This week, Esther explains her definition of what exactly constitutes a s*xual fantasy.

“What is s*xual fantasy?” – Dylan, Columbus, OH

People sometimes confess to me that they don’t have s*xual fantasies. They assume they have no imagination. I want to tell you that everyone has the capacity for fantasy.

But what is fantasy? The idea of it has been coopted so that we view it through a narrow lens. It has come to mean costumes, porn-star poses, elaborate accouterments and role-play. You can certainly introduce role-play into your relationship and here’s how.

But here is the radical but simple definition of fantasy: s*xual fantasy is simply anything that enhances excitement or pleasure. Whether it’s the time of day, the way the breeze drifts across a field or a story you create about the way someone looks at you. Let’s continue to unpack the idea of fantasy........



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