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Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Mar 10, 2019
Hitherto a first year university student, I'm going to my 1st semester 200 level in the university.
I'm on a 4.11 CGPA after just a year on campus annd have 8 semesters left. I'm 20.
I ardently covet graduating with a 4.57 final cgpa, so I decided to be profusely prudent this semester and cut off superfluous distraction. Would a sexual relationship preclude me from my first class goal? Or not?
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Lightangel65: 4:07pm On Mar 10, 2019
Durentt:
Hitherto a first year university student, I'm going to my 1st semester 200 level in the university.
I'm on a 4.11 CGPA after just a year on campus annd have 8 semesters left. I'm 20.
I ardently covet graduating with a 4.57 final cgpa, so I decided to be profusely prudent this semester and cut off superfluous distraction. Would a sexual relationship preclude me from my first class goal? Or not?

You know the answer, you came to school for books and nothing more.
Haven't you read stories about how miserable someboys life become after meeting women.
Nothing good comes out of a relationship.

Don't stoop so low bro, don't fall to grass level, your books have more worth than any woman, women are worthless, you can live your life without them. This isn't supposed to be a question talk to men who are at your level, not women who are grassroots.

Keep friends but don't keep lovers

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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by dingbang(m): 4:16pm On Mar 10, 2019
grin gawd.. This boy again
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Headlesschicken(m): 4:18pm On Mar 10, 2019
undecided Nope u can't..
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by bdchange(m): 4:27pm On Mar 10, 2019
Durentt:
Hitherto a first year university student, I'm going to my 1st semester 200 level in the university.
I'm on a 4.11 CGPA after just a year on campus annd have 8 semesters left. I'm 20.
I ardently covet graduating with a 4.57 final cgpa, so I decided to be profusely prudent this semester and cut off superfluous distraction. Would a sexual relationship preclude me from my first class goal? Or not?
At your age it will surely be a distraction. Just focus on studies for now..then maybe in your final year you can decide to enter a relationship that will be fruitful.

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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by CreepyBlackpool: 4:36pm On Mar 10, 2019
Even if you graduate with first class, you'll def regret not smashing in school.



Better start fvcking now!smiley

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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by squarelead(m): 4:56pm On Mar 10, 2019
Studies first. Majority of school relationships leads no where.

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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by grad2012(f): 5:01pm On Mar 10, 2019
Although I never did lool, but you can if you are able to joggle both and be very very disciplined .

Some many people did and in fact after school some got married.

Just know the ultimate reason you are in school and don't get carried away.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Mar 10, 2019
Durentt:
Hitherto a first year university student, I'm going to my 1st semester 200 level in the university.
I'm on a 4.11 CGPA after just a year on campus annd have 8 semesters left. I'm 20.
I ardently covet graduating with a 4.57 final cgpa, so I decided to be profusely prudent this semester and cut off superfluous distraction. Would a sexual relationship preclude me from my first class goal? Or not?
concentrate first in ur studies,u r a guy n still young.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Mar 10, 2019
blissgregory:
concentrate first in ur studies,u r a guy n still young.
yes, I know. I'm talking of the sexual urge which is exasperating. I'm tired of using my right hand, but then again, I must continue living like that.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Preshy561(f): 6:01pm On Mar 10, 2019
I know people who didn't have bfs/gfs in school but still came out with 2nd class upper/lower.
Don't just engage in close relationship shaa.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by KingErnesto(m): 6:01pm On Mar 10, 2019
Brother... when you hit another 4point higher than you current cgpa , then you can now know your capacity and chances of getting a first class, and probably consider some side distractions like gfs... for now, I'd advice you focus on making good grades. This small 4point u got in 100lvl is shacking u. Many started well like u, but they relented and they are now on 2.2&3rd class, facing regrets... Whatever you do, don't drop...

