| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Springsdy456958(m): 2:15am On May 19, 2019 |
You never caught her cheating, she told you. she cheated I'm not sure you'll be able to live with the fact that she did had sex multiple times. Forget about begging follow your heart. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Originalsly: 2:22am On May 19, 2019 |
Did you find out if she was cheating on somebody else with you at NYSC?...or you believ she dropped there from heaven? Was she a drink to get drunk while at NYSC?...or you think when she got drunk and got laid by a random guy it was the first time? She cheated on you the second time when she stayed in the hotel with her male friend.... but they didn't have sex.... maybe the friend is a pastor gay.... but if nothing happened....why is she saying she cheated?
Cheating is one thing....getting drunk and laid by random guys is basically being a w.hore when drunk....not a prostitute... a w.hore.If I were her parents...I would also bend backwards to show you love.... donI have to say why? Let that babe go. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by openmine(m): 2:29am On May 19, 2019 |
 I pity some people here who still erroneously believe that you can be in a 'relationship' and still be 'unfaithful' or disloyal as long as you are not 'married'.... Take a stroll down to the last threads in page one and see for yourself! https://www.nairaland.com/5194392/married-woman-dies-during-sexI still repeat....Marriage will never and can never guarantee faithfulness or loyalty from your partner esp the promiscuous ones! When one cheats on a partner that they are in a relationship with,it implies that the person lack emotional maturity hence,the person will still continue the cheating(during marriage) even after catching him/her red handed! I still repeat....marriage will NEVER guarantee faithfulness or loyalty from your partner! OP....You don't need answers....You already have plenty! The choice is yours to make! 3 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by annford: 2:33am On May 19, 2019 |
ikemesit4477:
5 days in a hotel with a woman, nothing happens! Abi where you guy's doing Bible studies!  Lol. Sex isn't everything and everything isn't Sex. A lot of people attach so much importance to sex. Get to know someone very well before initiating and introducing sex. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 2:33am On May 19, 2019 |
OP, Three things sum you up: you are too inquisitive , immature and confused. Your kind of woman isn't in Nigeria so get to work: carry some clay and mold the angel and saint you are looking for.. Shm... Like you didn't fvck or waank when you were abroad all that time. Nonsense. & MOD, what's "self service" ?  |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by annford: 2:35am On May 19, 2019 |
lonelygem:
But do u know that if it had been the other way round, I mean if she had caught you or even smell it that you attempted cheating on her she wouldn't have forgiven you? And all these family and friends asking you to forgive and forget would have been the one to support her never to forgive you?
One of those lessons you need to learn is 'what you are always pitiful about and wouldn't want to do to a woman, she would do a hundred folds to you without looking back. Sadly the society believe men to be harsh and irrational when it comes to hurtful act but labelled women as fragile hearted and compassionate. Their is no greater evil and sabotage against men than this.
Please, wake up. You are gradually loosing control of the relationship and subjecting your sense of decisions to her parents and relatives for reason best known to u alone.
If u don't want to hurt her, how about hurting yourself in the long run? If by chance you try to take back the full control in future, how would you feel if she eventually tells you you cant introduce something new but keep to how you both had been rolling all along. Some of those things we overlook often come to hunt our affection in future.
Think like a man and don't fall cheap for some unguarded emotions. Marriage is a lifetime contract. So many are already in it to discover they've lost the control, but the shame and stigma of broken marriage makes majority to remain subtle and continue even when the content and credence are long gone. You, I must say, are full of Wisdom and your words, very plain and simple. |
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by annford: 2:39am On May 19, 2019 |
saasala:
@bolded
One or more of these 3 things:
1) She is ugly as fvck
2) You are ugly and broke
3) Either or both of you is gay That's where you got it wrong. No 1, she is very beautiful and as a matter of fact, she's a billboard Model. No2. I am Handsome and doing very great Financially. No3. She and I are both straight. Sex isn't everything and everything isn't sex. I had travelled to meet with her for the very first time. we needed to get to know each other. it isn't everyone that is sex-driven. I don't rush to have sex with a lady when I meet one. You'd have plenty of time for that when the right time comes. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by annford: 2:41am On May 19, 2019 |
sunkieisland:
This is the most unbiased, matured comment I have read on relationship matters in recent weeks.
Nice one Thank you very much. I really appreciate the comments. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 2:43am On May 19, 2019 |
Are you saying you have been faithful to her.... In your one year and eight months away u did not chop another kpekus??
Is that what you're saying?? |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by annford: 2:44am On May 19, 2019 |
Sunnymatey:
Really? So its u? Spent 5 days with my fiancee in a hotel room.
Bros be sincere if ur fiancee did same with another guy will u be please with her to the extent of proposing marriage to her?
She told me u guys spent jst a night together (Valentine's Day) meanwhile its 5 whole nights.
Fear women
Lol. Nah, it wasn't Valentine. it was actually in the Month of March in 2014. She is my ex. I had travelled down to Uyo to meet with her. She was serving her Fatherland there at that time. I never had sex with her when I visited but enjoyed her company so much (she's a Nerd). We kept exchanging ideas on Technology..... |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by BABANGBALI: 2:57am On May 19, 2019 |
i still do not know why people will be killing themselves over what they cannot chop finish. tohyorsih enjoy yourself jare the thing no get metre, na only slack e go slack and we go take alum wash am |
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by tohyorsih(f): 3:14am On May 19, 2019 |
BABANGBALI:
i still do not know why people will be killing themselves over what they cannot chop finish. tohyorsih enjoy yourself jare the thing no get metre, na only slack e go slack and we go take alum wash am Mad man |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 3:23am On May 19, 2019 |
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 3:30am On May 19, 2019 |
OP, please forget about any long distance relationship with any Nigerian female.
