truthsayer009:


Thank you, I don't call her prostitute for dating me because of her motives. Once the motive is to have -> Sex -> Stand up -> Collect money. It's called prostitution. I agree everything is give & take, but once sex becomes the modus operandi of your survival, you're a prostitute.

I already know you ladies are trying to normalize the act but honestly It's never going to fly with me.

mrphysics:

Life is about give and take but it all depends on the reference frame. I have no issue with what people do for sex. I have no problem when someone takes money for sex or give it out for free. I am only concerned about equating sex for money.

The first question I asked myself when I read your submission and that of others is "what's the reason for prostitution"; abundance or lack of money? Secondly, what is the value of sex?

Let me give my opinion on the above questions.

1. There is a beginning to everything. The process of a thing is not the beginning of that thing. At at the time a lady decides to indulge in prostitution, how was her life, her needs, and her condition. I do not have a primary data to back this up but from experience, it all began in the lack of the basic amenities, hence the decision to equate sex to money. But what if at that space in time she was considering this great decision she had all she needed, trust me, there is a high probability she would pursue other things of life.
Therefore the equation is:
Sex(x1,t1) = money (x2,t2) (if and only if at x1 and t1, there is no money) ---------1
Sex /= money (if there is abundance of money @ t=t1)

My point here is that what determines whether of give sex for money is their condition at the time of taking this decision. Therefore it is wrong to equate it simply because of its present time in space.

I doubt you at this time would give sex for money, however, a simple research in brothels or with those that give sex for money might prove this point right.

Acidosis:


It's funny how you condemn infidelity yet stay mute on matters that concern prostitution (sleeping around for financial or material gains). Prostitutes don't care about marital status FYI and commitment to a partner is never an option in the bye-laws of a prostitute.

Mznaett:
Ho la la! Our thread is back.
For those of you that can't do without calling on the mods to ban or delete a thread that you can't relate with, I'd advise you use the EXIT button next time.

Chubhie:

You see girl begin shine teeth up-and-down

KevinDein:

Lol

Actually, I liked her comment even before I clicked on her profile.

breakerofchains:
Madam, you think you are better because you don't get paid for sex?

Lmao..

Sis, did you even get to bust a nut during sex?

No?

No orgasm,no money , you will still enter keke with the 200 naira he gave you after grumbling and you'll go home to soak garri.

Yet for some weird reason , you think you are better than that slay queen who gets sponsored vacations abroad, thousands of dollars, baby girl lifestyle fully funded while her own money keeps growing in her bank account untouched... For doing what?

For the same f*cling SEX you're doing for free.

Yet , yet

You think you're better... Ehya sorry oh.

Just so we're clear, if you like be Mary amaka, to the average Nigerian man, you are still an OLOSHO.

These girls you talk down on are finessers. They are scamming the system that was made to scam them.

I'm not saying you should start demanding payment for your orgasmless sex, hey , by all means keep fucking for free.
But never ever deceive yourself by thinking you're better.
You're not.

She's running a business, securing her bag.

You're operating a charity organization , which is OK too.

But who's cashing out?

Edit:

I wish bland. had a block button. I woulve loved to block some dumb bitches (I call guys and girls "bitch"

STAY TRIGGERED

So some dumbfucks be all over this thread saying shit like " make your own money"

Okay listen,

Imma make my own MONEY and still won't Bleep you for free okay??

Once again

STAY PRESSED

Bossjakande:
gosh.am speechless

lilianofentse:
lalasticlacla mynd44 please close this thread. It damages the reputation of nairaland and isn't in the right section.

Chubhie:

You lost me when you try to lump different threads just to advance your POV. Now, for the sake of this thread I think I was clear enough to point out that from a business and pragmatic point of views that it was a solid argument in terms of premise,structure and conclusion.

Only a madman can argue the validity of OP arguments.

breakerofchains:


They don't agree with you hunnay

elantraceey:



From experience....most of them.

Bossjakande:
I just saw DAT u are a married woman and I smile wen u are done trying to destroy life of young girls here go back to hubby and ur happy home. wat u gain I dont know. I have no issue wit u cos no matter wat u have a home.I only pity d homeless follow follow pple who will throw away luv and a good man DAT dey can marry for #5000 tdb. how much is 5k.can it cook a good pot of soup.greet ur hubby for me.bye

breakerofchains:


I appreciate the fact that you are honest enough to see my point regardless of the fact that you might have different personal convictions.
You don't get that every day especially in Nigeria.
It's indeed a breath of fresh air

crackhaus:

Lol..

I already typed a response to this yesterday, but by the time I hit submit, the thread was gone.
Nice to see it back.

LilMissFavvy:
yes the thread is back. For those who do not understand the thread, it is simply talking about fornication. ''some fornicate and don't get paid, others fornicate, and insist on being paid....ooopps'',

crackhaus:

Boss Boss, so for your mind you feel say na all olosho dey charge 5k. No wonder you dey vex

Enter some kind places, you go see the freshest poshest looking women with better skin wey go charge you at least 100k on top abeg, and go still dey give you rules on top - I don't do anál, I don't lick azz, no biting, no whipping etc..
For some of them, it is a career oo, don't get it twisted. And some will not sex anyhow person, so don't think they are even opening legs for every tom, dick, & harry.
Call girls, escorts, Instagram models, sugar babes with big god, video vixen - different names, but the same work na dem dey.

Nobody is saying the life is good, neither is it something young women ought to aspire to, but trying to demonize the one that is cashing out through sex over the one that is having sex in the name of love or boyfriend things?
You sef reason am.

