Guys come around, let's discuss how true is this statement?

I was talking with a Male friend about Baby mama in Nigeria and he mentioned that the cause of this phenomenal is Women aren't settling for ordinary guys because they have become more successful and educated than most Nigerian guys, but choose to battle for the few successful guys out there. He is his statement:

Women are rising. This is a wonderful phenomenon. But the "RISEN WOMAN" wants a man who is "MORE RISEN" than she is.

The economic pressure on the young male is enormous. From Peers, Family, Girlfriend/wifey & even Social media. This has metamorphosed into over-ambitiousness. A fresh female graduate can take on a job that offers as low as 30k & still not touch her salary.

Our Culture exalts a man who can take on huge financial responsibilities in the society as against one who can't. Our Culture also doesnt really value potential. "If u no get money, hide ur face". Hence, some of the unrealistic ambitions that obsess our Fresh male grads .

Is this true? guys share your plight let's us listen.

true now..but some women at all at all dont want to rise..they will want to drag the risen man down....

It is true.

I also want a well placed woman.no time for brokies as well.

Risen man and risen woman...

Here's the thing:

Some women are greed personified: always seeking to reap where they've not sowed; it has nothing to do with that RISEN sh!t!

It is commonsense that even those kobo kobo so-called slay queens are also jostling for the said RISEN men. In fact, identifying with success is what we all want.

Risen women ko... Risen lord Ni...

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The baby mama issue is a simple one: People dont give a damn about marriage any longer, and in this fast paced, social media driven day and age we are living (where the role models of these people are portraying babymama issue as "no big deal" ), why wouldnt people today have kids out of wedlock?

IMHO i see nothing wrong with having a babymama so long as you fully understand the seriousness of having a Child, whether married or not.

As for these so called "risen" women wanting a more risen man, its a failed State of mind that many women possess, where they foolishly believe that a man should bring more to the table than them. A smart driven woman shouldnt/wouldnt look at the status of a man, but instead she will focus on his character. Thats what makes a GOOD man, not his job/wallet. A good job/money you can always lose, a proper character you cant.

Women and hypergamy is like 1 and 2.
No matter how much the cry about wanting feminism and equal yada yada, their brains are still hard-wired to being leeches.
So the average successful woman cannot see herself respecting a man she cannot leech from. If she is a Manager, He must be upper management. If she is a CFO, he must be a CEO. etc.

Knowing this, I will always blame men.
Women have always thrown down the gauntlet. But we the men are always too nice to throw it right back.
Men too should start having better standards for women and should only pair up with females who are doing things for themselves.

E.g: A jobless instagram thot has no business dating an employed man. She should pay for some things and if she acts like she disagrees that she should pay (because she is a woman and you are a man) send her off on her gold digging way.
We men are the only ones who can change the status quo. We allow too much shit.

Yes. The higher a woman progress in the economical ladder, the few men she will find eligible. By default, women marry up, and she will have to subdue her biological instinct to settle for less. I agree with the post