Fellow Nairalanders,

Happy Sunday to all..

My name is Samuel from Lagos State i live in ilesa.Graduate and self employed.

The story am about to share is really affecting my health and i wish to share in order to relieve me of my burden

I am a father of one.. I couldn't cope with my Baby mama due to her stubborn attitude.. We separated two years ago and it was difficult for me to fall in love with other ladies for 2 years.... A year and half later i met a lady in my street her name is Temiloluwa We exchanged number and we started dating.

Temilola is a flowered girl she never know Any man in her life,she is of age almost clocking 29 year old.

She was a churchy lady she doesn't play or joke with any church activities.

She has no Academic qualification or Job she is doing she lives with her parents...
She claims she love me and never ready to give in to me for sex until we both get married which i agreed with her...

I am sexually active person but i decided to endure till when we both agreed to get married..

We both use to romance kiss and hug etc
But it use to be a thug of war before she allow these.

She do come to my house 3-4 times in a week whenever she comes at times she do form a lot.
I noticed some changes of recent

If i touch her she would feel so iritated and began to shout on me if i want to kiss her she would push me away and never allow me... This is someone i love most in my life... On Valentine day i bought her gifts but she never bought any gift for me in return and not even a love messages she only say thank you

This happened yesterday I felt so bad and sad i have to go out and take beer to calm my sadness mind.

She always tells me things that comforts her and she never bothered about me.

There is another lady i met A year after i met Temiloluwa her name is Omobolanle.. Omobolanle is Aged person about 39 year old and she senior me with 2 months but very matured lady

She treats me like a king but i don't love her the way i love Temmy.. Omobolanle even when i have not fully toasted her have gone to tell her friends and relatives am his fiancee. She always wants me to be around cooks for me anytime i visit and she always pray and fast for me when am in difficult time.

I think about these yesterday and it gave me sleepless night..
Please i need Advice on what to do if i should choose between the person i love that always makes me sad with her attitude and someone who love me and treats me like a king but my love for her is not much.. Am thinking of forgetting Temiloluwa... Thank you

Choose omobolanle..

My name is Samuel from Lagos State i live in Akowonjo area in ilesa.

Go with Omobolanle because she seems serious and ready.

I'll be back to update

Remove your personal details on nl biko.

Marry the 39 year old lady cos she seems mature and will handle family activities, love isn't the only thing needed in relationship cos sometimes, it fades as children starts coming, and also, it can be grown, take your time and love her. I know your restrictions is cos of her age and all That, but heey, marry someone who will give you peace of mind, not a drama queen without a career to her name and still thinks like a kid.

Preshy561:
Remove your personal details on nl biko.

Marry the 39 year old lady cos she seems mature and will handle family activities, love isn't the only thing needed in relationship cos sometimes, it fades as children starts coming, and also, it can be grown, take your time and love her. I know your restrictions is cos of her age and all That, but heey, marry someone who will give you peace of mind, not a drama queen without a career to her name and still thinks like a kid.

Have you asked yourself whether it was desperation that made the mature lady to act so nice and caring.

vingeophysicist:
Have you asked yourself whether it was desperation that made the mature lady to act so nice and caring.

U spoke my mind..
I think she wants to get married at all cost..
The guy that was supposed to marry her dissapointed her after like 6 years together.
And she is always asking me when we are getting married... That's one of the tin that pisses me off

holywater24:

U spoke my mind..
I think she wants to get married at all cost..
The guy that was supposed to marry her dissapointed her after like 6 years together.
And she is always asking me when we are getting married... That's one of the tin that pisses me off

Don't marry her. She is desperate.

All i can deduce from your write up is just plain simple. Temi is just being selfish, always thinks about herself to the detriment of your health status and Omobolanle, my o my, she's just desperate. Her character might be genuine you know but it might be a cover up just to be Mrs and after, her full character will be displayed to your very eyes. You just have to look beyond what you see. You're in between the devil and the deep blue sea. Sow a good seed. Be wise!

Don't marry either of them

Leave the two of them to create space for someone better

https://www.nairaland.com/5028560/reasons-not-marry-adult-ladies

Temmy is not a virgin as advertised. Her recent irritation stems from the fact that she expects you to have fvcked her by now but you are a wimp so she is repulsed by your touch (which ultimately leads to nothing). She is also into BDSM / rough sex.


Bolanle is a desperate menopaused Evening Newspaper. Asides pocohantas, Evening Newspapers always act nice & loving but hers is worse because she has attained menopause. What are the odds that she will bear fruit? A barren woman is useless.

