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Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by GNature(m): 11:24pm On May 08, 2007
blue-sky:


did he not say he was from Dafur


Yes. He said he is an igbo from Darfur, Sudan.

Make I grab my encyclopedia, because this one donn pass boundary
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 11:27pm On May 08, 2007
GNite people!!! happy posting grin grin grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:28pm On May 08, 2007
@AmerOmoge
i love your hair grin
u look mixed?

@ topic
as long as whoever ur dating whether be white/black accepts and appreciates your culture, then i dont see no harm.

@GNature
this is the first im hearing about an igbo in sudan. igbo men na travel everywhere grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 11:28pm On May 08, 2007
AmerOmoge:

GNite people!!! happy posting grin grin grin

What makes me horrible?  grin

GNature:

Yes. He said he is an igbo from Darfur, Sudan.

Make I grab my encyclopedia, because this one donn pass boundary

Yeah and wat about dat.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by GNature(m): 11:32pm On May 08, 2007
blue-sky:


@GNature
this is the first im hearing about an igbo in sudan. igbo men na travel everywhere grin

My sister, every second spent on Nairaland is a learning experience.

Infact, Seun should be issuing us College credits for partaking in this forum. Walahi.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 11:33pm On May 08, 2007
lol ika, just being sarcastic.

personally I just think people whine too much about this shit. Nigerian culture in families will be around for along time, or at least til my dying days

Nigerian girls don't have much to cry about na awon akata that have this problem

tongue

again ameromoge, where in Nigeria are you from

asiri re ti tu. kokoye lo sunkun fun okunrin dudu.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 11:36pm On May 08, 2007
GNature:

My sister, every second spent on Nairaland is a learning experience.

Infact, Seun should be issuing us College credits for partaking in this forum. Walahi.

I am going to bed, But I must agre with you there, It like being in class on presentation day, which happen to be worth 50% of your grade grin grin

ikomi we no be frenz anymore!!
@blue not mixed and thanks for the compliment on my hair! smiley
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 11:37pm On May 08, 2007
No be me una go carry do case study.

Ameromo u didnt drive ur point home.

Ika6 stay tuned to wat u do.

Blue_Sky u must not come into the Igbo room again. And thats an order.

Red_Lips u left ur team at the tail end. I won't give u a rating today.

Good nite all.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:42pm On May 08, 2007
@ ikomi
why??

@GNature
ao true. its like im bak at secondary skool.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 12:07am On May 09, 2007
Ikomi you not the teacher!!!
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 12:17am On May 09, 2007
@red Lips the title is asking that question if only akata?

And no I am not Nigerian grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 12:26am On May 09, 2007
Cant say Im surprised.

Black brit? Black american? To be honest you look Hispanic to me
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Nobody: 12:30am On May 09, 2007
chei,is it a crime to be a proud mexican?
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by ikamefa(f): 12:31am On May 09, 2007
babyosisi:

chei,is it a crime to be a proud mexican?

Ngwa sista m abeg ask dem oh!  grin grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 12:42am On May 09, 2007
wetin concern mexican with black males.

real black girls havent gotten their men back, now mexican wants piece of the pie. madness.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Nobody: 12:53am On May 09, 2007
Red_Lips:

wetin concern mexican with black males.

real black girls havent gotten their men back, now mexican wants piece of the pie. madness.

You know how mexicans multiply like babies are going out of style,hopefully the brother knows that every 9 months there's a naming ceremony in his doormot
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 1:00am On May 09, 2007
Lol at least they are smart, they actually make you marry them.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by neelsel(f): 1:40am On May 09, 2007
@Red_lips,
what have I missed , Who's Mexican and marrying who


@Omeng, you logged off too early, I missed the thread today, while prescribing Prozac and Ritalin for one deranged psychotic soul,


@GNature, yes o,
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 9:42am On May 09, 2007
Red_Lips:

Cant say I'm surprised.

Black brit? Black american? To be honest you look Hispanic to me

AmerOmoge don go nuclear oohhhhh grin grin grin Hey hey heeeeee

Hispanic. No be small thing oohhhhhhh
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 10:12pm On May 09, 2007
Que pasa Amigos!!! Hablo espanol un poquito, y tu?  No comprendo porque preguntas De Donde es Ud?Es no importante, mi raza es Negro,

Ikomi:

AmerOmoge don go nuclear oohhhhh grin grin grin Hey hey heeeeee

Hispanic. No be small thing oohhhhhhh
E don do bifor i gif you dorti slap!!! grin grin

Red_Lips:

Cant say I'm surprised.

Black brit? Black american? To be honest you look Hispanic to me

No surprise here, at no point have I concealed Where I am from, What I look like or Who I am (what I stand for)!!!
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by naijaway(m): 10:27pm On May 09, 2007
what about all those naija women marrying white men and to them is a gee thing, I hope they know that with that done their kids will never have any high post or leading job in Nigeria's future and lets face it Naija women like too much shakara and also don't have dat rapport like when u first come across them
Example of eurpean black tourist or lets say black american
guy: Hi
lady: how 'r u doing? sometimes how 'r u doing sweetie? u know
then if she's engaged, or has a boyfriend, or is married
Lady: Hey honey am sorry but i gat a man

Now naija female dat u don't know
guy: hi
lady: WHAT
guy: just saying hi and also trying to know how u doing
Lady: Is none of ur business
And the list continues until u give up eventhough she thinks u'r alright that will be later after humilation.

