Ladyhippolyta88:
Modern day marriages please.
In this century women have better rights than before in marriages(egalitarian marriages).

Unlike before when a woman's highest calling was in the kitchen.

mhisbliss:
I was chatting with my friend and her mum overhead us, then she said she never dated her husband before getting married to him, she never had sex either, that he just came and asked her parents for her hand in , and over the years she learnt to love him, and its better than modern day marriage where you have to date him, prolly have sex before marriage, i don't think she's right though because you have to date someone, get familiar, and such arranged marriages comes with a lot of regrets and had i known, and i can't grow to love someone i don't like or put up with nonsense, she raised some valid points though but i disagreed silently, i can't argue with her.

mhisbliss:
Don't you think the reason why the rate of divorce is high this days is because of this belief that a woman's place is not the kitchen?

virgoquin:
A part of me still fancy the traditional method of marriage....

It is less stressful, no need for all these yeye wife material test going on now.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I don't think so.Nobody should define a woman's place only the woman herself should do that.

People divorce for different reasons.I think it is a flawed mentality when people put the failure of a marriage on women only men have their faults too.

Oma307:

did the parent of your friend divorce, if no, I still prefer the olden days marriage to modern marriage where they both have sex before marriage yet end up divorcing. have we ask ourselves why there is high rate of divorce in our contemporary society

Oma307:

did the parent of your friend divorce, if no, I still prefer the olden days marriage to modern marriage where they both have sex before marriage yet end up divorcing. have we ask ourselves why there is high rate of divorce in our contemporary society

mhisbliss:
Lol that is your reason? Aren't you worried about the fact that you'll be forced to marry a man you don't like?

virgoquin:


love grows with time....by the way it isn't going to be a forced marriage jare.

Oma307:

did the parent of your friend divorce, if no, I still prefer the olden days marriage to modern marriage where they both have sex before marriage yet end up divorcing. have we ask ourselves why there is high rate of divorce in our contemporary society

mhisbliss:
But they're little or no divorce back in the days, why is that?

Ladyhippolyta88:


In my opinion,They was much stigma on divorce and the society frowned on such.In recent times people have choices and do not see marriage as a do or die affair or for better for worse.

Ladyhippolyta88:


I think the reason for the high rate of divorce today is because there is less stigma on divorcees in those days people women especially were stigmatised for leaving their husband's houses if a man even had an issue with his wife he could just get another wife to marry.

People in modern times have choices and are tired of pretending or enduring BS from their spouses so once one misbehaves or falls out of love the door is always open for divorce.

If there was less stigma on divorce in those times and if some of our mothers were more financially empowered like now they would not think twice to leave their husbands who treated them like second fiddle mundane beings.

ZIMDRILL:


true

but also women now have an option as in finding a job to look after herself

if you look back the 80s going back most wives were housewives non were working, husbands were the sole provider, society sort of shun away few women who worked as they were sort labelled as rebels and loose simply because most job were around men

so husband being the sole provider and society looking down on those women who dare to go and work among men, most women stayed in these marriages even when the husband was abusive

even if you look now there were few women selling in the streets as compared to now, the modern marriage is still ok but things have changed women can opt to leave marriage becoz she can feed herself by simply having to sell on the streets than being abused

mhisbliss:
You're right though.

Martin0:
wait wait are you the real user i had known earlier before now dammmmm

mhisbliss:
What are you saying martin?

Paxie55:

Nice dp.
Is that You?

Paxie55:

Nice dp.
Is that You?

Tamarapetty:
Atleast marriages last in the olden days, unlike now, everybody's tryna be social media fav couple. . And they're still divorcing upandan.


Mothers could put up to anything, unlike now, after one misunderstanding. They start packing.

mhisbliss:
They're the real example of strong women, not all those confused feminists.

Newboss:


Abi? Back then if she talk anyhow, I woose her 53 dirty slaps. Yeah, strong women. In fact, I give her to my visitors to fūck. Yeah, that's strong women. In short, I knock 30 of her teeth out. Yeah, that's strong women. I mean, I bang the shìt outta her even when she's crying and pleading with me not to. Yeah, that's strong women.


C'mon sis, that's a mõron, not a strong woman! The position of those your boobs are cool, but not their positions back then