tunize:

based on assumption; what if she never told you she had any, are you going to kill her?

joyberry:
You dey mind those myopic people? They just open their mouths and judge with out thinking at all.I always insulted girls in abusive relationships until I found myself in one.Anything can happen to anyone, we are arent immune to mistakes or bad occurrences.

MrBrownJay1:


The above reason is so rampant because deluded people have unprotected sex foolishly.... Wearing a condom, pulling out, taking the day after pill would solve the above problem, in an instant, if these deluded people had a brain.



The ego of these men is in the way of their common sense....

HeWrites:


I don't think it is ego.

The fact that a lady can get pregnant for a guy, and that guy doesn't see any reason to marry her. Why should I then be the one to go ahead and marry her

Ain't talking about divorcee though.


If I'm ever going to marry, I can never marry a single mom.

ogb5:
It is unnatural to father another man's child.

Why go for a single mother when there are many girls around who will not bring the baggage of another man's child to you

TheCongo2:


The bolded is a lack of humanity
What about the fate of the orphans or abandoned children.

I have no issue fathering another man's child

Jman06:
I don't hate single mothers but I can't marry one. Like why should I carry another man's baggage when I can get a better deal

ogb5:
I don't think ladies are getting the point.

There are many ladies without extra baggage of another man's child looking for husbands. Why should a young man consider a single mother when he can easily get a girl to marry that does come with extra expense that a child from a previous relationship bring.

To compound issues, the society now frowns at polygamy so the single mothers are forced to look for unmarried men.

My advice is if you are a single mum just know that you are at a disadvantage compared to other ladies searching for husbands and wisely grab a man you fancy who looks your way or be prepared to go into polygamy.

Life is not fair to many people, being a single mum might not be your fault but a man looks for the best woman he can get when searching for a wife.

MrBrownJay1:


Again, your ego is in the way of your common sense.... Are you saying that a woman who had a previous r/ship (where she had a child) before ever meeting you, is automatically NO good?! How exactly......? Because she loved someone and wanted to create a family with that person, before ever knowing you? Let me guess, you are against abortion (like most misplaced ego driven men like yourself) but suddenly you think this woman should have aborted the baby, right? The only reason why you would dismiss such woman is because you can't take the fact that most people would automatically know that she wasn't a virgin when you met her, and she had sex well well before ever knowing you.

ThrillPlus:
It is a fact: that in our society, many people hold single mothers in contempt. Should this be so?

Read more: https://thrillplus..com/2019/04/why-do-we-give-single-mums-hard-time.html

ogb5:
It is unnatural to father another man's child.

Why go for a single mother when there are many girls around who will not bring the baggage of another man's child to you

ogb5:
It is unnatural to father another man's child.

Why go for a single mother when there are many girls around who will not bring the baggage of another man's child to you

joyberry:
You dey mind those myopic people? They just open their mouths and judge with out thinking at all.I always insulted girls in abusive relationships until I found myself in one.Anything can happen to anyone, we are arent immune to mistakes or bad occurrences.

ogb5:
I don't think ladies are getting the point.

There are many ladies without extra baggage of another man's child looking for husbands. Why should a young man consider a single mother when he can easily get a girl to marry that does come with extra expense that a child from a previous relationship bring.

To compound issues, the society now frowns at polygamy so the single mothers are forced to look for unmarried men.

My advice is if you are a single mum just know that you are at a disadvantage compared to other ladies searching for husbands and wisely grab a man you fancy who looks your way or be prepared to go into polygamy.

Life is not fair to many people, being a single mum might not be your fault but a man looks for the best woman he can get when searching for a wife.

joyberry:
My dear the matter tire me,who impregnated the women ghosts? Its takes two to tango oh

joyberry:
A woman in our base became a widow overnight when her husband of just three weeks died in an airstrike attack, Guess what she was just a few weeks pregnant.
She became a widow and about to be a single mom if the pregnancy gets to full term,i just shake my heads when people especially women beef single mothers,u dont knw their struggles or what happened with them.One will see her,a young woman in her early twenties with a baby, and just open their mouths and judge her without knowing what happened. Before judging people,be sure of what happened to them,take a mile in their steps.Life can be ironic and funny at times.Shalom

MissRaine69:

Sometimes it’s not even widowhood
Domestic violence
Men abandoning their families
A man can make a child and walk away with little or no consequences a woman does not have that luxury.

Obodo999:


that is the reason women should not be opening their legs anyhow for anyman.

MissRaine69:

You have comprehension issues.
How is your statement applicable to widows, women who are married and flee domestic violence? Whatever it is that you are smoking or injecting half the dose cause it is clearly affecting your cognition.

Obodo999:


Thank you for the insult but that doesn't take away the fact that I can't marry a single mother

MrBrownJay1:


Actually, whether single father or mother, it wouldn't be a problem if women didn't view marriage as a do or die mission. So what you are single?! Live your life the best you can and to hell with what other deluded people think of you.

The problem is when these broken women believe that without a man they are nothing, thus a brain reset is needed.

ogb5:


You seem not to understand the problem some single mums face.

It takes money to make money. And if a single mum is in the poverty trap, without help it becomes very hard for her to improve herself so that she can cater for her child.

Almost everybody tries to improve themselves in the best way within their financial and mental capacity and when such capacity is not enough to pull them off the poverty trap then they start looking for other means of support. That's is where marital support comes in as an option.

Why should a single mum offer free sex to a boyfriend and struggle to cater for her child when she can offer the same sex in marriage and get spousal support in return?

ThrillPlus:
It is a fact: that in our society, many people hold single mothers in contempt. Should this be so?

Read more: https://thrillplus..com/2019/04/why-do-we-give-single-mums-hard-time.html

MissRaine69:

I don’t care.

mysticgal:
This is the most stupppid thread I have hopped on today.

wait hol'up, single men with kid(s) expect ladies to marry them and take care of their osprings and ladies are not supposed to do the same?

LilMissFavvy:
I don't really believe that women may feel that without a man they are nothing, It is only a woman without exposure, an illiterate, or a jobless woman who would feel that way. An independent woman would accept the situation, and see the child as the center of her joy.

Toseenlove:


Too many of them In Nigeria.

joyberry:
A woman in our base became a widow overnight when her husband of just three weeks died in an airstrike attack, Guess what she was just a few weeks pregnant.
She became a widow and about to be a single mom if the pregnancy gets to full term,i just shake my heads when people especially women beef single mothers,u dont knw their struggles or what happened with them.One will see her,a young woman in her early twenties with a baby, and just open their mouths and judge her without knowing what happened. Before judging people,be sure of what happened to them,take a mile in their steps.Life can be ironic and funny at times.Shalom

MissRaine69:
So many single mothers but I am yet to hear of single fathers. That’s the hypocrisy of the society we live in.

joyberry:
You dey mind those myopic people? They just open their mouths and judge with out thinking at all.I always insulted girls in abusive relationships until I found myself in one.Anything can happen to anyone, we are arent immune to mistakes or bad occurrences.

Nobodyperson:

Why should we men take care of a child we don't want?
Did we ask for it, We both enjoyed the sex and that's it.