I have noticed this about girls, once you become friends with them, they always bore you with their personal problems, forgetting that as a man you have many needs to be met,

I remember a situation back then my friend (casual) wanted to buy a blackberry phone for 20k, I asked her to raise 10k that I will support her with 10k, she got angry and said I should forget about it. I pleaded with her oo and gave her the whole money but I can't see myself doing that now.

On another occasion, just 2weeks ago, a lady I was still taking to (I liked her though) within few days she started telling me she needed to park out from her current house and that she needed 180k, she didn't ask for the money directly but I got the message and had to avoid her like a plague.

I don't think I'm stingy but all around me I see guys doing extremely well, buying properties and the peanut I have, a lady wants it all for her comfort. If I go broke from pleasing a friend, even a girlfriend. I don't think anyone will still be around me.

Why are girls like that, share your experience

If a girl ask me for recharge card for subscription.....thsr is the day her level drops I won't waste time inviting her for s3x

I cannot coman kill my self

maybe you dey do pass yourself, acting like like you be Dangote pikin.
As regards you saying you can't do what you did for the 'blackberry' babe again, trust me you will do it over and over again when you meet the lady who can press your mumu button well.

essohjay1:
maybe you dey do pass yourself, acting like like you be Dangote pikin.
As regards you saying you can't do what you did for the 'blackberry' babe again, trust me you will do it over and over again when you meet the lady who can press your mumu button well.

So all the guys that are being disturbed for cash by girls dey over do themselves abi?

I just think you still depend on your folks and girls can never pester you for now, trust me, they will when you grow up Peace brov

Women are like that, it's congenital,just knack them and they will never ask you money,service her well she will be paying u sef

candlewax:


So all the guys that are being disturbed for cash by girls dey over do themselves abi?

I just think you still depend on your folks and girls can never pester you for now, trust me, they will when you grow up Peace brov

Dumbo, so, all women are like the bitches you roll with
You're the one to grow up here and roll with ladies and not girls.
I care for my folks, not depending on them, peace.

Chuknovski:
Women are like that, it's congenital,just knack them and they will never ask you money,service her well she will be paying u sef

Well you can't just meet people and start laying with them, you have to be friends first, the requests come within that friendship period

Can you just pass a message devoid of insults. It glaringly clear who has a growing up to do

essohjay1:


Dumbo, so, all women are like the bitches you roll with
You're the one to grow up here and roll with ladies and not girls.
I care for my folks, not depending on them, peace.

because men give them whatever they need

candlewax:
Can you just pass a message devoid of insults. It glaringly clear who has a growing up to do

go play boy!!!

candlewax:


Well you can't just meet people and start laying with them, you have to be friends first, the requests come within that friendship period

Well spoken, I also believe she won't ask for money till after some time either way if she asks at the inception or tale end, the useless advice still works

You never disappoint

essohjay1:


go play boy!!!

I meet and dump ladies like I that. After dumping I always proof to them that without spending much on them. I can always get what I want. If I'm not posting the new girl chat I'm dating, I'll be posting how genuinely happy and moved on I am. What rubbish I met this new girl who suddenly started expecting me to send her money while we are getting to know each other but I bluntly let her know I'm not going down that path with her and he needs to be worth it before I spend a dime on her. Whenever I stop messaging her she concludes I'm pissed and messages me herself. Enough tho I expect her to walk away.
My bit. Never be trapped by entitled ladies, it's best to emphasize u have better plans for ur money and u bluntly let them them know u can easily pick out another babe at any time by simply walking away and being as happy as u can while courting another lady with the right full awareness. They hate to see that

candlewax:
I have noticed this about girls, once you become friends with them, they always bore you with their personal problems, forgetting that as a man you have many needs to be met,

I remember a situation back then my friend (casual) wanted to buy a blackberry phone for 20k, I asked her to raise 10k that I will support her with 10k, she got angry and said I should forget about it. I pleaded with her oo and gave her the whole money but I can't see myself doing that now.

On another occasion, just 2weeks ago, a lady I was still taking to (I liked her though) within few days she started telling me she needed to park out from her current house and that she needed 180k, she didn't ask for the money directly but I got the message and had to avoid her like a plague.

I don't think I'm stingy but all around me I see guys doing extremely well, buying properties and the peanut I have, a lady wants it all for her comfort. If I go broke from pleasing a friend, even a girlfriend. I don't think anyone will still be around me.

Why are girls like that, share your experience

Nigeria girls are the worst, very useless and lazy set of girls.

It's the mentality instilled in them by the society. You can't blame them as this is the case with majority of 9ja guys. They woo a lady with money and material gifts and now most ladies regard it as a norm. As for me, I don't ever buy gifts for ladies (girl friends or ashana).

The most I do (which I do best) is buy you food (that's no big deal as I love food a lot, anyway) and we eat together.