Plus I'm a 4pointer...Yr3 now...
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by deewhydoski(m): 6:03pm On Mar 10, 2019
You are on 4.11 cgpa u still want to indulge in sexual relationship and still make first class. Don't worry by d time u reduce to 3.5cgpa ur eyes go clear. What even give u d assurance that u will make first class with 4.11 without even being in relationship.
If u know what is best for u face your studies. If u are studying engineering as a course, my dear 200l is d hardest of all d levels. Possibility of making first class is still sure only if u keep sexual relationship out of ur studies
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by KubwaBoy: 6:28pm On Mar 10, 2019
Durentt:
Hitherto a first year university student, I'm going to my 1st semester 200 level in the university.
I'm on a 4.11 CGPA after just a year on campus annd have 8 semesters left. I'm 20.
I ardently covet graduating with a 4.57 final cgpa, so I decided to be profusely prudent this semester and cut off superfluous distraction. Would a sexual relationship preclude me from my first class goal? Or not?
Sincerely, there is no correlation between sexual relationships and poor academic performance. You just have to set your priorities right. On the other hand, being sexually starved can lead to poor academic performance.
The best graduating guy in my class is a bad guy. He used his academic performance to fuvk all the girls in my department and outside the department. In short, the only lady I know he didn't sleep with is the VC's wife.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by dmgr(m): 6:28pm On Mar 10, 2019
It all balls down to you,can u cope with the distraction of having a gf?and the kind of girl u will roll with is another factor too.

Why I said it all balls down to you is the fact that u know your self more than we do and talking about performing well academically,I know of some persons that performed well and graduated with good grades while in School all they did was they discovered what works for them and what doesn't.u see those guys am talking of had girlfriends,they had lots of fun,they attended parties but all those things didn't get them distracted from achieving their goals in school why? because they understood their selves and they knew when to be serious with thier academics and when to party I know some people will say how's that possible? well it is very possible to be in a relationship and still graduate with your desired grade one just have to understand what works and doesn't work for him/her
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Mar 10, 2019
Durentt:
yes, I know. I'm talking of the sexual urge which is exasperating. I'm tired of using my right hand, but then again, I must continue living like that.
i wont advice u to start indulging in sex because of STDs n might distract ur grade in skull...dnt always tink of sex,dnt watch pornography n avoid friends dat talk more on sex...engage in activities in skull.U can join Rotract club,church fellowship in skull.These will keep u busy n always tink of d fact dat u went to skull to ve a first class.Wen u r always busy in d library,church,fellowship etc...u will hardly tink of sex

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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by macnino399: 8:36pm On Mar 10, 2019
Hmm..
It all depends on time management and how you define the relationship. But trust me, you have to understand yourself properly before you go into such. Your partner can serve as a motivation or a hindrance. So choose wisely!

P.S I'm also on 4point.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Mar 10, 2019
blissgregory:
i wont advice u to start indulging in sex because of STDs n might distract ur grade in skull...dnt always tink of sex,dnt watch pornography n avoid friends dat talk more on sex...engage in activities in skull.U can join Rotract club,church fellowship in skull.These will keep u busy n always tink of d fact dat u went to skull to ve a first class.Wen u r always busy in d library,church,fellowship etc...u will hardly tink of sex
thanks.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Mar 10, 2019
dmgr:
It all balls down to you,can u cope with the distraction of having a gf?and the kind of girl u will roll with is another factor too.

Why I said it all balls down to you is the fact that u know your self more than we do and talking about performing well academically,I know of some persons that performed well and graduated with good grades while in School all they did was they discovered what works for them and what doesn't.u see those guys am talking of had girlfriends,they had lots of fun,they attended parties but all those things didn't get them distracted from achieving their goals in school why? because they understood their selves and they knew when to be serious with thier academics and when to party I know some people will say how's that possible? well it is very possible to be in a relationship and still graduate with your desired grade one just have to understand what works and doesn't work for him/her
thanks.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 10, 2019
macnino399:
Hmm..
It all depends on time management and how you define the relationship. But trust me, you have to understand yourself properly before you go into such. Your partner can serve as a motivation or a hindrance. So choose wisely!

P.S I'm also on 4point.
Thank you
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by EdoBozz(m): 8:55pm On Mar 10, 2019
Sure. As long as you are dating a focused guy and not a cultist or irresponsible guy that turns the school bars to his lecture room.

There was a girl in my class then, she was the very quiet type and she was also dating one very cool dude also but funny enough they were both taking this cough syrup that's gets people very high and also smoking weed. Not like they do it in public, if you are not close to them you will never know. Now guess what, it was in our final year I got to know that this highry babe is on a very strong first class and all she was fighting for was just to get the award of best graduating student in our department because they were like 3 or 4 other people with a first class as well. Mind you, it was a professional course as well.

