I have this girl who has been on my neck for quite some time. She wants us to be more than just friends, but i love her though but i know its not gonna work out cos currently im into a relationship and i believe we're better as just friends. But she going extra length, trying to get along with all my family members. My mom really like her. But i know she is doing all this to have me.
Yesterday she called me and told me that she loves me, i dont know when i said can you die for me.


Please i've i said anything wrong cos i didnt say it intentionally. And i dont wanna tell her that i did not say it intentionally i want her to be engaged in a happy relationship for life which i know she cant get from me.

So how do i go along?

If you cant give a nice reply. Just read and shut up. cos no be by force to post,

Thanks

u pushed the wrong button somewhere along the line

Now listen if you don't want a relationship then make it clear to her,because if you fall for her, she may end up getting pregnant by then no turning back because ur mom loves her. be very careful and follow ur heart.

thweraja10:

I have this girl who has been on my neck for quite some time. She wants us to be more than just friends, but i love her though but i know its not gonna work out cos currently im into a relationship and i believe we're better as just friends. But she going extra length, trying to get along with all my family members. My mom really like her. But i know she is doing all this to have me.
Yesterday she called me and told me that she loves me, i dont know when i said can you die for me.


Please i've i said anything wrong cos i didnt say it intentionally. And i dont wanna tell her that i did not say it intentionally i want her to be engaged in a happy relationship for life which i know she cant get from me.

So how do i go along?

If you cant give a nice reply. Just read and shut up. cos no be by force to post,

Thanks

@bolded
unfortunately,this is nairaland,a faceless forum where every one is free 2 comment
@op
hmmm

Yeah you're right but some idiots just say rubbish that will annoy you.

If they dont have a job they should go to the vacancy section job full there.

then tell her to go and jump off a cliff since she wants to die {ok i said dat purposely to annoy yuh}


seriously now, its better to tell her once and for all times dat you only see her as a friend and nothing more

you asking if she can die for yuh is not fair. . . ryt now shez looking for ways to get yuh and would say just about anything to have yuh

just let her know you are in a very happy relationship.

@ Googles thanks but im not annoyed. lol

thweraja10,   bro, so u sayin she like you coz u look like Michael jacksin?  maybe she likes your jerry curl

By the way, is she light skin & has she gots Nyansh   ?

@ mr cork.
i no be fine boy ooo , maybe she just like my personality

In my own opinion, the best thing to do will be to sit her down, and tell her you are in a serious relationship which you are not ready to loose for anything in the world, besides, u will actually prefer you guys to be best of friends but not as lovers, be plain with her, and remember to tell her that, the feelings you have for her is purely a platonic one, u while the feelings u have towards ur lady is FOR MARRIAGE, ladies at times can be frustrating when it comes to emotion, u just have to tell her the truth and hit the nail right on the head, itmay sound harsh, but she will understand who u are

@ Afrobaby Thanks Alot.

the best thing to do is tell her u don't love her, sit her down & xplain to her, infact let her meet ur gf, lol

Wait till this black lady trick you get you were she wants you soon.

If you don't lover her,please don't let her cook ogbono soup for you because that soup no get cure

Ogbono or vegetable olorun maje ooo