There was this girl i met like a year ago, then we started and all that. So fast forward to some months,i decided to take our friendship to another level;more like a relationship.. So i asked her out and she accepted.. Shes cute,shes got a dope personalty and all dah but one thing i dont like about her is that she always pretend not to love me jst becos of her ego even tho i knw she does.. So i was like wtf! Then friendzoned her and move on.. So i met this pretty friend of hers,this girl shows me luv, gves me all the attention and i luv her personalty so much, then she asked me out and i accepted ... Some days later, i posted her pic on my whatsapp status which my ex now friend saw n she reacted wit a sad emoji and said all sorts of heartbreakn words.. Shii .. Frm that moment on,she cut ties wit that her friend and changed....making it luk like i jilted her.. Lol wtf...like was i wrong to dump her for her friend?

What kinda dude dates his ex's friends? ...not cool mehn

ebonyggurl:
What kinda dude dates his ex's friends? ...not cool mehn

for the fact that she was my ex's friend? She gave me wat my ex couldnt.. And i went for her.. Lifes all bouh choices i think

Nothing bad there for dumping her, is just that her friend you're dating now... but you no send oh for dropping her sorry ass so quick like that...

nuelsam:
There was this girl i met like a year ago, then we started and all that. So fast forward to some months,i decided to take our friendship to another level;more like a relationship.. So i asked her out and she accepted.. Shes cute,shes got a dope personalty and all dah but one thing i dont like about her is that she always pretend not to love me jst becos of her ego even tho i knw she does.. So i was like wtf! Then friendzoned her and move on.. So i met this pretty friend of hers,this girl shows me luv, gves me all the attention and i luv her personalty so much, then she asked me out and i accepted ... Some days later, i posted her pic on my whatsapp status which my ex now friend saw n she reacted wit a sad emoji and said all sorts of heartbreakn words.. Shii .. Frm that moment on,she cut ties wit that her friend and changed....making it luk like i jilted her.. Lol wtf...like was i wrong to dump her for her friend?

You knew she loves you but couldn't express same feelings freely, yet you went ahead and called it quit?

You must understand that some people are not that free in a relationship, especially the girls. It has nothing to do with pretence. Sometimes it is just their own way of protecting their self worth. Need I tell you that overly showing love to someone can be a turn off?

If you ask me, I'd say you acted very immaturely.

nuelsam:
for the fact that she was my ex's friend? She gave me wat my ex couldnt.. And i went for her.. Lifes all bouh choices i think

You said you knew your ex loved you though. Did she treat you badly or what? Some people just arent comfortable with showing emotions and vulnerability...myself included

ebonyggurl:



You said you knew your ex loved you though. Did she treat you badly or what? Some people just arent comfortable with showing emotions and vulnerability...myself included

well i guess some of u girls are quite complicated..y is it always compulsory for the guy to make the fess move? Always texting,calln,chattn her fess.. There aint no big deal if she does this buh she never did.. I see this as an ego if u ask me.

Splinz:




You knew she loves you but couldn't express same feelings freely, yet you went ahead and called it quit?

You must understand that some people are not that free in a relationship, especially the girls. It has nothing to do with pretence. Sometimes it is just their own way of protecting their self worth. Need I tell you that overly showing love to someone can be a turn off?

If you ask me, I'd say you acted very immaturely.

well, i admit to the fact that i messed up to some extents buh i still dnt get hw i acted immature for leaving a girl that doesnt reciprocate my luv for her al in the name of self worth protection

luvyaself95:
Nothing bad there for dumping her,
is just that her friend you're dating now...
but you no send oh for dropping her sorry ass so quick like that...

no time for dramas baba

nuelsam:
well i guess some of u girls are quite complicated..y is it always compulsory for the guy to make the fess move? Always texting,calln,chattn her fess.. There aint no big deal if she does this buh she never did.. I see this as an ego if u ask me.

Actually, when I said some people find it hard to show emotions, I meant expressing one's love for someone else verbally. Nothing wrong with chatting up your guy or calling him first if you care about him.

nuelsam:
well i guess some of u girls are quite complicated..y is it always compulsory for the guy to make the fess move? Always texting,calln,chattn her fess.. There aint no big deal if she does this buh she never did.. I see this as an ego if u ask me.

There's no excuse for this..



You did the right thing.



She should take her ego n shove it up her ass

Lol, op was dating himself

You dodged a bullet. If you're not that guy who opens her up like flower, you're with the wrong person, and she's also with the wrong person.

Don't expect people to change. Take everyone at first value, and trust your guts

Newboss:
You dodged a bullet. If you're not that guy who opens her up like flower, you're with the wrong person, and she's also with the wrong person.

