Mum not in support of my relationship with a guy because he is not yoruba. I am 33 and he is from Abia. I don't care though and will go ahead as long as my dad is okay.

bamboke:

Mum not in support of my relationship with a guy because he is not yoruba. I am 33 and he is from Abia. I don't care though and will go ahead as long as my dad is okay.

first you say married at 33 then you say mum disapproves then finally you sauy will go ahead as long dady says ok


what the Bleep are you really talking about

I mean that I would be married at 33 this year and m8um still disapproves at choice of man.

bamboke:

I mean that I would be married at 33 this year and m8um still disapproves at choice of man.

it is either you go back to school and learn to to contruct simple english sentence or amend your thread if you miss typed

ZIM DRILL:

it is either you go back to school and learn to to contruct simple english sentence or amend your thread if you miss typed

Do you have anything to say about her post apart from teaching her English language?

justwise:

Do you have anything to say about her post apart from teaching her English language?

whats there to say when everthing is confusing ?

bamboke:

Mum not in support of my relationship with a guy because he is not yoruba. I am 33 and he is from Abia. I don't care though and will go ahead as long as my dad is okay.

If you really love that guy and he does love you as well then go ahead and marry, even ur dady disapproved. I can't stand parents who can not see beyond tribal lines.

ZIM DRILL:

whats there to say when everthing is confusing ?

The only thing confusing there is you.

justwise:

The only thing confusing there is you.

really you need glasses or english lesson dear

ZIM DRILL:

really yhen you need glasses or english lesson dear

. . . and you think that your English is great, right?

justwise:

. . . and you think that your English is great, right?

did i claim that ?     nope

you wish i had

people need to be corrected dear so that we know what they really mean than assuming what they mean

For the first time in my life I see a man calling another "DEAR"

Anyway I know tribal lines are deep in Naija so I will reserve my comment on this topic! Goodluck OP with your upcoming marriage!

justwise:

. . . and you think that your English is great, right?

i wonder oooooooo. can't allow him to teach my nieces and nephews english language.

justwise:

If you really love that guy and he does love you as well then go ahead and marry, even your dady disapproved. I can't stand parents who can not see beyond tribal lines.

that wont be good. who will give her out in marriage to the man? definatley not u. she needs her parents consent to marry this man whether she likes it or not.

@poster, since u r sure ur dad is okay with the idea, u can use him to persuade ur mum to change her decision/opinion. both of u ca work it out and make her understand that love is all that matters and it does not matter wateva tribe u are marrying from. I'm sure she will come around and allow u follow ur hrt.

all the best.

ZIM DRILL:

did i claim that ? nope

you i wish i had

people need to be corrected dear so that we know what they really mean that assuming what they mean

Seriously don't bother picking on pple based on their English cos yours is even disaster.

SA Goddess:

For the first time in my life I see a man calling another [b]"DEAR" [/b]
Anyway I know tribal lines are deep in Naija so I will reserve my comment on this topic! Goodluck OP with your upcoming marriage!

Its brotherly 'love'

justwise:

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Seriously don't bother picking on pple based on their English cos yours is even disaster.

well dear

you cant see the different thats why i said you need glasses

if you had read the heading of the thread before she amended and the rest of her story you would have seen the confusion unfortunately you read between lines

and for me i dont want to assume a story i need the full facts


her original heading read ''MARRIED AT 33 & MUM STILL DISAPPROVES''

^^^
I amended the thread's subject

jay bee:

^^^
I amended the thread's subject

she did amend after i responded

ZIM DRILL:

well dear you cant see the different thats why i said you need glasses
if you had read the heading of the thread before she amended and the rest of her story you would have seen the confusion unfortunately you read between lines and for me i dont want to assume a story i need the full facts
her original heading read ''MARRIED AT 33 & MUM STILL DISAPPROVES''

Yes i saw the heading but i'm more interested in the body of the thread not the mistake she made on the heading.

