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Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 1:48pm On Jun 15, 2019
Last week, my WhatsApp contact posted a status update that got me thinking all day and I thought I should share my thoughts with you guys…He posted this:

One man can impregnate 9 women everyday for 9 months, those are 2,430 pregnancies. One woman can only get pregnant once within 9 months even if she beds 9 men everyday within 9 months.

And it got me thinking…are we enforcing birth control on the wrong gender?...

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by tedimola(m): 1:48pm On Jun 15, 2019
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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Origin(f): 1:51pm On Jun 15, 2019
makes sense.

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:04pm On Jun 15, 2019
Thanks boo
Origin:
makes sense.
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:14pm On Jun 15, 2019
If we should tell men to go clip their balls, they'll be shouting fire and brimstone like it makes them less of a man, there should be an awareness of this, enough with women and birth control.

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by AmazonTopaz(f): 2:18pm On Jun 15, 2019
Yes, Men should do vasectomy

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by iRepNaija1: 2:29pm On Jun 15, 2019
It won't happen, even if it should. A man's ego is tied too closely to his performance in bed, his dīck size, how many women he can sleep with and/or ejaculate into, and etc. Having some form of birth control for them would be something they would consider to be a direct assault on their manhood.

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by derrydinny: 2:29pm On Jun 15, 2019
men's birth control as of today's medical technology is irreversible, once you get a vasectomy then you are done making babies but women's own can still be reversed so they can conceive provided they are not on menopause, they can still make babies even after menopause(ivf stuff)
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no man in his 20s or 30s will agree to a permanent birth control method except if he is done making babies, he will still think twice for future purposes.

the sperm is also too fragile to fvck with, one silly mistake and the sperm may become weak and it may never become good again

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:42pm On Jun 15, 2019
Vasectomy is reversible...but yea there is a risk to it which is why the post didn't focus on vasectomy but on birth control pills or shots for men.
derrydinny:
men's birth control as of today's medical technology is irreversible, once you get a vasectomy then you are done making babies but women's own can still be reversed so they can conceive provided they are not on menopause, they can still make babies even after menopause(ivf stuff)
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no man in his 20s or 30s will agree to a permanent birth control method except if he is done making babies, he will still think twice for future purposes.

the sperm is also too fragile to fvck with, one silly mistake and the sperm may become weak and it may never become good again
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:43pm On Jun 15, 2019
Yet men take viagra...which has these side effects you mentioned....the pills are perfectly fine.. man up..double up
iRepNaija1:
It won't happen, even if it should. A man's ego is tied too closely to his performance in bed, his dīck size, how many women he can sleep with and/or ejaculate into, and etc. Having some form of birth control for them would be something they would consider to be a direct assault on their manhood.
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:44pm On Jun 15, 2019
Louder....for those at the back...lol
Fountainofyouth:
If we should tell men to go clip their balls, they'll be shouting fire and brimstone like it makes them less of a man, there should be an awareness of this, enough with women and birth control.

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:44pm On Jun 15, 2019
I agree
AmazonTopaz:
Yes, Men should do vasectomy

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Foodforthought: 2:45pm On Jun 15, 2019
You are the one asking a question. You should be neutral at least, but I guess this is another thread created in view of throwing gender barbs.
Women are the carriers of life, and culturally a woman should decide whether or not a seed is planted in her.
I do not support medical procedures in birth control, it's got biological consequences that medicine won't tell you about. Nobody enforces anything on any gender by the way....birth control is always by choice, unless you still want to bring that 'victim' line into family health.

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:46pm On Jun 15, 2019
You probably didn't read the post...I was very neutral..which is why I didn't encourage vasectomy...I won't allow my husband to het a vasectomy which is why I didn't dwell on it
Foodforthought:
You are the one asking a question. You should be neutral at least, but I guess this is another thread created in view of throwing gender barbs.
Women are the carriers of life, and culturally a woman should decide whether or not a seed is planted in her.
I do not support medical procedures in birth control, it's got biological consequences that medicine won't tell you about. Nobody enforces anything on any gender by the way....birth control is always by choice, unless you still want to bring that 'victim' line into family health.
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 2:48pm On Jun 15, 2019
You say nobody enforces birth control on anyone..really...you probably haven't gone for family planning.
Foodforthought:
You are the one asking a question. You should be neutral at least, but I guess this is another thread created in view of throwing gender barbs.
Women are the carriers of life, and culturally a woman should decide whether or not a seed is planted in her.
I do not support medical procedures in birth control, it's got biological consequences that medicine won't tell you about. Nobody enforces anything on any gender by the way....birth control is always by choice, unless you still want to bring that 'victim' line into family health.
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by ubunja(m): 3:22pm On Jun 15, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
Yes, Men should do vasectomy
why the hate?