Face your studies and find a good woman that’s local to you.
Be thankful that she’s made it very easy for you to judge her character. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by zikodem(m): 3:31am On May 19, 2019 |
Na them, Run 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by OyinO: 4:06am On May 19, 2019 |
You don't know the kind of woman you have. You lack standard and taste of standard wife material. There are many counterfeit products out there in the market. What do you want? She's fake and will do it again and again on your bed! |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 4:06am On May 19, 2019 |
SageMK:
SMH.
I don't know where this breed of men keep coming from.
To think your fiance, cheated on you twice with random modafúckers without a second thought but yet, here you are asking for directions on what to do?? Oh No.
Lol. I'll consider the fact that you are still in shock and just maybe that's why you can't decide on what to do.
Okay. Here's what you should do brother
1. Come back to Nigeria and call for a family meeting. Tell them you've forgive her and you'll like to marry her in the coming weeks.
2. Tell them their family house will be the venue of the grand reception you'll be holding for the wedding. And you need to fix their roof and a little renovation here and there.
3. Pay contractors to remove the roof and windows of their house. Then delete and block her contacts. Pack your bags and fly back to Netherlands.
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by capitalzero: 4:31am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate op you are not yet mature to handle relationship. she is either a LovePeddler or not ready for any relationship. If you dare marry her,you may not be the father of your first child. she is a careless girl. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by biridon(m): 4:32am On May 19, 2019 |
some truths are better not known |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 4:45am On May 19, 2019 |
See dis wan o, you leave lion with meat, you say make e no chop lol; your fiancee na correct ashana you bera dump that bia!$# |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Titogbanski: 4:45am On May 19, 2019 |
She is a good girl.
This is a confession by her not that you caught her.
Pls do introduction and traditional if you xannot do all the marriage immediately.
It is the only way to declare your seriousness |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by King44(m): 4:49am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate if you marry this kind of girl I am assuring you that you will later regret, the first when she was in law school was a mistake but the second wasn't and that is truly who she is, assuming you are married to her and because of work you had to travel for a month or two this is the kind of wife who would fork your best friend and bring is family to beg you claiming it's the devils handiwork cause she sees you as a weakling from day one, use your brain don't stay in a relationship that sucks out of sympathy but if you decide to marry her out of love be ready to deal with these type of occurrence through out your marital life and don't forget a cheating wife kills faster than HIV etc the decision is yours to make 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 4:49am On May 19, 2019 |
BABANGBALI:
i still do not know why people will be killing themselves over what they cannot chop finish. tohyorsih enjoy yourself jare the thing no get metre, na only slack e go slack and we go take alum wash am True that, tautau meter is not only hampered by technological constraints, but also political correctness |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 4:51am On May 19, 2019 |
Na cuckold you wan be so oo. Better leave that woman and find another. Women no scarce. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 4:55am On May 19, 2019 |
I don't know the kind of advice you want but if you marry her and end up dead because of her infidelity, rest in peace. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by PrettyBoyBreezy(m): 4:57am On May 19, 2019 |
Next2Bezee:
Don't be fooled. The same mother that is begging you is the same woman that turned a blind eye when her daughter was cheating.
If you believe that the girl only cheated on you twice, then your name is 'Sorry'.
She likes your money and gifts, but sharing nudes and having fone-zex is not enough to keep most Nigerian girls happy; their body no be firewood.
So, bro, if you like yourself, run! Run as fast as you can, without looking back.
You live and work in the Netherlands, so have some self-esteem. Don't allow one small 9ja olosho to play with your heart like this.
Work on yourself and shoot for white babes.
Remember what I said: run! If not, one day you will move back to Nigeria because of this girl, and when your money finishes, she will vamoose.
To be forewarned is to be forearmed. You said my mind mehn. Timmybabyface, i know u love her but I'm telling you from experience that this girl doesn't care about you. She's keeping u cos u have big potential nd u help her with her needs. Run my brother. There are many many girls that will love you that they can never cheat on u. Forget d idea of body no be firewood bullshit, she no send u brother. Move on please, she'll never change. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by donkarmal(m): 4:58am On May 19, 2019 |
You can accept her with her problems after all you love and
Your mumu never do. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Collins87: 5:09am On May 19, 2019 |
Okafor's law is always... |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Naruto87(m): 5:11am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate Marry who you want your daughter to be like and who you want your future son to marry. #bewise |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by frankson1(m): 5:26am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate Brother, how could you just ask her if she has been cheating on you? You even gave her the Bible to swear with. Do you feel inescure, if you do, you should work on yourself. The excuses she gave you might be LIES so you should just live your life and stop worrying is she's cheating or not. The Netherlands to Nigeria...guy, I don't buy the idea of these type of relationships. Even most married partners who work outside of the state where they live with their partners are not safe. You know her better than we do so make and take your decision. |