If konji come, Empire dey wey I no go spend pass N5K (till day break) for god's sake, abeg.

I wonder why they do that, even the so called morally upright does same.

Women dissociate themselves from their actions naturally because they're actually the ones more logical.. not emotional.

They make it seem like they're emotional but thats a show to attract attention/pity..

It takes planning/logic to start an affair and keep it a secret.

She can even plan it with friends and select new underwear to wear to catch a new man.

They want contentment and discipline, features our ancestors used to subdue them.. Now the struggle isn't for food and cowries, it's for money, cars, nice houses, cute rugged face and fvcking skills.. they are free to select but you are meant to discipline their attention to you or drop them.

BlueAir:
I meet and dump ladies like I that. After dumping I always proof to them that without spending much on them. I can always get what I want. If I'm not posting the new girl chat I'm dating, I'll be posting how genuinely happy and moved on I am. What rubbish I met this new girl who suddenly started expecting me to send her money while we are getting to know each other but I bluntly let her know I'm not going down that path with her and he needs to be worth it before I spend a dime on her. Whenever I stop messaging her she concludes I'm pissed and messages me herself. Enough tho I expect her to walk away.
My bit. Never be trapped by entitled ladies, it's best to emphasize u have better plans for ur money and u bluntly let them them know u can easily pick out another babe at any time by simply walking away and being as happy as u can while courting another lady with the right full awareness. They hate to see that

Badass! My kind of guy!
You deserve a hyperchilled bottle of undiluted palm wine!
Correct guy.

DanDeeBoss:
Don't give them any chance to feel entitled to You..

If you wanna help, it should be out of generosity

I believe you bro. Ladies make una hire defence team

It’s same here even with fellow women o. Finding a good friend is so difficult lately, everyone always wants something. If they are not begging me for wig or makeup, it would probably be money. I think it is because of hardship

lilllly:
It’s same here even with fellow women o. Finding a good friend is so difficult lately, everyone always wants something. If they are not begging me for wig or makeup, it would probably be money. I think it is because of hardship

Lol..... So some girls pester fellow girls too?

Where do they expect the other to get money from

I don't give them such room for entitlement

poyebad:


Badass! My kind of guy!
You deserve a hyperchilled bottle of undiluted palm wine!
Correct guy.

I hate parasitic relationship mutualism is all I want

candlewax:


Lol..... So some girls pester fellow girls too?

Where do they expect the other to get money from

They do o. If you look rich or expensive

madone:
If a girl ask me for recharge card for subscription.....thsr is the day her level drops I won't waste time inviting her for s3x

Correct..!!..

candlewax:
I have noticed this about girls, once you become friends with them, they always bore you with their personal problems, forgetting that as a man you have many needs to be met,

I remember a situation back then my friend (casual) wanted to buy a blackberry phone for 20k, I asked her to raise 10k that I will support her with 10k, she got angry and said I should forget about it. I pleaded with her oo and gave her the whole money but I can't see myself doing that now.

On another occasion, just 2weeks ago, a lady I was still taking to (I liked her though) within few days she started telling me she needed to park out from her current house and that she needed 180k, she didn't ask for the money directly but I got the message and had to avoid her like a plague.

I don't think I'm stingy but all around me I see guys doing extremely well, buying properties and the peanut I have, a lady wants it all for her comfort. If I go broke from pleasing a friend, even a girlfriend. I don't think anyone will still be around me.

Why are girls like that, share your experience

Those ones are cheap and runs ladies. A normal lady will never ask for money till you are sure of where you both are heading to

lilllly:
It’s same here even with fellow women o. Finding a good friend is so difficult lately, everyone always wants something. If they are not begging me for wig or makeup, it would probably be money. I think it is because of hardship

We are different beings

I have noticed this about girls, once you become friends with them, they always bore you with their personal problems, forgetting that as a man you have many needs to be met,

I remember a situation back then my friend (casual) wanted to buy a blackberry phone for 20k, I asked her to raise 10k that I will support her with 10k, she got angry and said I should forget about it. I pleaded with her oo and gave her the whole money but I can't see myself doing that now.

On another occasion, just 2weeks ago, a lady I was still taking to (I liked her though) within few days she started telling me she needed to park out from her current house and that she needed 180k, she didn't ask for the money directly but I got the message and had to avoid her like a plague.

I don't think I'm stingy but all around me I see guys doing extremely well, buying properties and the peanut I have, a lady wants it all for her comfort. If I go broke from pleasing a friend, even a girlfriend. I don't think anyone will still be around me.

Why are girls like that, share your experience

It depends on your body language and the way you present yourself to them

Be modest and they will understand that you are trying to survive

You can't be giving a girl an impression that you are a big boy and wje the request comes you go hiding

Be yourself and those that appreciate you for your status wont be a bone in the neck