I am addicted to lusting after ladies bodies especially ass and beautiful face, i want to control myself but i keep finding it difficult. it is leading me into massive consumption of porn and masturbation. Please i need a serious advice, i tried reading my bible consuming 20 -50 chapters a day but it is not changing anything, it is even getting worse as porn gets darker and darker. I find it hard to resist the urge. Please any reasonable advice on how to stop this madness.

Get yourself a bea or olosho
Or visit em brothels ..
After this, if you can't stop that silly habit then chooke yourself...
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The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Psalms 111:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth for ever.)

Knowing that porn and masturbation is against God's precepts, staying away from them is the first step. They feed the flesh and suppress the Spirit. Lust is what I will call your persona enemy, resist it and deliberately work against it. It will also be affecting other areas of your life.

The Spirit and the flesh are at war against each other. The one you feed more rules the other. Feed your spirit.

Psalms 119:130 The entrance of thy words giveth light; it giveth understanding unto the simple.

Stay blessed!

Its A Pity Your Wife Will Suffer For This

collinsfhk:
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Psalms 111:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth for ever.)

Knowing that porn and masturbation is against God's precepts, staying away from them is the first step. They feed the flesh and suppress the Spirit. Lust is what I will call your persona enemy, resist it and deliberately work against it. It will also be affecting other areas of your life.

The Spirit and the flesh are at war against each other. The one you feed more rules the other. Feed your spirit.

Psalms 119:130 The entrance of thy words giveth light; it giveth understanding unto the simple.

Stay blessed!

Thanks I want to fear God and hate the sin but though i prayed several times. AT last i heard a voice to pray for a humble heart. I want an immediate exit from this habit

AONE555:
Get yourself a bea or olosho
Or visit em brothels ..
After this, if you can't stop that silly habit then chooke yourself...
.

You could have better advice me to commit suicide. If my life is miserable already with P & M how much more if i venture into sleeping with ladies.

IamPlato:



It is A Pity Your Wife Will Suffer For This

How and Why i am curious

Ladies boobs, curves and contours are the beautiful handwork of Jah Jehovah.......So therefore, enjoy yasef while you are still alive....

Stop lamenting.....I love their Assnal, Bakka and their Manchester too??

YOLO bro!!!

My guy. It's never easy. Once you're addicted, it's very difficult to stop.


I started when I was 14.

Ive been hearing stories of how masturbation ruined so many relationships and marriages, I tried to stop bub saw myself going back.

I think all it takes is a jolt or an encounter.

My own jolt came when my guy told me how it almost rendered him almost impotent.


He couldn't get it up with a girl but got it up with porn.

After he stopped, it took his preek 3 months to readjust.

After he told me that, it was the jolt I needed and I took a decision.. The next morning I detected the 231 porn videos in my phone.


I've not watched porn or masturbated since. But sometimes the temptation is so great.

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I see a lot of people mentioning me. I can't reply all, so let me just edit this comment.

See ehn, I've been addicted since.
There was a time I had over 450 videos scattered all over my laptop.

If I get remorseful and delete, next week I'll download more. And you know browsing porn on pc is 10x better than on phone.

The kind of porn I've sha consumed in my small years on earth so far sha.
For every porn I downloaded, I streamed two online.

The consumption was much.
Quitting is never easy.

But it's possible.

Set small targets first.

Like, "I won't fap for the next 3 days" or "I won't fap today at all or view porn no matter how much my body craves it"


It's okay to relapse from time to time. Don't beat yourself up when you do(because believe me, you will).

From small targets, set bigger ones.

Get a girlfriend that understands because your dick might not woryk well again.
Or join a good church and be active, as some have advised.

Ittle steps.

JayIlych:
My guy. It's never easy. Once you're addicted, it's very difficult to stop.


I started when I was 14.

Ive been hearing stories of how masturbation ruined so many relationships and marriages, I tried to stop bub saw myself going back.

I think all it takes is a jolt or an encounter.

My own jolt came when my guy told me how it almost rendered him almost impotent.


He couldn't get it up with a girl but got it up with porn.

After he stopped, it took his preek 3 months to readjust.

After he told me that, it was the jolt I needed and I took a decision.. The next morning I detected the 231 porn videos in my phone.


I've not watched porn or masturbated since. But sometimes the temptation is so great.

the pressure comes mostly in the night. and what drives it is the lust. Even most porn videos dont move me anymore, i have to look for harder stuffs. And also everyday i always fantasize with a beautiful lady in my mind... I even read a lot of hell fire revelations, watched pictures from hell and listened to a lot of fiery sermons but i am still hooked to this shit....

I admire your honesty.

It can be really difficult, extra hard, especially now with sexually explicit content everywhere, and very explicit and revealing dressing of girls these days It's not your fault that you get over stimulated.