Why the final Solution?
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by ubunja(m): 3:23pm On Jun 15, 2019
The one with the Womb must watch what goes in.

Isn't the motto MY BODY MY BUSINESS MY CHOICES?

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Allshadesfemale: 5:12pm On Jun 15, 2019
It's OUR BODIES OUR BUSINESS OUR CHOICES...we are in this together..help eachother out..
ubunja:
The one with the Womb must watch what goes in.

Isn't the motto MY BODY MY BUSINESS MY CHOICES?
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Deepfeel(m): 5:29pm On Jun 15, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
Yes, Men should do vasectomy
White men do vasectomy but an African man can never do that grin I have a friend female friend who is married to a white man they have only two kids the man didn't vasectomy to ease his wife from taking contraceptives

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:30pm On Jun 15, 2019
Deepfeel:

White men do vasectomy but an African man can never do that grin I have a friend female friend who is married to a white man they have only two kids the man didn't vasectomy to ease his wife from taking contraceptives
Oyibo men are better men na cheesy
African men just have issues. cry

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Deepfeel(m): 6:00pm On Jun 15, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

Oyibo men are better men na cheesy
African men just have issues. cry
Lol but you know vasectomy is irreversible even if it is the possibility is just 5% a white man can easily adopt a child if he wants more kids but an African man they don't like adoption
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:43pm On Jun 15, 2019
Deepfeel:

Lol but you know vasectomy is irreversible even if it is the possibility is just 5% a white man can easily adopt a child if he wants more kids but an African man they don't like adoption
Na una problem be that.
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Cholls(m): 8:06pm On Jun 15, 2019
my brother the best contraceptive is school fees
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by ibkayee(f): 8:16pm On Jun 15, 2019
Cholls:
my brother the best contraceptive is school fees
Lmao
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jun 15, 2019
Cholls:
my brother the best contraceptive is school fees

School fees is after the fact. Too late
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by ibkayee(f): 8:23pm On Jun 15, 2019
ornicus:


School fees is after the fact. Too late
The thought of it then
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jun 15, 2019
ibkayee:

The thought of it then

I have three kids. I did not particulars ly plan on the third but the missus wanted a third child.

The other day I sent money for creche fees, only to be told Sorry, he is now in kindergarten and you will be paying a different much larger amount.

Mentally I was like here we go again, just when you had reached some sort of equilibrium, you had to get another pikin
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by ibkayee(f): 8:36pm On Jun 15, 2019
ornicus:


I have three kids. I did not particulars ly plan on the third but the missus wanted a third child.

The other day I sent money for creche fees, only to be told Sorry, he is now in kindergarten and you will be paying a different much larger amount.

Mentally I was like here we go again, just when you had reached some sort of equilibrium, you had to get another pikin
Oh wow, didn’t even know you were married, let alone kids, let alone 3 smiley
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by HORLADSTAR(m): 8:43pm On Jun 15, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

Oyibo men are better men na cheesy
African men just have issues. cry
Go marry oyibo nau,shebi them better pass African man. mtcheew aunty wey mumu (sorry for my choice of words but you deserve every bit)

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Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by yeyeosoronga: 8:54pm On Jun 15, 2019
derrydinny:
men's birth control as of today's medical technology is irreversible, once you get a vasectomy then you are done making babies but women's own can still be reversed so they can conceive provided they are not on menopause, they can still make babies even after menopause(ivf stuff)
.
no man in his 20s or 30s will agree to a permanent birth control method except if he is done making babies, he will still think twice for future purposes.

the sperm is also too fragile to fvck with, one silly mistake and the sperm may become weak and it may never become good again

Vasectomies are not irreversible
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:06pm On Jun 15, 2019
HORLADSTAR:

Go marry oyibo nau,shebi them better pass African man. mtcheew aunty wey mumu (sorry for my choice of words but you deserve every bit)
Likewise Dunderhead undecided
Re: Are We Enforcing Birth Control On The Wrong Gender? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2019
No

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