Thousands of articles masterfully lay out tips and tricks for proper blow jobs. But there is not nearly enough information out there about how to give women great head... and certainly not enough people doing it.


IT IS A TRAVESTY AND IT ENDS NOW. Consider this Cunnilingus 101, where you are about to learn how to go down on a woman like a champion.
Honor pre-intimacy and give lots of compliments
Do not pull her pants off and go right for the main event. Turning her on beforehand is a must -- so kiss her, run your fingers and tongue along her torso and inner thighs, tell her how hot she is, how good she tastes, how delicious she smells. Whatever her body hair situation is, bask in it.
A woman who feels self-conscious while your face is in her crotch is not going to have an orgasm. So it's your job to encourage her to relax -- and to ensure she feels every bit of the beauty she is.
Communication is (always) key
To give great head, you have to ask your partner what they want. Vaginas are not some one-size-licks-all kind of situation. Different women want different things. Of course there are basic rules (and we’ll get to those in a minute) -- but you have got to ask what she’s into.
She might be shy about it, so watch for other cues like moans and body language. If she likes what you’re doing down there, keep doing whatever that thing is until she says to do something else (or stops making all that noise).
Let’s hear it for the clitoris!
The clit is the bug right at the top of the vulva. It looks like a rosebud -- and touching it while you penetrate her with your fingers is probably the most direct way to get her off. The clit is the ultimate pleasure powerhouse for women. When in doubt, keep your mouth and tongue on the clitoris. This is your safe space.
The center of gravity is fun (but not for everyone)
The center of gravity is just behind the pubic bone, about 2in inside the vagina. If you put your pointer and middle fingers inside and make a "come hither" motion, you’ll feel a walnut-sized, textured patch of skin. Bingo. Gently add pressure with slowly massaged circles over the center of gravity while also pressing against the front of her pubis bone with your chin, lips or fingers from your other hand.
If you are stimulating her center of gravity and she doesn’t like penetration (of any kind) during oral, she will not come. Watch for her reactions to gauge whether she's into it. Pressing harder against you and saying words like yes? Good signs. Squirming away from you or pushing your hand away? Bad. Don't take it personally if center of gravity stimulation isn't her bag -- just move onto something else.
Use your whole tongue
Giving a woman head is not a tip-of-the-tongue exercise. Use your whole tongue to stimulate both sides of her labia at once. Run it up and down her folds and watch her reactions. Press it against her pubis. Put it inside her and close your mouth over her clit. Continue reading

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