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Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by lakesguy(m): 2:26pm On Apr 05, 2019
Olosho
Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by anthonyuncle(m): 4:17pm On Apr 05, 2019
sincerely one part of me feel like slapping u, while another part is having pity on u.
1.how can u allow pressures from ur dad in marriage to influence ur life.for fvck sake u are 29!
2.it's like u weren't doing anything to improve urself when ur boyfriend was working. maybe it's because he was taking care of u very well, and u thought there was no need to get urself busy with something.smh
3. u have bad friends-an "olosho" conclave. they couldn't introduce u to a job or skill, but an online escort site. u self, u agree to join do ashewo work, ur own self worse.
4.one thing every man always keep in mind, is where they met da girl they are dating.dz ur Mr doctor will always remember that.
5. try to have a discussion with ur guy about his recent attitudes. insulting ones parents ain't a joke & thus, shouldn't be neglected. da hard times he is facing might be a reason. discuss with him about it, and ask him about his plans for ur future together.
most importantly, stop that ashewo work wey u dey do, make God no punish u too much

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Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by Martinez39(m): 4:40pm On Apr 05, 2019
budiliscious:
My friends introduced me to an escort site in Nigeria https://www.codedruns.com/ where I could help raise some money since my boyfriend and myself are now jobless but I saw the site as very dirty because my identity is not protected. I told them I needed a platform where my identity can be protected and I can meet people that her serious. I eventually got to know about https://www.lounge45.com/ from a friend in Germany. The process of registering on the site as an escort was so tedious for me at first but I eventually realised that it was for my good. To cut the story, I made a lot of money from the site and met some cool guys. I helped my boyfriend with some money made from the site...there was a time I raised 700k for him to do a professional course.

December last year, I met a guy from https://www.lounge45.com/ who just came to Nigeria from Canada to meet his parents. He is a medical doctor in his early 30s.
grin

Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by Martinez39(m): 4:50pm On Apr 05, 2019
budiliscious:
I stay close to him and promise to never leave him despite all odds.
grin Why can't you be smart in lying?

Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by Nobody: 5:03pm On Apr 05, 2019
budiliscious:
Nairalanders, I really need your help to decide if I should follow my mind presently or if I should follow what my friends want me to do. I am a young lady in my late twenties. My immediate younger sister got married last year and I am 3 years older than her. So there is much pressure from my family about getting married. My dad so much believes in early marriage because he married at age 26 while my mum was just 22. I have been in a very serious relationship with a church member of mine for the past 3 years. He is handsome, caring, intelligent (1st class product from University of Lagos), Godly and all that a lady can dream of. He also had a good job at an oil coy when we first met. He would shower me gifts and made me feel so special. But for 7 months now, the story has changed. He keeps being sober, very aggressive, nagging and rude to my parents (on 2 instances). I try as much as possible to understand his plight because of his search for a better job. I stay close to him and promise to never leave him despite all odds. My friends introduced me to an escort site in Nigeria https://www.codedruns.com/ where I could help raise some money since my boyfriend and myself are now jobless but I saw the site as very dirty because my identity is not protected. I told them I needed a platform where my identity can be protected and I can meet people that her serious. I eventually got to know about https://www.lounge45.com/ from a friend in Germany. The process of registering on the site as an escort was so tedious for me at first but I eventually realised that it was for my good. To cut the story, I made a lot of money from the site and met some cool guys. I helped my boyfriend with some money made from the site...there was a time I raised 700k for him to do a professional course.

December last year, I met a guy from https://www.lounge45.com/ who just came to Nigeria from Canada to meet his parents. He is a medical doctor in his early 30s. I gave him a nice treat and he paid me so well. I mean so freaking well. He asked me to stay with him in his hotel till he left in the first week of January. He introduced me to his family and we went to a family function together. He even proposed to me with a ring on the day he was leaving for Canada. Since then, he would call me every morning and night before I go to bed and he promised to come with his people to meet my family and marry me by December this year. He also promised to arrange my papers so I could travel with him.

My boyfriend is running a course in Kaduna presently, so he is not here in Lagos for some months now. I still send him money though but he has never promised me marriage. My close friend wants me to stick to him because she feels he has genuine love for me and he has prospect but my heart seems to follow Mr Doctor. Please what do you suggest that I do. I need mature advise, not insults. I can do anything I love to do with my body, so don't judge me about my escapade on an escort site. I have promised to quit when I have made enough money to set up my business.

From the way u narrated the story i know that u are telling the truth , however i dont think u are a lady that believe in love , if ur boy friend a first class graduate ever finds out u sleep with men for money ah .... i dont think he will ever forgive u. The other guy in canada ,for him to even promise u all that u must look very innocent in his eyes, but however if u two ever get married my sister even if u are faithful to him he will one day accuse u of infidelity because first impression counts..... Good luck in ur choice


But if want to do something bad do it for ur self because the consequence would be urs to bear no matter ur excuse
Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by budiliscious(f): 11:54am On Apr 06, 2019
ike24:


From the way u narrated the story i know that u are telling the truth , however i dont think u are a lady that believe in love , if ur boy friend a first class graduate ever finds out u sleep with men for money ah .... i dont think he will ever forgive u. The other guy in canada ,for him to even promise u all that u must look very innocent in his eyes, but however if u two ever get married my sister even if u are faithful to him he will one day accuse u of infidelity because first impression counts..... Good luck in ur choice


But if want to do something bad do it for ur self because the consequence would be urs to bear no matter ur excuse

Thanks
Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by elugo: 12:16pm On Apr 06, 2019
derrydinny:
who are you trying to deceive? made about 750k from a runs website, if it was that lucrative then Nigerian university students won't be doing overnight for 10k

I doubted too until a female friend who Dey the game showed me bank statement

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Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by saraYahaya: 12:19pm On Apr 06, 2019
Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by elugo: 12:21pm On Apr 06, 2019
From your narration it’s obvious you go where the mulla goes.
Re: I Am Presently In Love With 2 Men Please Help Advise Who To Choose (no Insults) by brayo00254: 12:39pm On May 30, 2019
you can try https://www.exoticnigeria.com/

shegzy0514:

I just enter the site is not doing because I know that what u want

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