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Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:10am On May 06, 2019
it's said when a particular thing á happen once it may be considered as a mistake but when it does repeatedly it is regarded as a habit..
our relationship was a working one with an ambition of working down the isle together. we were best of lovers, I will liken it to romeo and Juliet..
the reverse is the case now, it all started when she traveled out of town.. we were still hearing from each other on daily bases while she was away, but when she came back in December 2018 after a year away I discover she cheated all along but she denied it making me look as if I was imposing something she know nothing about on her, to cut the long story short she admitted she cheated after much confrontation. digging deep I discovered she did not just with cheat with a single person but different guys including married men. I was so pained that i demanded for a breakup but she pleaded and even swear never to do it again that she regrets her actions out love I forgave her and we moved on. that was around January this year. two months later I travel out and when I came back I discover a strange guys pic on her gallery, they snap together intimately, I became suspicious and asked her she told me she has nothing to do with the guy that he is just her uncle's friend. fast forward to last week I discover she has something to do with this very guy, I confronted her she denied it for like three days and even swear she know nothing about the accusation.. it's when she discovered I was not ready to fall for her lies she admitted it that she had s.ex with the guy. now this guy is a random guy that came home for an urgent business he's no based here, as I type this he had gone back to he's comfort zone.. I have to come to conclusion that she is a loose girl and i called it a quit with her. now she's begging that I should give her another chance, claiming she don't know what came over her but i told her I ran out of chances for her. I hope it's the right thing I did.
advice from mature minds please...!

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Olalan(m): 8:16am On May 06, 2019
Good you let her go

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by 2special(m): 8:23am On May 06, 2019
l wonder the kind advice you want again, you have taken the best decision or do you want to accept her back?.Oga, you don't need advice, what you need is discipline and the courage to act like a wise man,pls move on with your life, you don't have a spare.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by SageMK: 8:30am On May 06, 2019
You forgave her when she cheated with numerous guys including a married man so why quit now when its just a fling with a random stranger... Dude, take her back.

Its obvious you are still in doubt.
You truly lóve that slùt.

So give her another chance again after all, since your stùpidity didn't kill you, her slùtery life wouldn't too.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Ikem11(m): 8:31am On May 06, 2019
Better stay quit

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by QueenSekxy(f): 8:31am On May 06, 2019
You did the right thing; so long you didn't cheat on her aswel.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by pocohantas(f): 8:31am On May 06, 2019
Community girlfriend...

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Ikem11(m): 8:31am On May 06, 2019
SageMK:
You forgave her when she cheated with numerous guys including a married man so why quit now when its just a fling with a random stranger... Dude, take her back.

Its obvious you are still in doubt.
You truly lóve that slùt.

So give her another chance again after all, since your stùpidity didn't kill you, her slùtery life wouldn't too.

He is not in love.. He is stupid and foolish

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:34am On May 06, 2019
2special:
l wonder the kind advice you want again, you have taken the best decision or do you want to accept her back?.Oga, you don't need advice, what you need is discipline and the courage to act like a wise man,pls move on with your life, you don't have a spare.
thanks bro for this..

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:35am On May 06, 2019
Olalan:
Good you let her go
thanks
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by pauloemeka(m): 8:37am On May 06, 2019
if you eventually marry such a girl she will do same in marriage... because she knows you will always forgive her.. and I tell you there is 100% possibility that she will the the same thing in marriage if u marry her. its better you let her go now than letting her go in marriage... please bro don't accept her back, what every will give u hypertension and thinking let it go, situation of Nigeria is enough problem than allowing a girl to add to it.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:39am On May 06, 2019
QueenSekxy:
You did the right thing; so long you didn't cheat on her aswel.

thanks dear! at least this is coming from a female
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Ayoemrys(m): 8:40am On May 06, 2019
Community borehole, anybody can fetch it,

I feel for you bro,but u did the right thing
A slut will always remain a slut
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:41am On May 06, 2019
[quote author=pocohantas post=78143580]Community girlfriend...[/quote j] jeezzz!!!
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by GraGra247(m): 8:41am On May 06, 2019
And someone is still asking if he did the right thing. SOME MEN ARE ABSOLUTELY DERANGED FOOLS

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by lacruz12(m): 8:44am On May 06, 2019
She won't quit giving her kpekus for testing, such girls are what we call LG meaning 'loose guard." Forget the temporary remorse, it's all a facade. Move on bro

