hax:

As long as they don't pursue me with weapon or jazz, no wahala naw. lol

But I get this little niggly feeling. That they're 'easy'. If she can 'chase' me, she can 'chase' someone else. imo, generally, a girl like that would be easier for a guy to come and toast and carry for your hand, or she might just wake up and 'chase' someone else. lol

I might be wrong, I'm not against it, but I would definitely have my reservations.

koolguy88:

it's not proper to chase a man cos it's a man's WORLD, let him choose his gurl.

hax:

You're right. If I like a girl and she 'pursues' me, of course I'm not going to say no. The thing is, if I see a girl as too easy to toast, I'm not likely to 'pursue' any further. Because boys are not smiling now, they have red eyes, especially if she's fine, someone else will definitely try toasting her. What if she responds?

hax:

Multiple girls don't just 'show interest in good looking guys'. That's just not the way society works. A fine boy can chill in a club and sit down alone from 12:00 to 5:00 and no woman will go and meet him. But a fine girl? Alone in the club? Why do you think they move in flocks?
Multiple chicks don't just go and 'show interest in' good looking guys. Guys naturally do most of the chasing. You rarely see fine girls chasing boys about. A girl chasing a man she likes is risky. If the guy doesn't like her, and he senses that she likes him, rather than say 'I think she should just be friends', he is most likely going to try to get into her skirt. And how else do you do that but to tell a woman who likes you that you love her too?

I say don't show interest, be yourself, try to befriend him, and if he likes you, he'll go for you. Or if you're very close and you think he likes you THEN you can try 'chasing' him.

There are different ways to go about it. You can signal your interest in more subtle ways.

You don't tell a guy you like him so he'll then start liking you back. You tell him you like him because you hope he feels the same way about you. If he did, chances are, he'd have spoken to you about it. Telling a guy that you like him puts him in a position to take advantage of you.

All this is MY OPINION. If a nice girl 'chased' me, I would probably wouldn't have time to argue on NL.