Frnds help me out. My frnd's gal frnd confes 2 my frnd dat she slept wit a guy witout protction on 1st of Sept.,that she was carried away wen they kiss dat she realy luv my guy she is feelin guilty my frnd should 4giv her.My frnd never suspect anythin nor ask her b4 the confession.The gal is dwn & my frnd is vry angry & accpted to be her frnd cos of the truth fr her,
but intimately no more. Tanx. The gal is really down she want my frnd to luv her again.Pls I need advice for my frnd.

Well, first of all, if your friend is not cheating, it will be very painful to him and he will loose trust where she is but if he also cheated, it is proper for him to forgive her and accept her back since she confessed on her own.
You hardly see girls being truthful when they cheat, the hide it just as you can never see the poo of a cat.

On the other hand, if he cannot live with it, he should break up the relationship.
It is wise to have a broken relationship than to have a broken marriage.

your friend doesnt have a girlfriend yet~

Dude tell your friend to forgive and forget but only if the girl gives him reason like
1- Why did she kiss the guy?

2- Did the guy force her

3- If she didnt have feelings for the guy why sholud she allow a kiss talk less of being carried away by it.

4- Where did it happen

But if the answers are balls, then he should take her to Utako  market and sell her brains for onions

Spyker:

Well, first of all, if your friend is not cheating, it will be very painful to him and he will loose trust where she is but if he also cheated, it is proper for him to forgive her and accept her back since she confessed on her own.
You hardly see girls being truthful when they cheat, the hide it just as you can never see the poo of a cat.

On the other hand, if he cannot live with it, he should break up the relationship.
It is wise to have a broken relationship than to have a broken marriage.

You have said it all.

slex:

Dude tell your friend to forgive and forget but only if the girl gives him reason like
1- Why did she kiss the guy?

2- Did the guy force her

3- If she didnt have feelings for the guy why sholud she allow a kiss talk less of being carried away by it.

4- Where did it happen

[size=13pt]But if the answers are balls, then he should take her to Utako  market and sell her brains for onions[/size]

Abuja Boy!!

Spyker:

Well, first of all, if your friend is not cheating, it will be very painful to him and he will loose trust where she is but if he also cheated, it is proper for him to forgive her and accept her back since she confessed on her own.
You hardly see girls being truthful when they cheat, the hide it just as you can never see the poo of a cat.

On the other hand, if he cannot live with it, he should break up the relationship.
It is wise to have a broken relationship than to have a broken marriage.

I strongly agree with ur last line , better to have broken relationship than broken marriage.

Omolola1:

your friend doesnt have a girlfriend yet~

Please it help if u giv me ur reasons cos it help. Tanx

slex:

Dude tell your friend to forgive and forget but only if the girl gives him reason like
1- Why did she kiss the guy?

2- Did the guy force her

3- If she didnt have feelings for the guy why sholud she allow a kiss talk less of being carried away by it.

4- Where did it happen

But if the answers are balls, then he should take her to Utako market and sell her brains for onions

1. Cos the guy has been textin her luvly texts and told her that she was the first person he ever fall in luv wit.
2. She said the guy forced her when they where kissin.
3. that is exactly wat was confussin me.
4 it happen in the guy's house.

i admire your friends girlfriend for her honesty. its really hard to find honest girls this days that said and done. i think he has to find some way to figure out if she is really sorry about what she did and also the likely hood of her doing again soon . if those chances are slim and he loves her enough, i think it just might be right for him to give her another chance.

Tanx friends, I really appreciate all ur contribution.

they should just get along with it. What if she hadn't shared the knowledge then?