victorian:








Lefulefu, you are not far from the truth at all.

You no lie !

Am telling you. Most marriage out there , na children dey keep them.

Some are even worse than prison .

I don't envy married people one bit . Na my own life I just face .

Except very few.

princfred:


You are not lying at all. I have a friend with all that criteria (cant say meek was part of it though ) yet within 10minutes of being with him and his newly wedded wife i noticed he was practically terrorizing her and even their little baby. After all the elaborate wedding and so much frenzy. Even running side chicks till today am yet to process it all. And the wife is even very beautiful and gentle type. Shame catch me for my friend.

princfred:
And many dey pray and fast to enter there own prison. Lol

joelenesleek:
The most horrible boys in Nigeria are here on Nairaland, very quick to abuse women. It's most likely they were birthed by gorrillas that's why the lack respect for women. Every beautiful, well shaped successful or not lady is a prostitute to them.#tueh. I pity the vaginas that birthed such men and I pity the vagina they will end up with

victorian:





Am telling you.
Some men are like that. You will be shocked .

blindjustice13:
what do you expect from a country where women teach their daughters from the day they are born how to kneel down and serve their husbands food and pound yam while they let their sons run around like wild animals . which is why Nigerian men are special breeds of savages on the surface of the earth. Even people from other countries can testify to that.

rock003:
Be careful how you believe what these women say. They will never tell what they did wrong; they will only focus on what the man did.

I don't think you will just sit down quietly and the man will just be abusing you.

If you abuse a man verbally, you are pushing him to abuse you physically. The two of them are forms of abuse; only that one has physical evidence, while the other only has emotional, psychological effect.

CaptainGOOD:

That's so sad.

Where have u been BTW

Westaslave2:
indeed!


I av been doing wat i knw best which is breathing

CaptainGOOD:


Hmm OK deat, may God dash u more breathings.

Which side u Dey now

Westaslave2:
i went 2 zaki biam 2 purchase yam dear ,on my way 2 portharcourt

CaptainGOOD:


OK dear.
So how is ph

princfred:
Na woman go write this kind nonsense (pun intended) aswear. Do you know if it's lack of kneeling down and serving the husbands food and pound yam that led to the mans attitude?

Westaslave2:
killings n more killing ,nt gud!

Apc pple ar on d run,boys no want make dem near oil money

joelenesleek:
The most horrible boys in Nigeria are here on Nairaland, very quick to abuse women. It's most likely they were birthed by gorrillas that's why the lack respect for women. Every beautiful, well shaped successful or not lady is a prostitute to them.#tueh. I pity the vaginas that birthed such men and I pity the vagina they will end up with

logon599:
Na wa o.

This is why we must go into marriage prayerfully. God is the one who institutionalized marriage but unfortunately the devil has hijacked something God created and intended to be blissful and messed it up. That's why today people are more scared of getting into marriage than they are excited about it. Trust me, the heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it? You think you know someone because you dated them for 5 years? I laugh. Do you also know that someone can pretend for 5 years just to get what they want? And after the wedding, the REAL person you married begins to show, either good or bad. You want to marry? Ask God to lead you aright FIRST, before looking at other qualities. A woman or man can look like the PERFECT match, tick all your boxes. But be careful. Infact be most careful when he or she is almost too perfect. Cos that's when you're almost at the door of missing it big time. My 1 cent

CaptainGOOD:


Nawao that ph too rugged shaa.

So Wetin do ur control now.
Give me the new one now?

victorian:

Julius caeser once talked about their type( caisius)

" they are mean wt smile and luks hungry those men ar dangerous "









At the bolded , please speak for your self

Some men out there , look good , dashing and all are not mentally OK. They have double personalities . they are not OK upstairs . and that's the truth .
They show off a certain nice personality that a lot of their friends will envy and be like this man is so gentle and meek like a dove ;DD
He cannot hurt a fly .
But when wife starts crying out , everyone will be perplexed . As in what is she saying ? Women sef ! They can never be satisfied ! But this woman is living inside hell in her own home .

