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You did well bro the pain is normal. Let it come. You all be fine at the end. It's better to kill it now that there is nothing holding u both together like pregnancy or child cos then it ll be more difficult. You all find another love. Love never finish on earth people only die for live but live has never died for anybody. That means there is still love for you somewhere brother. I like ur strength. If had continued with that girl you ll never trust her with ur brother cos they had something in the past.

madone:
You did well bro the pain is normal. Let it come.

can it pain more than normal? I'm crying

Oh, break up with her, it's the right thing to do

Adekunle550:
can it pain more than normal? I'm crying

when I broke up with my first girlfriend I tot I was noting going to see the next day.the pain was soon much my heart ached me. My whole body was too heavy to move. Couldn't eat grew so lim but bro. I made it thru. Only remember those day and laugh at myself. Yeah I do hear people make this statement when I was pained too but I never believed I can pass thru it. I know u be fine. Don't go back to here cos that's relationship has too much complications. And not too good for u

what do you mean by " you didn't get positive feedback from the first thread?

You are 19 so you shouldn't be in a relationship. Face your school!

2special:
what do you mean by " you didn't get positive feedback from the first thread?

I didn't get any reply saying I should go ahead

DMerciful:
You are 19 so you shouldn't be in a relationship. Face your school!

So if your 19 year old son has a girlfriend you'll disown him?

Adekunle550....it will difficult for anybody to advice you to go ahead because of what will eventually happen...that the girl does not love either of you....she is just having infatuation.

There is time for everything! It's an advice for him to focus on the right things, at this age he doesn't even know the type of woman that's good for him and besides he has years ahead of him

Adekunle550:
So if your 19 year old son has a girlfriend you'll disown him?

Adekunle550:
Hello everyone, I'm 19 years old.
I made a post few weeks back about dating my brother's ex; well if you didn't follow, let me explain the post: I met this girl at our shop, not too perfect but I fell in love with her.. I loved her so much but I found out from her that she was my brother's ex.
I brought the matter to nairaland https://www.nairaland.com/4910024/im-love-brothers-ex and I didn't get a positive reply from anyone. They were all saying I should not go ahead with the relationship and that I should not do anything that will affect brotherhood.
On new year's day, I found courage, with tears in my eyes, I told her that I can't continue with the relationship anymore. Behold nairalanders, she told me that she's ready to take my brother back and that she'll behave well to win his heart and make up for marriage. She was saying this with tears in her eyes and also saying she loved me more than life. I felt so bad at the moment but she came back begging me to forgive her.
I told her that I cannot let love ruin family.
I'm feeling really bad guys, I can't even speak with anyone at the moment. The thought of suicide came but I told myself, if I wanted family over love, I should be alive to witness my family's happiness.
Please everyone I'll need your advice on what to do next and please don't criticise anyone, I understand their decisions.

Nawa ooo this 2019 na so so suicide I dey hear. maybe 2019 na year of suicide

You did the right thing bro
heartbreak is normal and you'll definitely get over it
it's okay to cry if you feel like

hahaha

He said he cried.

Don't worry you're only 19, with time when you have more pressing issues to handle, you'll know some things are not worth it.

Seandisputed:
hahaha

He said he cried.

Don't worry you're only 19, with time when you have more pressing issues to handle, you'll know some things are not worth it.

it's like telling a child he should not play because those things won't matter when he grows up

Ur bro is gonna fuk her d more and dump her. At 19 woman should not be ur issue. At ur age na to dey fuk una self be koko nothing serious.

Adekunle550:
Hello everyone, I'm 19 years old.
I made a post few weeks back about dating my brother's ex; well if you didn't follow, let me explain the post: I met this girl at our shop, not too perfect but I fell in love with her.. I loved her so much but I found out from her that she was my brother's ex.
I brought the matter to nairaland https://www.nairaland.com/4910024/im-love-brothers-ex and I didn't get a positive reply from anyone. They were all saying I should not go ahead with the relationship and that I should not do anything that will affect brotherhood.
On new year's day, I found courage, with tears in my eyes, I told her that I can't continue with the relationship anymore. Behold nairalanders, she told me that she's ready to take my brother back and that she'll behave well to win his heart and make up for marriage. She was saying this with tears in her eyes and also saying she loved me more than life. I felt so bad at the moment but she came back begging me to forgive her.
I told her that I cannot let love ruin family.
I'm feeling really bad guys, I can't even speak with anyone at the moment. The thought of suicide came but I told myself, if I wanted family over love, I should be alive to witness my family's happiness.
Please everyone I'll need your advice on what to do next and please don't criticise anyone, I understand their decisions.