LilMissFavvy:
yes the thread is back. For those who do not understand the thread, it is simply talking about fornication. ''some fornicate and don't get paid, others fornicate, and insist on being paid....ooopps'',

crackhaus:

Boss Boss, so for your mind you feel say na all olosho dey charge 5k. No wonder you dey vex

Enter some kind places, you go see the freshest poshest looking women with better skin wey go charge you at least 100k on top abeg, and go still dey give you rules on top - I don't do anál, I don't lick azz, no biting, no whipping etc..
For some of them, it is a career oo, don't get it twisted. And some will not sex anyhow person, so don't think they are even opening legs for every tom, dick, & harry.
Call girls, escorts, Instagram models, sugar babes with big god, video vixen - different names, but the same work na dem dey.

Nobody is saying the life is good, neither is it something young women ought to aspire to, but trying to demonize the one that is cashing out through sex over the one that is having sex in the name of love or boyfriend things?
You sef reason am.

Bossjakande:
guy I no demonize ashawo cos am not a Hippocrates. we need dem. but me personally I dont like dem. but am saying dont compare dem to people who are really in love. ashawo dey love customer? if I get a girl so if we bang u are comparing her to harlot abi. dont do DAT pls

truthsayer009:


Well, that is your ideology. We don't have to take it. You can keep your opinion & we keep ours.

crackhaus:

No wahala, Orubebe

Although, it seems like that comment was already getting through to you & making its way into your mind, but you just had to make a show of some resistance.

breakerofchains:
Madam, you think you are better because you don't get paid for sex?

Lmao..

Sis, did you even get to bust a nut during sex?

No?

No orgasm,no money , you will still enter keke with the 200 naira he gave you after grumbling and you'll go home to soak garri.

Yet for some weird reason , you think you are better than that slay queen who gets sponsored vacations abroad, thousands of dollars, baby girl lifestyle fully funded while her own money keeps growing in her bank account untouched... For doing what?

For the same f*cling SEX you're doing for free.

Yet , yet

You think you're better... Ehya sorry oh.

Just so we're clear, if you like be Mary amaka, to the average Nigerian man, you are still an OLOSHO.

These girls you talk down on are finessers. They are scamming the system that was made to scam them.

I'm not saying you should start demanding payment for your orgasmless sex, hey , by all means keep fucking for free.
But never ever deceive yourself by thinking you're better.
You're not.

She's running a business, securing her bag.

You're operating a charity organization , which is OK too.

But who's cashing out?

Edit:

I wish bland. had a block button. I woulve loved to block some dumb bitches (I call guys and girls "bitch"

STAY TRIGGERED

So some dumbfucks be all over this thread saying shit like " make your own money"

Okay listen,

Imma make my own MONEY and still won't Bleep you for free okay??

Once again

STAY PRESSED

Acidosis:


You're right on that, but there can be no demand without supply. To address the demand from men, you need to cut short supply.

Acidosis:




OP, who raised you?

breakerofchains:


Both are transactional sex. Transactional sex can happen in any form.

Just tell me, what is wrong with getting money for sex?

Please don't tell me about your religion, let's be logical here.

breakerofchains:


Your lack of common sense is disgusting.

Because if you made use of even one of your five Brain cells, you would have figured out that I was referring to girls who have sugar daddies, they call them runs babes.

I have nothing against prostitution apart from the fact that they do so much for so little

And what makes yo think runs babes don't have businesses and careers? They do. They just don't do shit for the free.

Now go wipe your broke boyfriend's ass, dumb bitch.

breakerofchains:


I won't sleep with men for free. Heck! I won't even date one for free.

I'm very selfish with my time and attention, if you want it ,you have to pay.

If you're asking if I'm a sex worker, I'm not I have other things I do.
I just personalized the post to air my opinion on the hate sex workers and slay queens receive and how it's all bullshit created to control women and keep them ashamed of leveraging on their sexuality.

If you can do it for free,you can get paid for it too.


I'm a Slay Queen BTW

ImaIma1:

The gateman

eyinjuege:


There must be a demand before supply would arise. Dont absolve men of responsibility. Let them control their feelings and you will see prostitution becoming unprofitable.
You cannot want a sane society and not be ready to work for it.

FannySwindler1:
Breakerofchains. You don't need to be a lesbian or bisexual to have orgasm. Just because you get orgasm from women don't mean hetero women can't get from their men.

All the women that have had their fanny swindled by me get multiple orgasm. Majority of them are heterosexual.

Your transactional sex is about your financial needs and not based on orgasm. That, I can understand. You have chosen to collect money to be fuccked. Your choice and that don't make it right. Others can choose to give it free.Their choice as well.

Free or no Free.. All is fornication/ prostitution. No one should judge. For all have been guilty at one time or the other or are still guilty.

I don't need Google to give me statistics of women who orgasm. If you need coaching about your body, I can do that free without consulting Google.

All you are doing is looking for validation. For all those who validate your approach and ideology or support your trade. "Transactional sex". Please make sure you all transfer the skills to your daughters. To sustain "Transgenerational Transactional Sex.

And to promote your orgasm ministry, ensure that your daughters practice lesbianism and /or bisexuality. That will also help reduce the statistics of heterosexual women with no orgasm. That will be in keeping with your advocacy.

We shall call that "Transgenerational Lesbianism or Bisexuality Skills Transfer"

By the way.. How do you achieve orgasm? Just curious.