Its been 4years, since we officially broke up. But its like i still want him back. We were in a long distant relationship then. He was my first everythng man. I dont know what 2 do. I find myself looking 4 him in every man that wants something with me.
Reason why i am single cos i just want a man exactly like my Ex
wetin i go do?

Mr cork, though u think u r hiddind behind ur computer screen" YoU ARE AS TRANSPARENT AS A CLEAR GLASS. You are obviously insecure and a really sad person.
You gona b alright!! Stop letting ya pain weight you down. Life is 2 short.
Peace

It happens but with time it will change

@poster
you have a serious problem and i think you need to get professional help in moving on with your life. . . . . .or lots of time on your hands.
even if you met a great guy today, you wouldnt be able to move forward because of all the comparison etc.
its also funny because how can you have your first as an example of "greatness" UNLESS you have been with others?!

beats me. . . . . . . i guess it all comes down to you still being in love with him and until the day you let go, you will never be able to find the right one even if he was in front of you showering you with love and attention.

What caused the brokeup? U can still swallow your pride and call him back, am sure he will listen to you if he love you "goodluck"

joaoche, ok babes, on a serious notes, can we discuss this over dinner. I drive a nice Gulf Gti.

We broke up cos of some misunderstanding. I am aware i have 2 do something about it.
By the way we still comunicate n i still love him

Cant b a prey 2 a pathetic sad n lonely internet geek. I'm actually pray for d human behind mr.cork. His soul needs delivrance

hehehhehehehhe, Hey God~

joaoche:

We broke up cos of some misunderstanding. I am aware i have 2 do something about it.
By the way we still comunicate n i still love him

well, you should probably cut all contacts with him. . . . . . . . unless you were hoping to get another chance with him THEREFORE, keep on waiting and hanging on.

@op
jump of the nearest bridge

@ 5p1naz. How u handling it, so far i am really trying hard 2 let go.
@ brownjay tanx i wil try n cut all comunication with him. Its hard bt it myt help. I stil have all our emails from the first day( i.e more than 4years ago till date). Finding it hard 2 even get rid of them, thats nt helping me either

joaoche:

Mr cork, though u think u r hiddind behind your computer screen" YoU ARE AS TRANSPARENT AS A CLEAR GLASS. You are obviously insecure and a really sad person.
You gona b alright!! Stop letting ya pain weight you down. Life is 2 short.
Peace

You just gave mr cork great advice.

You will do well to heed the same. If you do, you will be alright and getting over the ex wont be a problem.

No she is not, she just does not want you!

Poster, I am sorry but are you willing to go back to him?

Welcome to the club dear, really could be hard but i think it's a thing you wont get over trying to get over it, i hope u get my drift!!!

I was once in your shoes for like 2yrs, the breakup is like over 3yrs now, but really I just had to find solace in the fact that there was some problems that led to the break up initially, look deep within and please try to as much as possible stop communicating with him!