my fellow landers can a guy that graduated at the of 26 and earns 100k monthly, start life with that monthly pay?
rent an apartment,
feed,
marry and be able to catch up with family necessary expenses .
please need your candid advice.

Depends on your standards of living and what your definition of a life means

26 years and you're talking about marriage?
100k isn't enough, Marriage isn't an achievement!
Wait till you're earning at least 500k.
Am not getting married till 35.
Don't be a burden to your children because of lack of funds.

Yeah if you stick to one kid only, and wife is also hard working. Why not?
When your finances improve, you can have more kids.
Op, ignore the comment above me.

you will have to define your own standard for living.

For some the money is not enough to get an apartment talk less of starting a family while for others it's more than enough.

listen to your heart, sit yourself and answer some questions within you. how much saving you have as a single from your income.
believe me or not, thousands are living life even below 100k worth income. let's be straight and sincere, put some factors into consideration, ie,proximity to work, access to social amenities, and position in your family. 100k isn't a small money as for me. am good to go. pls dont always believe everything you read here on nairaland. everyone here sounds made already. I sometimes asked myself if this forum is an association of rich rich and made people but I haven't gotten an honest answer to it. so pls you can start something with 100k even here in Lagos.