Since you are a guy, you have to know the kind of girl that will motivate you to achieve your goal. But mind you, a lot of bad girls get easily attracted to guys wey their brain dey hot. If they know you are heading for first class omo you go touch yansh and breast tire for tutorials.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Mar 10, 2019
deewhydoski:
You are on 4.11 cgpa u still want to indulge in sexual relationship and still make first class. Don't worry by d time u reduce to 3.5cgpa ur eyes go clear. What even give u d assurance that u will make first class with 4.11 without even being in relationship.
If u know what is best for u face your studies. If u are studying engineering as a course, my dear 200l is d hardest of all d levels. Possibility of making first class is still sure only if u keep sexual relationship out of ur studies
Thanks for the advice
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 10, 2019
KubwaBoy:

Sincerely, there is no correlation between sexual relationships and poor academic performance. You just have to set your priorities right. On the other hand, being sexually starved can lead to poor academic performance.
The best graduating guy in my class is a bad guy. He used his academic performance to fuvk all the girls in my department and outside the department. In short, the only lady I know he didn't sleep with is the VC's wife.
thanks for the advice
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 10, 2019
EdoBozz:
Sure. As long as you are dating a focused guy and not a cultist or irresponsible guy that turns the school bars to his lecture room.

There was a girl in my class then, she was the very quiet type and she was also dating one very cool dude also but funny enough they were both taking this cough syrup that's gets people very high and also smoking weed. Not like they do it in public, if you are not close to them you will never know. Now guess what, it was in our final year I got to know that this highry babe is on a very strong first class and all she was fighting for was just to get the award of best graduating student in our department because they were like 3 or 4 other people with a first class as well. Mind you, it was a professional course as well.

Since you are a guy, you have to know the kind of girl that will motivate you to achieve your goal. But mind you, a lot of bad girls get easily attracted to guys wey their brain dey hot. If they know you are heading for first class omo you go touch yansh and breast tire for tutorials.
thanks.
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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by austyn0(m): 10:09pm On Mar 10, 2019
Preshy561:
I know people who didn't have bfs/gfs in school but still came out with 2nd class upper/lower.
Don't just engage in close relationship shaa.
You de always know all of 'em you this girl.
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by daziz1: 11:54pm On Mar 10, 2019
You can guy if u know your capacity
I dated from my hundred level second semester
And Sometimes we do some crazy things, it did not tell on me as much as they are making us see it
Though u will do better without any girlfriend
500 level
Four point three two
Even if I don't date I don't c myself making it
So if I no................ Wetin I gain
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Crossbow(m): 12:10am On Mar 11, 2019
blissgregory:
i wont advice u to start indulging in sex because of STDs n might distract ur grade in skull...dnt always tink of sex,dnt watch pornography n avoid friends dat talk more on sex...engage in activities in skull.U can join Rotract club,church fellowship in skull.These will keep u busy n always tink of d fact dat u went to skull to ve a first class.Wen u r always busy in d library,church,fellowship etc...u will hardly tink of sex

Make we leave matter jare.. grin grin
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 8:18am On Mar 11, 2019
Durentt:
thanks.
uwc

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Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by Nobody: 3:55am On Mar 12, 2019
deewhydoski:
You are on 4.11 cgpa u still want to indulge in sexual relationship and still make first class. Don't worry by d time u reduce to 3.5cgpa ur eyes go clear. What even give u d assurance that u will make first class with 4.11 without even being in relationship.
If u know what is best for u face your studies. If u are studying engineering as a course, my dear 200l is d hardest of all d levels. Possibility of making first class is still sure only if u keep sexual relationship out of ur studies
hello, is 200 level really that difficult?
I've heard people talk on how one needs to read like a madman to get an astonishing result. But is this true?
Re: Can I Have A Relationship In School And Still Graduate With A First Class? by deewhydoski(m): 4:59am On Mar 12, 2019
Durentt:
hello, is 200 level really that difficult?
I've heard people talk on how one needs to read like a madman to get an astonishing result. But is this true?
In unilorin 200l engineering is difficult, which I believe it will be so in some schools....In 100L u did more or less of science courses which are phy,chm, math, csc and sta and most(not all) of the things u did in those courses had been taught in secondary school. So 200l u guys will do more of engineering courses like thermodynamics and so.. So 200l in engineering no be child play.
You don't need to study like a madman, attend classes and familiarize urself with past question and have a friend that is a year senior in ur department, he's d one that will be putting u through. Goodluck

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