May God not allow us marry people who are psychologically imbalanced in Jesus name .
I know what she's going through, that's why am saying this and it will only get worse , if she doesn't swallow her pride and what her parents will say of " we told u so" but u thought our mouth were smelling, now your eyes don clear , abi?
The earlier she divorce that man , the better for her . cause at the end , if she doesn't leave , Na death dey end am . last last.

Westaslave2:
Nothing i just lost my phone , some criminals ar after d control

CaptainGOOD:


That's serious Oh...hm I guess they are from this forum

blindjustice13:
Only a savage animal will expect to be served like a slave. Which is why Nigerian men top the list .

Westaslave2:
Yes nw , switz ,german n canadian rogues

I stil luv my country abeg

kangarooskip:

When it happens to your sister I hope you will come and say this shit. He is insecure because he is jobless and she is working hence the emotional abuse. This is mostly what happens in such case the man always want to have control, control on who she sees, what she says or most times what she wears and also how you spend the money you earn.

Anyways, I'm not surprised by your comment. You are also exhibiting one core signs of emotional abuse. An emotionally abusive partner will always turn things around on you in the event of a disagreement. No matter the issue, it's your actions, not theirs, that caused the problem. Get help ask soon as possible.

rock003:


My sister isn't stupid. she used her brain while dating, so she didn't fall into the hands of an irresponsible man.

Because your sister didn't use her senses to choose a husband doesn't mean every woman is as senseless as your sister

kangarooskip:

Oh k now you know he is irresponsible abi. Yeye dey smell.

princfred:


Only an animal whose sense of love have been destroyed by ego and is suffering from love deficiency syndrome will interpret that as slavish.

Will you faint if you do it? So during your traditional wedding you won't kneel to serve the man drink less you faint? That way with a man like me, you just saved me money to be wasted on your traditional marriage.

This is the kind that will also interpret the woman going on all fours to give or receive good old doggy from a good man as a great crime against womanity only to cry foul when his man gets fed up with only the missionary style she serves and looks for domestic gymnastics elsewhere.
Who wants to waste his time (since the marriage is sure not to last with such attitude) and money to marry a chronical egocentric lady with a recalcitrant outlook towards submission.

The same man running around like a wild animal will, somewhere along the line, develop a sense of gladly taking on responsibilities to initiate, bankroll and take a relationship to the alters while the same lady, upon all the teachings, gets to learn to berate men if she makes money while finding it difficult to gladly undertake the aforementioned responsibilities men do to progress the society.

You have a problem with women kneeling but you wouldn't mind a man buying a woman a car, train them in higher institution etc things women seldom do for men.
Talk of slaving, do you know how much kneeling and real slaving (both to raise the money and to her) the man do to "buy women "assurance"" ?

"Hypo-kryte" much.

blindjustice13:
From all the long story its obvious you only think in the confines of that toxic environment you call Nigeria. Go out more and then you will see who the real hypo- krtes are . I bet if a Nigerian man should try half of what they try with Nigerian ladies with any white lady, they will either be in jail or on the streets.

So it seems the manners of these savage wild animals rewind and become sane when they travel out to sane environment.

I for one am glad I dont have to put up with wild animals in that your country. Hopefully my daughters will not. But my sons are free to go for Nigerian ladies but not my daughters .Your men are wild animals .period.

blindjustice13:
what do you expect from a country where women teach their daughters from the day they are born how to kneel down and serve their husbands food and pound yam while they let their sons run around like wild animals . which is why Nigerian men are special breeds of savages on the surface of the earth.Even people from other countries can testify to that.

rock003:
Be careful how you believe what these women say. They will never tell what they did wrong; they will only focus on what the man did.

I don't think you will just sit down quietly and the man will just be abusing you.

If you abuse a man verbally, you are pushing him to abuse you physically. The two of them are forms of abuse; only that one has physical evidence, while the other only has emotional, psychological effect.