, most of you want to chop everything for free without comitment but actions will always speak louder than words. You’re saying girls make sex such a special thing, but a lot of guys get married for easy access to it. The average guy places so much importance to sex, we’re only acting accordingly.

HardMirror:
see this issue is simple. Sex is not a factor for a guy that will marry you. Simple. All other things are just too much talk

Saffi:
I feel sorry for any woman that will listen to you. The babes that have you given you countless of styles and action, you’ve not married them. You’ll tell me it’s for other reasons, but the truth remains that you’ve chopped the babe finish and there’s nothing to look forward to in the marriage hence why you didn’t marry them. A guy will put up with a flawed babe if she’s more of a challenge and there’s a lot to look forward to.

Eberechi24:

If all I can offer you in relationship is Pussy then staying with you is not worth it. Likewise my man if all you can offer is dick then it's totally worthless.

Talking about payment, Whatever I wear, I can I afford.

HardMirror:
you see? You people think everyone is like you. I dont plan getting married, i do girls that think like me. Infact i dont hang around religious people they seem stvpid to me. As for my friends the are all christians or muslims and almost all of them had sex with their babes and still married them. Let us stop deceiving ourselves very very few people practised no sex before marriage . It is very stvpid to think that closing your legs would make a guy rush to marry you. Is he getting married to you because he is sex starved? That is the question you should ask yourself

HardMirror:
you see? You people think everyone is like you. I dont plan getting married, i do girls that think like me. Infact i dont hang around religious people they seem stvpid to me. As for my friends the are all christians or muslims and almost all of them had sex with their babes and still married them. Let us stop deceiving ourselves very very few people practised no sex before marriage . It is very stvpid to think that closing your legs would make a guy rush to marry you. Is he getting married to you because he is sex starved? That is the question you should ask yourself

Saffi:
You don’t want to get married, yet you are advising women on what to do to get married? Does that make sense? I’m not going back and forth with you, we are clearly not on the same page.

Saffi:
I feel sorry for any woman that will listen to you. The babes that have you given you countless of styles and action, you’ve not married them. You’ll tell me it’s for other reasons, but the truth remains that you’ve chopped the babe finish and there’s nothing to look forward to in the marriage hence why you didn’t marry them. A guy will put up with a flawed babe if she’s more of a challenge and there’s a lot to look forward to.

Tallesty1:
You're taking this too seriously.


There's one thing Nigerians still don't seem to understand, "that people can date without having plans or any intention of marrying each other".

If marriage is your priority then you should follow Toks advice but wait........ Aren't the ladies supporting Toks the very ones shouting that marriage is overrated? If marriage is overrated and one's happiness should come first then why don't we just fvck? Fvck completes happiness.

I mean, have you seen someone that gets regular and good sex? Did you not notice happy they're?

My point is this, Both Toks and hardmirror are right...... The topic is dual edged. If you're a religious person who is family oriented and wants to settle down asaply then follow Toks.

If on the other hand you don't believe in God or you don't have religion or maybe you've a religion but your source of moral guidance is very weak then just fvck.


Do what works for you, not fucking your boyfriend won't guarantee marriage, fucking him won't stop him for marrying you, what will be will be.

Good sex can actually make a man propose.


If a lady denies me sex before marriage and I discover after marriage that she has this type of vagina that she shape scares me.



I will just say I no do again.


Finally.


If you like, give him sex.

If you like, starve yourself thinking that you're doing him.


A guy who wants to fvck will fvck.

highpriestess:
I kinda of agree with toks2008.

If we ladies should stop opening for guys, I think they will hasten up with whatever plans they have or leave the relationship.

DAFT AFTER DAFT AFTER DAFT.

I KNOW THIS IS NOT A JOKE CUS I'VE LEARNT NEVER TO OVERESTIMATE YOU CLOWNS. THIS POST MAKES NO SENSE. IN CASE YOU DON'T KNOW, KEEPING AN AVERAGE NG GIRL AS A GIRLFRIEND IS MORE EXHAUSTING THAN "BUYING LOVE". NOBODY IS GOING TO HASTILY MARRY YOU JUST TO GET LAID. LOL. YOU'LL KEEP CLEANING, COOKING, AND NAGGING FOR MANY YEARS WHILE HE GOES OUT TO PAY FOR PLEASURE. YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING

CAPSLOCKED:


DAFT AFTER DAFT AFTER DAFT.

I KNOW THIS IS NOT A JOKE CUS I'VE LEARNT NEVER TO OVERESTIMATE YOU CLOWNS. THIS POST MAKES NO SENSE. IN CASE YOU DON'T KNOW, KEEPING AN AVERAGE NG GIRL AS A GIRLFRIEND IS MORE EXHAUSTING THAN "BUYING LOVE". NOBODY IS GOING TO HASTILY MARRY YOU JUST TO GET LAID. LOL. YOU'LL KEEP CLEANING, COOKING, AND NAGGING FOR MANY YEARS WHILE HE GOES OUT TO PAY FOR PLEASURE. YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING

highpriestess:

Ladies should stop spreading legs, that's my point.

Saffi:
You have given him sex from the first month of knowing you. Given him all the styles and never denied him sex, what’s there to look for in marriage? I think what toks was trying to say is stop giving wifely duties to boyfriends. It doesn’t make sense. You have to be strategic when it comes to getting married, I’m so sorry. In this generation of lazy laid back men who do not want commitment, if you’re not strategic you’ll have egg splattered all over your face.

Now if after a year, both of you are of a certain age let’s say mid to late 20s, and he’s not made any suggestions about marriage, made efforts about taking you the isle, what is he doing? If you’ve shown you’re worthy, and he claims he loves you why is he not taking that extra step? They’re some exceptional cases, but for the most part of a man sees a future with you, he’s not going to waste time and allow the years to go by without putting a ring on it. Even if it’s just a small registry thing until he can afford a proper traditional wedding, then so be it. Men like to trap good things. He’s thinking about children and your fertile years, he’s thinking about other men who could possibly take his place, he’s thinking about the pressure you may receive from family. All I’m saying is that women should be smart and read in between the lines. Listen to their actions and not words.

highpriestess:

Ladies should stop spreading legs, that's my point.

1Sharon:


But a man has to give husbandly duties to his girlfriend abi? Most of you no sex before marriage crew are so hypocritical

AUNTI MI.. YOU DON SEE AM NA

SOME OF THESE GIRLS ARE CONFUSED CROOKS.