How can one deal with a relationship that lacks good foundation of love and understanding from both sides, but it's already leading to marriage due to the fact that both parties concerned are ready to marry and feels like they can make do with the feelings though little they both have for each other and build on it later after marriage. I'm talking about a situation in which you don't have any specific thing you like about your spouse, apart from the natural feeling of a man to a woman or vice versa and that nudging to get a better half and start your own family. I'm currently in this kind of situation, the things I do are just out of obligations, necessity or just trying to be nice and not out of love per se, and I'm actually not ready to look for another woman, but I'm hoping it might get better. If you got married in this kind of situation how are you holding up with your spouse now.

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I will be candid with you, life is full of obligations, choices after decisions, now you have a situation of prospecting marriage, if she has good attitude and you are comfortable first with the way she relates with you or your family members, then go ahead and stop asking for advise because love in marriage is 20%,understanding-40% and commitment 40%. It simply means if you both don’t understand yourselves and are not both committed to making it work. No one should come here tomorrow and ask for advise. Simple love will come strongly later. Endeavor to cuddle but less sex so that more emotions will flow

lordweezy:
I will be candid with you, life is full of obligations, choices after decisions, now you have a situation of prospecting marriage, if she has good attitude and you are comfortable first with the way she relates with you or your family members, then go ahead and stop asking for advise because love in marriage is 20%,understanding-40% and commitment 40%. It simply means if you both don’t understand yourselves and are not both committed to making it work. No one should come here tomorrow and ask for advise. Simple love will come strongly later. Endeavor to cuddle but less sex so that more emotions will flow

okay thanks

when u start living with your spouse, that's when the true attitude of the person begins to show,some people can act very well just to cover their real selves but then,when the true colour begins to show and it turns out to be bad,how will the love which never existed before exist . Its love that will aid u in enduring some attitudes that will be displayed later.
-love is the reason a woman refused to leave her abusive husband.
-love is the reason a man took a prostitute home and made her his wife.
Love is very important, don't just marry bc u wish to settle down,you guys should take your time and discover love first, very important.

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