I understand you need more info but nothing justifies a public outburst (she says it happened more than once, if I read correctly) or a beating, people must just walk away instead of turning another adult into a child, that's all I am saying! If the woman did the same thing to the man, she would be labelled psychotic bitch or ill-mannered but for the man it's ok as long as he has a reason, come on now!

He loves you, but shout at u, i know he pay u more so just stay with it till u get married he will soon change

djojo:

He loves you, but shout at u, i know he pay u more so just stay with it till u get married he will soon change

WHAT, do they ever change? for the worst maybe, hardly for the better!

SA Goddess,

What do you EXPECT boys to say?  OF course they will come up with stupid azz reasonings for some bullchit,

You was on point and I hope the poster take heed to the advice!

SA Goddess:

I understand you need more info but nothing justifies a public outburst (she says it happened more than once, if I read correctly) or a beating, people must just walk away instead of turning another adult into a child, that's all I am saying! If the woman did the same thing to the man, she would be labelled psychotic naughty woman or ill-mannered but for the man it's ok as long as he has a reason, come on now!

happening more than once doesnt mean she is all clear what if she is doing the same thing that makes him explode

i know people rush to conclude but they forget that there is always something that provokes such behaviour not that i support the behaviour but we need to look into things that led to such burst and see if those things good or bad in their own right

Even if SHE DOES PROVOKES HIM, he CONTROLS HIS OWN ACTIONS,

.boys blame others for their ACTIONS, MEN TAKE OWNERSHIP OF THEIR OWN ACTIONS,

queeneve:

Even if SHE DOES PROVOKES HIM, he CONTROLS HIS OWN ACTIONS,

.boys blame others for their ACTIONS, MEN TAKE OWNERSHIP OF THEIR OWN ACTIONS,

you aint reasoning like i am dear

i aint defending the nigga but i want all facts

i want to clear the girl by her giving us the full facts she might be doing the same mistakes over and over again

if she is clear of any faults then we can say the nigga is a nutter but both might contribute to each other mistakes and out burst

to me so far no one is not guilty both are they need to gives facts to not find them not guilty either

sorry girl.try again.goodluck

No one MAKES ANYONE DO ANYTHING, the blame is on WHOMEVER does the deed,

Just like she should have left, so should he!

IF she hits him, then she is to be blame because she controls her own actions,

If he hits her, then he is to be blame because he controls his own actions,

ZIM, I think I have made myself clear on this topic and so have you, NOTHING justifies a public outburst or a beating, no matter what started it, will screaming help the man in any way, other than making him look like an out of control slowpoke!

SA Goddess:

ZIM, I think I have made myself clear on this topic and so have you, NOTHING justifies a public outburst or a beating, no matter what started it, will screaming help the man in any way, other than making him look like an out of control slowpoke!

i do get what you saying but you were sounding as if you were defending her even if she provokes

so i had to ask why him has to be a gentleman even when provoked it is biased to me

queeneve:

No one MAKES ANYONE DO ANYTHING, the blame is on WHOMEVER does the deed,

Just like she should have left, so should he!

IF she hits him, then she is to be blame because she controls her own actions,

If he hits her, then he is to be blame because he controls his own actions,

think harder dear


if you hit me i will hit you back ==== you made me hit you back

if dont hit i wouldnt hit you ----if i hit for no reason then we say i am a nutter thats the reason i want to know what made the nigga explode in each case

change him if you really love him, no man is perfect.

Abusers can't be changed, he has to want the change himself!

Gotdamn Zrill,

Pay attention! I said both PARTIES SHOULD CONTROL THEIR ACTIONS!!!!!! Do you know what both means? Oh I forgot yall speak Uk English,

It the pair of them responsibilities to control their OWN actions,

queeneve:

Gotdamn Zrill,

Pay attention! I said both PARTIES SHOULD CONTROL THEIR ACTIONS!!!!!! Do you know what both means? Oh I forgot yall speak Uk English,

It the pair of them responsibilities to control their OWN actions,

you got selective reading dear

i only commented on were you said No one MAKES ANYONE DO ANYTHING, the blame is on WHOMEVER does the deed

hence i didnt comment on the BOTH becoz i agree with it

hmm you need to show him just how CRAZY AND IGNORANT you can be in public as well, trust me once you do, he will never try to shame you in public,

My dear don't expect it to get better with marriage. It only gets worse! So before you accept his proposal you really need to ask yourself if you willing to deal with this attitude of his especially if he ain't willing to change.

My dear, in a difficult situation this is what I'll always advice: pray. It may sound naive, but the power of it is great. The grass is not always greener on the other side. If you dump this guy, who is to say you will get it better with the next.

By all means, dont put up with his attitude.There are ways you can handle things for now while you pray about it.

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