A woman's body is naturally designed to get a man sexually aroused by mere sight. It's the way your system is designed to react. If your body doesn't respond that way it would mean you're impotent, and that's a problem on it own.

I can't give you any solution because almost everyone struggles with that, even married people. The only advice I can give you is to exercise more self discipline. Try and avoid public places as much as possible where you ten to see lots of indecently dressed girls. Look for something to keep you busy and divert your attention. And as some will advice, get more spiritually engaged.

Truth is you may be able to control and reduce the effect, but you can't eliminate it.

it takes a lot of grace and self discipline to quit infact it's a real battle because sometimes the more your determination to quit the more tempted you'll be but I believe an understanding of the fact that continuous exposure to it will keep ruining not just your sexual virility but messing up your life as a whole is enough incentive to fight it off. I feel your pain but you've got to stand up to it but I swear it's never easy

get urself a girlfriend. na u go fuk sotay e go tire u.

Nnaabros:
I admire your honesty.

It can be really difficult, extra hard, especially now with sexually explicit content everywhere, and very explicit and revealing dressing of girls these days It's not your fault that you get over stimulated.

A woman's body is naturally designed to get a man sexually aroused by mere sight. It's the way your system is designed to react. If your body doesn't respond that way it would mean you're impotent, and that's a problem on it own.

I can't give you any solution because almost everyone struggles with that, even married people. The only advice I can give you is to exercise more self discipline. Try and avoid public places as much as possible where you ten to see lots of indecently dressed girls. Look for something to keep you busy and divert your attention. And as some will advice, get more spiritually engaged.

Truth is you may be able to control and reduce the effect, but you can't eliminate it.

I agree more with you on that sexual explicit wears, you will see girls wearing skinny short dress revealing all their shapes, even girls wey no get ass will still look attractive once they wear those skinny dress, and one can't but always stare at them. This have become a challenge for me, once i see any girl wearing skinny dress, i will always look down at there ass and this gets me arose sometimes. May God help us out of temptation with all these modern dresses

Stroke my cacti.

AONE555:
Get yourself a bea or olosho
Or visit em brothels ..
After this, if you can't stop that silly habit then chooke yourself...
.

lmao...chooke yourself

na lie,na scam...porn, sex, masturbation or lusting over big booties especially the ones on Bbw's and pawgs can't get u to hell.. like someone said up there YOLO...yansh are boob's are one of the crucial wonders of the world....so bro,you can't quit now..we in this Together forever.. cheers!

loveDcross:


the pressure comes mostly in the night. and what drives it is the lust. Even most porn videos dont move me anymore, i have to look for harder stuffs. And also everyday i always fantasize with a beautiful lady in my mind... I even read a lot of hell fire revelations, watched pictures from hell and listened to a lot of fiery sermons but i am still hooked to this shit....

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Guy, believe me, even as I've abstained, it's still a battle.

Thing is, doing stuff like that makes you lose confidence, Asin you cannot approach a lady.

Try and get a girl or anytime you feel the urge, go to a brothel.

Stay away from anything that will trigger such thoughts.

Imagine if you can't stop this now, when you get a girlfriend or worse, when you get married, it will be a disaster, you'll have to rely on all sorts of drugs to get it up.


Think about this and take charge of your life.


I've been there, I'm still there, sort of.

JayIlych:



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Guy, believe me, even as I've abstained, it's still a battle.

Thing is, doing stuff like that makes you lose confidence, Asin you cannot approach a lady.

Try and get a girl or anytime you feel the urge, go to a brothel.

Stay away from anything that will trigger such thoughts.

Imagine if you can't stop this now, when you get a girlfriend or worse, when you get married, it will be a disaster, you'll have to rely on all sorts of drugs to get it up.


Think about this and take charge of your life.


I've been there, I'm still there, sort of.

Thanks a lot. I am busy focusing on the wrong stuff, keep thinking about beautiful wife instead of finding ways to stop this shit. I think i need to dedicate a lot of time to prayer and focusing on drawing near to God so that this shit will be over. Thanks again

loveDcross:


Thanks a lot. I am busy focusing on the wrong stuff, keep thinking about beautiful wife instead of finding ways to stop this shit. I think i need to dedicate a lot of time to prayer and focusing on drawing near to God so that this shit will be over. Thanks again

Prayer may or may not help. It's actually a battle of the mind. Even in the Bible, apostle Paul said YOU put off these old things, not God will put it off for you.


The battle begins with you. Renew your mind and be on constant guard.

JayIlych:


Prayer may or may not help. It's actually a battle of the mind. Even in the Bible, apostle Paul said YOU put off these old things, not God will put it off for you.


The battle begins with you. Renew your mind and be on constant guard.