what's with Nigerians and suicide these days? has it become the norm and latest trend? are we now to start celebrating and tolerating suicide? has suicide proven to be the best option and way of escape? my Bro, nothing in this World is worth dying for - not the fame, not the wealth, not the impressive lifestyle, not men or women- nothing at all is worth dying for. you want to kill yourself over a woman? have you really thought about your family and the unnecessary mourning you want to throw them into? I've been through a lot in life and have always won! why? you might wanna ask, well, I've got this self- confidence that I won every battle even before they came. see every challenge as a walkover and shrug off negativism be it thoughts, actions, people, words or environment. I'd say that again,, reject any form of negativism. stay blessed, my Bro.

annford:


what's with Nigerians and suicide these days? has it become the norm and latest trend? are we now to start celebrating and tolerating suicide? has suicide proven to be the best option and way of escape? my Bro, nothing in this World is worth dying for - not the fame, not the wealth, not the impressive lifestyle, not men or women- nothing at all is worth dying for. you want to kill yourself over a woman? have you really thought about your family and the unnecessary mourning you want to throw them into? I've been through a lot in life and have always won! why? you might wanna ask, well, I've got this self- confidence that I won every battle even before they came. see every challenge as a walkover and shrug off negativism be it thoughts, actions, people, words or environment. I'd say that again,, reject any form of negativism. stay blessed, my Bro.

let him die na. Is it ur die

madone:
when I broke up with my first girlfriend I tot I was noting going to see the next day.the pain was soon much my heart ached me. My whole body was too heavy to move. Couldn't eat grew so lim but bro. I made it thru. Only remember those day and laugh at myself. Yeah I do hear people make this statement when I was pained too but I never believed I can pass thru it. I know u be fine. Don't go back to here cos that's relationship has too much complications. And not too good for u

When my first Gf my first love for that Matter broke up with me some months ago i couldn't get over it but now it's a story whenever i remember all these Shits i did because of her i will just be laughing even my best friend Post on facebook that if your ex come back to you what would you say guy Na laugh i just dey laugh
who get time for rubbish

Iamtosignno:
When my first Gf my first love for that Matter broke up with me some months ago i couldn't get over it but now it's a story whenever i remember all these Shits i did because of her i will just be laughing even my best friend Post on facebook that if your ex come back to you what would you say guy Na laugh i just dey laugh
who get time for rubbish

thats the truth boss went we go thru heart break u realize how silly u were them. Forcing an ended journey to continue is unproductive. Even when my ex wanted us back I didn't see reason to do that anymore cos I realized its a dead end already.

madone:
thats the truth boss went we go thru heart break u realize how silly u were them. Forcing an ended journey to continue is unproductive. Even when my ex wanted us back I didn't see reason to do that anymore cos I realized its a dead end already.

Yes oh real Truth if my ex come back as yours i go give Shit she deserve

At 19?boy u need to concentrate on ur studies
#read this book

Seandisputed:
hahaha

He said he cried.

Don't worry you're only 19, with time when you have more pressing issues to handle, you'll know some things are not worth it.

no mind am jare, I no Dey comment for this kind thread

SmellySperm:
At 19?boy u need to concentrate on ur studies

#read this book

then after getting rich, try and find love. Happy searching!

Seandisputed:
hahaha

He said he cried.

Don't worry you're only 19, with time when you have more pressing issues to handle, you'll know some things are not worth it.

mtcheeew, everyday I Dey beg God to bless me , take myself and my family out of poverty, train my nephews and niece, live a better life... this one Dey cry Wan kill himself because of woman, he's just 19 sha

daben1:
mtcheeew, everyday I Dey beg God to bless me , take myself and my family out of poverty, train my nephews and niece, live a better life... this one Dey cry Wan kill himself because of woman, he's just 19 sha

That was why i told him, with time some things would go to the bottom of his preference scale. He has little or no responsibilities at the moment so i won't really blame him if he has the whole time in the world to cry because of a woman.

daben1:
no mind am jare, I no Dey comment for this kind thread

He said the thought of suicide came, just because of a girl who's fucking another guy??

If these are the kind of men we are going to raise in the next 10-15 years, then the male species is endangered.

You want to commit suicide because of pussy but what stopped you silly thing. You think I will pet you like those guys above me.I hate rubbish. Kill yourself so that we know how many people remain for Nigeria

Seandisputed:


He said the thought of suicide came, just because of a girl who's fucking another guy??

If these are the kind of men we are going to raise in the next 10-15 years, then the male species is endangered.

Can you imagine he wanted to kill himself because of Vag1na.The boy foolish die

Haha nairaland will just make u get mature in 2 secs. I wasn't going to kill myself na, I was just spicing the story up

Auladimeji1:
Can you imagine he wanted to kill himself because of Vag1na.The boy foolish die

I don't know why a lot of guys take so much shiit from the female folks just to get in between their legs. Acting all second fiddle.
When i have kids, i pray none of my sons will turn out this way.

Op love is d greatest thing of all, Bible says God is love but u choose family over love (God). Now u re feeling suicidal, well all our actions have consequences and thats what u rr facin. RIP in advance bro.