Lastly, I'm concerned about you bros. You seem to have a very underdeveloped brain. It's hard to believe a man of almost 40 typed this & I don't mean grammatical errors / construction.

There must be a reason you attract losers.


*spits

vingeophysicist:
Have you asked yourself whether it was desperation that made the mature lady to act so nice and caring.

you may be right ooooo

holywater24:
Fellow Nairalanders,

Happy Sunday to all..

My name is Samuel from Lagos State i live in ilesa.Graduate and self employed.

The story am about to share is really affecting my health and i wish to share in order to relieve me of my burden

I am a father of one.. I couldn't cope with my Baby mama due to her stubborn attitude.. We separated two years ago and it was difficult for me to fall in love with other ladies for 2 years.... A year and half later i met a lady in my street her name is Temiloluwa We exchanged number and we started dating.

Temilola is a flowered girl she never know Any man in her life,she is of age almost clocking 29 year old.

She was a churchy lady she doesn't play or joke with any church activities.

She has no Academic qualification or Job she is doing she lives with her parents...
She claims she love me and never ready to give in to me for sex until we both get married which i agreed with her...

I am sexually active person but i decided to endure till when we both agreed to get married..

We both use to romance kiss and hug etc
But it use to be a thug of war before she allow these.

She do come to my house 3-4 times in a week whenever she comes at times she do form a lot.
I noticed some changes of recent

If i touch her she would feel so iritated and began to shout on me if i want to kiss her she would push me away and never allow me... This is someone i love most in my life... On Valentine day i bought her gifts but she never bought any gift for me in return and not even a love messages she only say thank you

This happened yesterday I felt so bad and sad i have to go out and take beer to calm my sadness mind.

She always tells me things that comforts her and she never bothered about me.

There is another lady i met A year after i met Temiloluwa her name is Omobolanle.. Omobolanle is Aged person about 39 year old and she senior me with 2 months but very matured lady

She treats me like a king but i don't love her the way i love Temmy.. Omobolanle even when i have not fully toasted her have gone to tell her friends and relatives am his fiancee. She always wants me to be around cooks for me anytime i visit and she always pray and fast for me when am in difficult time.

I think about these yesterday and it gave me sleepless night..
Please i need Advice on what to do if i should choose between the person i love that always makes me sad with her attitude and someone who love me and treats me like a king but my love for her is not much.. Am thinking of forgetting Temiloluwa... Thank you

these are very serious delicate issue of life any mistake in choosing who to settle down with could jeopardize everything including your future. since they are both spiritual and in love with you it will b very difficult to choose from them but as for me if you ask, I will choose the one with the biggest yansh.



am sorry this is what I could think of. ���

Hmmm I really feel for because if you eventually marry any the women, you’re in soup. The First Lady is not a virgin as she claimed, she really looks at you with disgust because you’re very weak. She expected a good dick as a valentine gift but you disappointed her, that’s why she repulsed by you and can’t even stand your touch or kiss again. The second lady is desperate for marriage and once she gets what she wants, she will deal with you because of what the other guy did to her. My advice is try and bang that First Lady very well and after that, dump her. You’re almost 40 and you should be married by now.

OP i had same problem but your own better i no even see kiss na only hug konji nearly kill me that year that was 2014 mhen i spent bastard on that girl then i gave her space for about 4years traveled met different women but till now she's still toping the chart but i no dey show her i even showed her some of my girlfriends..

i think the problem is that we make them feel 2 special..

What is this one again? Is it not civil war?

LuciferPastor:
Temmy is not a virgin as advertised. Her recent irritation stems from the fact that she expects you to have fvcked her by now but you are a wimp so she is repulsed by your touch (which ultimately leads to nothing). She is also into BDSM / rough sex.


Bolanle is a desperate menopaused Evening Newspaper. Asides pocohantas, Evening Newspapers always act nice & loving but hers is worse because she has attained menopause. What are the odds that she will bear fruit? A barren woman is useless.

Lastly, I'm concerned about you bros. You seem to have a very underdeveloped brain. It's hard to believe a man of almost 40 typed this & I don't mean grammatical errors / construction.

There must be a reason you attract losers.


*spits

Inasmuch I know you're an attention seeker that spews thrash most times to remain relevant...

I must really admit you hit the nail on the head and gave him the bitter truth besides insulting pocohantas,

holywater24 she's irritated by you cos you couldn't read between the lines and know she's also sexually active,

And theres more to what meets the eye when dating a 39 year old lady, cos they tend to be humble cos of desperation, try to know y omobolanle hasn't gotten married, u might be shocked when Pandoras box is opened