Since you knew that your English is not spotless then picking on her based on that mistake should have been the last thing in your mind

justwise:

Its brotherly 'love'

I see, nice one!

ZIM DRILL:

she did amend after i responded

Dude, i'm the mod of this section and YES i did the amendment

jay bee:

Dude, i'm the mod of this section and YES i did the amendment

Authority!!!!!!!

This ZIM guy needs some tutorials. Contact me bro

@OP you can persuade your parents,being angry wouldn't solve the problem. You can ask your aunties or uncles to talk to them on your behalf.

@Zim Rill

Just for peace sake I decided not to respond to all your comments. I did not make a mistake with my posting. It reads,"Getting married" and not "married" as you assumed.

Please read and understand before replying. My English is okay, probably you ain't used to read much books.

Peace!

I asked for your advise, not for insults sir!

[/color][b][/b]at poster
[color=#770077][b][/b]what i want you to ubder stand is that you are the one getting married and not your mum.

[/color][b][/b]the worst she can do or say is to di- own you or will not be present at yur wedding.

[color=#770077][b][/b]and to me that means nothing.

the most important thing is that there is consent between the parties involved here ( your spouse and you)

my sister go ahead with your marriage and pray for God Guide and guardiance.


our good Lord will make you happy and fruithful in your husbands house.

let your mother go and rest in peace and let you be.

wishing you best in the endeavour you want to take.

ZIM DRILL:

well dear

you cant see the different thats why i said you need glasses

Zim ZIm. . . . . .na wa for your use of English ooooo. . . . . and to think that you were trying to correct someone else.

I guess you should remove the LOG in your eyes instead of worrying about the OP . . . . . . .

Poster pls go ahead wit ur marriage didnt you read of someones post she is forty and mad at her pastors for the delay.There comes a time in everybody"s life that parental guidance and personal decision must clash.sorry to your mom go ahead with your marriage plans.she will eventually come around.

@OP . . I hope ur mum is up-to date in respect of ur age n d fact dat ur child bearing years isnt much anymore

one wuld think dat a mother wuld b thanking God that her daughter had d chance to get married . . considering d age . . . and for a reason as stupid as TRIBE, she says NO??


Some parents can b rily stubborn for all d wrong reasons.


Bamboke, i know dis is hard but u need to gently persuade ur mum into seeing it from ur view. U love him and u want to marry him. Then PRAY. God works in mysterious ways.

bamboke:

@Zim Rill

Just for peace sake I decided not to respond to all your comments. I did not make a mistake with my posting. It reads,"Getting married" and not "married" as you assumed.

Please read and understand before replying. My English is okay, probably you ain't used to read much books.

Peace!

I asked for your advise, not for insults sir!

dont bother yourself dear you corrected it therefore we got what you really wanted to

myself i didnt want to assume what your where trying to say hence i asked you rephrase

sharp man:

Zim ZIm. . . . . .na wa for your use of English ooooo. . . . . and to think that you were trying to correct someone else.

I guess you should remove the LOG in your eyes instead of worrying about the OP . . . . . . .

there is a big difference there

i didnt put the CE but still you would get what i wanted to say

with hers it was '''MARRIED 33 & MUM STILL DISAPPROVES'' the rest was "Insert Quote
Mum not in support of my relationship with a guy because he is not yoruba. I am 33 and he is from Abia. I don't care though and will go ahead as long as my dad is okay".


that was confusing to me

bamboke:

@Zim Rill

Just for peace sake I decided not to respond to all your comments. I did not make a mistake with my posting. It reads,"Getting married" and not "married" as you assumed.

Please read and understand before replying. My English is okay, probably you ain't used to read much books.

Peace!

I asked for your advise, not for insults sir!

i know you asked for advise but you forget one thing people respond to what they feel and think whether you get hurt i the respond some dont care because at the end of the day we will tell you only what you want to hear than some truth that might hurt though it might help

i suggested you get used to all the positive and negatives responds thats real life it wouldnt the real world when all is good

you really need to sit mum down and talk her back into the 21st century