I have this conceptual view about who takes on the position of the best man in a wedding as a faulty culture. A bride by this belief, fell for the groom's so called best man. Am afraid the best man had rather be the groom cos he's best for the day. Do men really need a best man before they wed? fellas, do u share this optimism.  

The bridegroom fell in love with the groom's best man, is that fair? felas, i've determined not to have a bestman if am to get married. Am i being jealous or wat. i think am meant to be the bestman for the day. or wat do u feel.

Interesting.