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:47am On May 06, 2019
pauloemeka:
if you eventually marry such a girl she will do same in marriage... because she knows you will always forgive her.. and I tell you there is 100% possibility that she will the the same thing in marriage if u marry her. its better you let her go now than letting her go in marriage... please bro don't accept her back, what every will give u hypertension and thinking let it go, situation of Nigeria is enough problem than allowing a girl to add to it.
thank you so much I will take this your advice..
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:50am On May 06, 2019
lacruz12:
She won't quit giving her kpekus for testing, such girls are what we call LG meaning 'loose guard." Forget the temporary remorse, it's all a facade. Move on bro
mehnn.. you're too much, thanks
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:51am On May 06, 2019
GraGra247:
And someone is still asking if he did the right thing. SOME MEN ARE ABSOLUTELY DERANGED FOOLS
even as it's quite insultive, but I still get your message though!!! thanks!
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by princefrank76: 8:54am On May 06, 2019
Ayoemrys:
Community borehole, anybody can fetch it,
I feel for you bro,but u did the right thing A slut will always remain a slut
gbam!! absolutely.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by nodeKWKLFL: 9:46am On May 06, 2019
Why feel hurt over a loose partner? Cut ties immediately and go have fun, meet new people.
Leave her and see where she ends. Same place others end. For now it's fun to her. Let's see few years from now and see the choice she ends up with. Cheats don't even appreciate good partners.

Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by SmellingAnus(m): 10:02am On May 06, 2019
@ princefrank76

What is more important now is for you to go for HIV test and make sure you are okay... Your life first before any pussy...

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Michelle55: 10:47am On May 06, 2019
Cheating is a choice.. Glad you didn't fall for her tricks again. Cheating is actually a dangerous game to play: the lies you have to tell, the anxiety you face when you think you are being monitored, the guilty conscience syndrome, the restlessness etc. It's truly not worth the hassle, instead of cheating you can decide to be single and enjoy your peace of mind thereby whoever you sleep with during the course of being single is nobody's business /concern.. But in a relationship you are expected to be committed, it's either you are truly IN or OUT!!
Op, forgive her but let her go!! At the end of the day it's your health and peace of mind that's paramount

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by luvyaself95(m): 10:47am On May 06, 2019
You Have Do The Needful Nothing Else To Do Again...
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Martinez39(m): 11:04am On May 06, 2019
You are a big f00l. undecided
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by iamdannyfc(m): 11:45am On May 06, 2019
It is good it all happen when you are dating.

still available @signature
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Jerrosky1986(m): 12:14pm On May 06, 2019
una nor get money but una dey find pretty girls with class. why won't they cheat? pls go for a decent girl of your class not Ashawo slay Queen

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Nobody: 12:17pm On May 06, 2019
princefrank76:
it's said when a particular thing á happen once it may be considered as a mistake but when it does repeatedly it is regarded as a habit..
our relationship was a working one with an ambition of working down the isle together. we were best of lovers, I will liken it to romeo and Juliet..
the reverse is the case now, it all started when she traveled out of town.. we were still hearing from each other on daily bases while she was away, but when she came back in December 2018 after a year away I discover she cheated all along but she denied it making me look as if I was imposing something she know nothing about on her, to cut the long story short she admitted she cheated after much confrontation. digging deep I discovered she did not just with cheat with a single person but different guys including married men. I was so pained that i demanded for a breakup but she pleaded and even swear never to do it again that she regrets her actions out love I forgave her and we moved on. that was around January this year. two months later I travel out and when I came back I discover a strange guys pic on her gallery, they snap together intimately, I became suspicious and asked her she told me she has nothing to do with the guy that he is just her uncle's friend. fast forward to last week I discover she has something to do with this very guy, I confronted her she denied it for like three days and even swear she know nothing about the accusation.. it's when she discovered I was not ready to fall for her lies she admitted it that she had s.ex with the guy. now this guy is a random guy that came home for an urgent business he's no based here, as I type this he had gone back to he's comfort zone.. I have to come to conclusion that she is a loose girl and i called it a quit with her. now she's begging that I should give her another chance, claiming she don't know what came over her but i told her I ran out of chances for her. I hope it's the right thing I did.
advice from mature minds please...!
pls lock up d key to the door of love in ur heart for her,nd throw it insyd kuramo beach..
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by YoungBlackRico(m): 12:22pm On May 06, 2019
Bro, you're with a hoe...cut her loose.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Girl Of 3years.. Sad!!! by Tallesty1(m): 12:49pm On May 06, 2019
You said the love was like that of romeo and Julie?. Dude, do you know how Julie and Romeo ended? Be glad you're still alive.


Get busy with stuffs, it will help you to forget her and if you would listen I will advice you to leave relationship alone for now, it usually ain't worth the time it takes.


I ain't saying you shouldn't fvck when you want to, you can always pretend you love a woman, fvck her enough and then move on or better still get the service of those who charge for sex.


It hurts when you see lovebirds and you're single but the pain is nothing compared to the happiness you feel when you look into your wallet and see that all your money are still in it.

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