That's why i date mostly all the tourist from the islands, black americans, and black europeans or a naija person that was born outside cuz they have social manners.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 10:34pm On May 09, 2007
naijaway u dey vex oohh. grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 10:51pm On May 09, 2007
naijaway:

what about all those naija women marrying white men and to them is a gee thing, I hope they know that with that done their kids will never have any high post or leading job in Nigeria's future and lets face it Naija women like too much shakara and also don't have that rapport like when u first come across them
Example of eurpean black tourist or lets say black american
guy: Hi
lady: how 'r u doing? sometimes how 'r u doing sweetie? u know
then if she's engaged, or has a boyfriend, or is married
Lady: Hey honey am sorry but i gat a man

Now naija female that u don't know
guy: hi
lady: WHAT
guy: just saying hi and also trying to know how u doing
Lady: Is none of your business
And the list continues until u give up eventhough she thinks u'r alright that will be later after humilation.

That's why i date mostly all the tourist from the islands, black americans, and black europeans or a naija person that was born outside because they have social manners.


Trouble dey call you ohhh!!!
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 11:48pm On May 09, 2007
Still avoiding the question. hm.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by BigSis(f): 11:48pm On May 09, 2007
Amer,

I can only say as a black American woman that I know very few black American women who are sexually attracted to white men.  So you want ever see that happening among AA women in any significant numbers.  We are absolutely not impressed by their manhood.  Most importanly, black women history in this country relative to white men isn't a pleasant one.  So we don't hold them in high regard or generally see them a viable marriage or sexual partners.

Most AA women desire a man from their cultural group, like most people.  I know some women who would rather be manless than settling for a non-AA man. However, there may have be a shift in including viable men of color.  I think the younger AA women may be more open to marrying outside of their cultural group.  

Again, for most AA women I know the thought of marrying a non-AA man is something hard to let go.

Naijaway,

Are you a beach boy.  You  know you service foreign women tourist?

All,

When come to black men and white women, they are usually butt ugly, white trash.  They usually on the bottom of white society.  These nothings know that many black men feel lowly about themselves.  They are with these guys because most decent white men would not give them the time of day.  However, they know black men who don't feel good about themselves will woship their whiteness, even thought they are considered by the own to be white trash.  Also most of these guys live off of these females.  They are easier to use.

I often feel sorry for some black males.  Many of them as absolute fools and they will continue to ruled by others.


Ikoma,

You trippin'.  You just want to make black women' live harder by going to some foreign country to pick up and take care of some desperate loser.  These men have other agendas and are major project. The woman's life will be hell. Those guys are simply 419  boys who will use you for his coveted green card, and discard you once he has what he wants.  We know the game.  Why go to AFrica.  Haiti is right next door.  I have seen some awful good looking Haitian men. 

Do you have any good ideas. 

All,

I know hordes of black women and none of them have babies.  It is generally the lower class women that babies like that - just like in Naija.  The poor women have babies like rabbits by men who don't have a pot to piss in.

No I men of African descent.  Africans have an awful inferiority complex when it comes to white. It is God/servant complex.  I see Africans routinely bowing and grinning like hyneas for whites. You talk big, but you subjugate yourselves to whites. You are accustomed to being that way from your upbringing, with the whites being the true masters in your land. Yes you may be the majority in numbers, but they are the true masters.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by DisGuy: 11:59pm On May 09, 2007
When come to black men and white women, they are usually butt ugly, white trash. They usually on the bottom of white society. These nothings know that many black men feel lowly about themselves. They are with these guys because most decent white men would not give them the time of day. However, they know black men who don't feel good about themselves will woship their whiteness, even thought they are considered by the own to be white trash. Also most of these guys live off of these females. They are easier to use.

you mean (most) african-american men right wink
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by naijaway(m): 12:12am On May 10, 2007
lol, dis guy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 1:27am On May 10, 2007
lol poor akatas and their dying "culture" grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Nobody: 1:31am On May 10, 2007
Thank God they still have rap
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by neelsel(f): 1:39am On May 10, 2007
babyosisi:

Thank God they still have rap

Lard I ginne die,
But on a serious note though, better to be told a hard truth than a soft lie, cry
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 1:41am On May 10, 2007
Red_Lips:

Still avoiding the question. hm.

If you referring to me I answered the question!!!pele cry  no habla o comprendo espanol!!!

This isnt not a thread about superiority within the same ethnic group(but that the problem with black folks they can't seem to get along no matter what)it's no wonder we losing in this game called life, believe if ours is dying yours is next!!! believe that no be long,

Funny how people make fun of Akatas but everybody want to be like them from music to style of dress to the way they talk, Hmmm poor akatas the world be biting your style like whoa,
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by DisGuy: 1:47am On May 10, 2007
Funny how people make fun of Akatas but everybody want to be like them from music to style of dress to the way they talk, Hmmm poor akatas the world be biting your style like whoa,

im not a pc police o wink

funny world aye!

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