Don't expect people to change. Take everyone at first value, and trust your guts

u so on point.

seems dia r no other gals around yuh hood,apart from yuh ex gals female friends,arse talk..

I heard a story one time that ugly and beauty were freinds but then they went swimming but ugly stole beauty's garment and since then beauty has been naked and ugly moving in beauty's garment.
I think u ve mistaken ugly for beauty bro.

You did noble, I hate it when people hide their feelings cause of ego, was she expecting you to wait for her while she keeps hiding her feelings and forming for you, life goes on biko.

All these stupid underage kids sef. Na wa oh

Headlesschicken:
seems dia r no other gals around yuh hood,apart from yuh ex gals female friends,arse talk..

well,ofcourse ive got a lotta girls around..buh shes way different, her persona is so top notch n coupled wit the fact that she asked me out.. Shii.. I cnt turn a girl wit such bravery down all because she was my ex's friend yen yen yen

Valerie47:
You did noble, I hate it when people hide their feelings cause of ego, was she expecting you to wait for her while she keeps hiding her feelings and forming for you, life goes on biko.

abi

Saffi:
All these stupid underage kids sef. Na wa oh

ion know y u still had to direct ur frustrations towards this post, i aint the reason for ur problem ,Arrow... Shut ur trap n go Bleep ursef or better still, go to the nearest lagoon n do the needful.. I asked a harmless n simple question

Shat ap.

nuelsam:
ion know y u still had to direct ur frustrations towards this post, i aint the reason for ur problem ,Arrow... Shut ur trap n go Bleep ursef or better still, go to the nearest lagoon n do the needful.. I asked a harmless n simple question

Saffi:
All these stupid underage kids sef. Na wa oh

Shushhhhhh!

I don't understand. She won't show you love but accept to date you?

The truth is she lost a potential maga in you to her friend. Now the probability of her asking you money is reduced because you will say NO since you don’t give her the attention

Well you did the right thing but I will advice you work on your success, get A car, we women fall cheaply for material things. Don’t get pencil camry oo because she will open her legs for someone in a muscle.

Wilfredpat22:
The truth is she lost a potential maga in you to her friend. Now the probability of her asking you money is reduced because you will say NO since you don’t give her the attention

Well you did the right thing but I will advice you work on your success, get A car, we women fall cheaply for material things. Don’t get pencil camry oo because she will open her legs for someone in a muscle.

Wilfred u have said it all.

nuelsam:
There was this girl i met like a year ago, then we started and all that. So fast forward to some months,i decided to take our friendship to another level;more like a relationship.. So i asked her out and she accepted.. Shes cute,shes got a dope personalty and all dah but one thing i dont like about her is that she always pretend not to love me jst becos of her ego even tho i knw she does.. So i was like wtf! Then friendzoned her and move on.. So i met this pretty friend of hers,this girl shows me luv, gves me all the attention and i luv her personalty so much, then she asked me out and i accepted ... Some days later, i posted her pic on my whatsapp status which my ex now friend saw n she reacted wit a sad emoji and said all sorts of heartbreakn words.. Shii .. Frm that moment on,she cut ties wit that her friend and changed....making it luk like i jilted her.. Lol wtf...like was i wrong to dump her for her friend?

That is how you guys would be playing with girls heart. She's your girlfriend. Very petty reason to dump her

ebonyggurl:




Actually, when I said some people find it hard to show emotions, I meant expressing one's love for someone else verbally. Nothing wrong with chatting up your guy or calling him first if you care about him.

av neva met anybdy 4rm ile ife on dz forum.great f we cn b frnds jst 4 d fact we are both in ile ife

nuelsam:
no time for dramas baba

Naso We Roll

ebonyggurl:



You said you knew your ex loved you though. Did she treat you badly or what? Some people just arent comfortable with showing emotions and vulnerability...myself included

What a dumb way of thinking. What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't show it to the one you love. What manner of pride or ego is that? The guy did the right thing by dumping her sorry azz. You on the other hand should work on yourself.because you expect a man to show you love while you pretend not to love him. Does that even makes sense to you?

stuffs4me:


What a dumb way of thinking. What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't show it to the one you love. What manner of pride or ego is that? The guy did the right thing by dumping her sorry azz. You on the other hand should work on yourself.because you expect a man to show you love while you pretend not to love him. Does that even makes sense to you?

Its not about pretense or ego oga .
Some people have been hurt in the past after opening up their hearts to others. They sometimes feel reluctant to do so again and need a while to get used to the feeling and see if the new person is genuine