Prayer will help. there was a time I was praying exceedingly for a way out of this mess. A voice came into my heart, pray for a humble heart. But sincerely I hardly pray maybe only in the church was less than 5 mins for a humble heart. Humility brings grace and grace saves. I spend my time only reading the bible. fall into sin read bible fall into sin again and again. so I need to take solid time praying for a humble heart coupled with fasting if possible until God answers and grants it to me.

op u'r not alone, i'm here also, just dat i dnt lust after girls like u do (i have self discipline) so no cause for alarm. Let's meet at mama nkechi's joint and have a drink.

Resort to saying your rosary everyday, rosary quenches the urge and it worked perfectly for me!

loveDcross:
I am addicted to lusting after ladies bodies especially ass and beautiful face, i want to control myself but i keep finding it difficult. it is leading me into massive consumption of porn and masturbation. Please i need a serious advice, i tried reading my bible consuming 20 -50 chapters a day but it is not changing anything, it is even getting worse as porn gets darker and darker. I find it hard to resist the urge. Please any reasonable advice on how to stop this madness.

Before na men him go lust after?
Mtcheww

Avoid staying indoors!

Were Ndu Gi Bara Onwe Gi N'uru Nwokem!

An idle man is the devils workshop you Pervert!

loveDcross:
I am addicted to lusting after ladies bodies especially ass and beautiful face, i want to control myself but i keep finding it difficult. it is leading me into massive consumption of porn and masturbation. Please i need a serious advice, i tried reading my bible consuming 20 -50 chapters a day but it is not changing anything, it is even getting worse as porn gets darker and darker. I find it hard to resist the urge. Please any reasonable advice on how to stop this madness.

Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one:

A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.--proverbs 25:28

each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.
Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.--James 1:14-15

How can a young man keep his behavior pure?
By guarding it in accordance with your word.--psalm119:9

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

A word is enough for the wise.

loveDcross:

Prayer will help. there was a time I was praying exceedingly for a way out of this mess. A voice came into my heart, pray for a humble heart. But sincerely I hardly pray maybe only in the church was less than 5 mins for a humble heart. Humility brings grace and grace saves. I spend my time only reading the bible. fall into sin read bible fall into sin again and again. so I need to take solid time praying for a humble heart coupled with fasting if possible until God answers and grants it to me.

I hope you find solution bro

Op I want to ask you after you masturbate how do you feel, good? I believe for a moment or you become depressed? The question why did you come to nairaland to complain is to stop lusting or to receive peace and joy that would make everything in this world not to matter anymore. You see everything we do in this world is in the pursuit of happiness which is somewhat elusive except in Christ. Now your happiness lies in porn and masturbation and lust but it gives you highest one hour of happiness and several hours of depression. The question is this do you prefer 1hr of fun and hours of depression or do you prefer joy and peace and zero hours of depression? It is your answer that would lead to your breakthrough. Reading the bible is okay but know that whenever you lust after a woman a demon is unleashed that is very powerful even when you watch porn more demons are unleashed and there main aim is to make you depressed and guilty. So you have to remove every unholy thing around you even music. Always play gospel music, watch decent videos stop watching secular videoa. Even on nairaland don't open any thread that involves lewd entertainment. Anything that would corrupt your eyes run away from them but most importantly give your life to Christ

collitexnaira:


I agree more with you on that sexual explicit wears, you will see girls wearing skinny short dress revealing all their shapes, even girls wey no get ass will still look attractive once they wear those skinny dress, and one can't but always stare at them. This have become a challenge for me, once i see any girl wearing skinny dress, i will always look down at there ass and this gets me arose sometimes. May God help us out of temptation with all these modern dresses

Are you an introvert? Have you ever fvcked before?

loveDcross:


Thanks I want to fear God and hate the sin but though i prayed several times. AT last i heard a voice to pray for a humble heart. I want an immediate exit from this habit

Good evening bro, I once battled with this and I'm glad to explain to u how I came out of it.

I want u to know that u are a spirit u have a soul and dwells in a body. when u gave your life to Christ what got saved/changed is your spirit, your soul and body remains the same.

You will also believe that ur soul is the source of every thought, feelings or emotions. The only way to save your soul is through the WORD.

Rom12:2 "And be not conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind....

so how do you renew your mind?

james1:21 " Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your soul"
That's the surest way to save your mind...

I saw it in ur post that u read d bible every time to stop this, but reading is not just enough, you READ, STUDY, MEDITATE and DO

james1:22 "But be ye doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving your own self"
keep on doing this and be conscious of what u are doing...

and finally pray for grace not to fulfil the desires of the flesh...you need to be more spiritually conscious.

Gal5:16 "This i say then, walk in the spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh"

God bless you.