It seems we, guyz don't understand "NO" with regard 2 diz issue,
So wuh'z d best word(s) or sentence(s) to make a guy understand dat a Girl in question doesn't want him,
Let'z go dia,

some gal yesterday wrote on that same issue that:" Normally, girls are supposed to play hard to get" therefore if men would listen to such women (and i am sure many do), "NO" would actually means "try harder".
so there you have your reason!

here is a link: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-514032.0.html

Whn agirl says no and u try harder and she says yes, am sure that affair will not last.
My opinion

nikkykay:

Whn agirl says no and u try harder and she says yes, am sure that affair will not last.
My opinion

I understand its ur opinion. But i disagree. My opinion , too.

do girls actually, expressly say yes?

if ure really not interested just tell him ure married(note the word married not engaged),he'll buzz off immediately,but if u like him and just want to play hard to get,tell him you're really not interested in a relationship at the moment,and that you'd rather be single for now ,that'll keep him stuck on you like white on rice

medjai:

do girls actually, expressly say yes?

well , i think they dont verbally say yes, but could express a yes.

tjskii:

if ure really not interested just tell him ure married(note the word married not engaged),he'll buzz off immediately,but if u like him and just want to play hard to get,tell him you're really not interested in a relationship at the moment,and that you'd rather be single for now ,that'll keep him stuck on you like white on rice

NO is normal, it might mean, 'Now,i wanna see how much u want me'

@ Poster look most black women in Nigeria dont have a choice, really they dont.

cos most lady dont mean it wen dey say no

cos most lady dont mean it wen dey say no

MOBO444:

@ Poster look most black women in Nigeria dont have a choice, really they dont.

shut up wats ur prob with naija girls

When most naija gals say NO is simply mean u shuldn't show her d naira.

^i mean 2 say "HAVEN'T"^

i guess they figure that two nos make a yes.

hahaha some guys are really hard to die. Some guys have been trained to keep banging their head on the same rock
even if it doesn't produce any water. They are taught that, if they keep banging their head, one day the water may just
spring out.

But I love the thrill, it doesn't hurt to make a guy suffer a bit

tjskii:

if ure really not interested just tell him ure married(note the word married not engaged),he'll buzz off immediately,but if u like him and just want to play hard to get,tell him you're really not interested in a relationship at the moment,and that you'd rather be single for now ,that'll keep him stuck on you like white on rice

well if a girl tells me she is not interested in a relationship at the moment, i'll simply let her be. Why should i stick to her when she has given me an answer. "NO" is an answer i have no problem dealing with.