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Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by myboo: 10:21pm On Oct 11, 2010
Guys, please assist me unravel the motive behind this act,

Was with my "girl friend" on sunday night, we kissed, smooched, undressed etc

she wanted raw, as she was almost forcing my dick inside her, i managed to decline (as i do not have sex without condom)

Closed from work today (monday) and headed to a chemist to buy condoms just in case something happens knowing fully well that we will see each other in the night.

As plannd , we met again tonight and the smooching , kissing, undressing started,

Then she was like, put it in , and i was like ok , immediately she opened,

immediately i brought out my condoms, her countenance changed and she refused , she wanted it raw.


Am like, i cannot have sex without condoms. It almost resulted to a heated argument, i actually refused to sleep with her and put on my clothes and left.

Guys, pls help me judge. what does she want to achieve by this act? Am just starting life, i do not want unwanted pregnancy o? Is she desperate or she wants to infect me?, guys ur comments would be appreciated.
thanks
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:28pm On Oct 11, 2010
In conclusion all girls are like this based on your experience? undecided
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Omolola1(f): 10:35pm On Oct 11, 2010
Try to let her know the importance of using a condom. You should not hav walked out on her
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 10:45pm On Oct 11, 2010
Thank your stars o.
Omolola1:

Try to let her know the importance of using a condom. You should not hav walked out on her
course code: GST 107. course title: understanding the scourge HIV n AIDS. Go on lecturer.
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Omolola1(f): 10:51pm On Oct 11, 2010
Hehehehehe, u are not ok oh, lol
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 10:56pm On Oct 11, 2010
ThoniaSlim:

In conclusion all girls are like this based on your experience?  undecided
the poster said some.
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 10:58pm On Oct 11, 2010
Omolola1:

Hehehehehe, u are not ok oh, lol
do you mean me?
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by myboo: 11:01pm On Oct 11, 2010
@ thoniaslim, i respect ladies, if u read my post, i said "some" girls not all girls

@ omolola, we have been having sex with condom before now, we had a break for a while (at her wish as she says its fornication)

only for to resume and demand it raw,

She is fully aware of the consequence of going raw , (A 25 yr old educated lady)

what is the motive beyind this?
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Omolola1(f): 11:04pm On Oct 11, 2010
You shuld not have left her that way, you both should have sorted thngs out. Maybe she is ready to have a child
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by 190: 11:04pm On Oct 11, 2010
Man you should have done it

You only live once!! **(Na Joke i dey o)

Man, you did the rite thing, next time,

when she's comin over, wear the condom on

even if your penz isnt solid, slip it on and when she comes

mount her and u save urself the time to come down and get sometin on~  grin grin

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Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 11:08pm On Oct 11, 2010
Omolola1:

You shuld not have left her that way, you both should have sorted thngs out. Maybe she is ready to have a child
and the guy isn't ready to be called 'daddy' yet.
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Omolola1(f): 11:12pm On Oct 11, 2010
rotflmao! honestly, there is more to this issue!
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by myboo: 11:23pm On Oct 11, 2010
@ omolola, thx for ur comments, i actually did not walk out on her

I just stood up from the bed astonished, alot was running thru my mind eg does she want to effect me with a deadly disease?, or set me up by taking in(pregnancy)? etc

she just stared at me mischeviously, while i was wearing my clothes.

I did not say a word till i left her
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Omolola1(f): 11:26pm On Oct 11, 2010
She is definitely hiding something! Be very careful
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 11:42pm On Oct 11, 2010
see setup. Take to your heels now that you have the chance.
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by googles: 12:00am On Oct 12, 2010
She prolly likes unprotected sex undecided It doesnt always have to be the case of STIs or pregnancies
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 12:07am On Oct 12, 2010
googles:

She prolly likes unprotected sex undecided It doesnt always have to be the case of STIs or pregnancies
someone who complained when they were having protected sex that it was fornication and all of a sudden now wants unprotected se.x.
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by 190: 12:10am On Oct 12, 2010
Last time i had unprotected sex.

WAY WAY Back then in the university

I didn't have No Good sound sleep for 3months,

I was scared for the virus,Kept checking my weight.

My hair,My eyes, Every little illness was a suspect~

Till it completed 3months and i checked it and was a (-ve) Negative

I threw a party (and tagged it my birthday then) peeps were wondering

why i would host 2 birthday parries alone in one year but i knew berra,

Since then its been TROJAN CONDOMzz OR no sex~
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by dobodobo(m): 12:13am On Oct 12, 2010
I don't like wearing cloth for my dick but I have choice


@my advice to you is to Bleep her raw
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by denzel2009: 12:13am On Oct 12, 2010
190, dont you get tired of lying? tongue
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by 190: 12:17am On Oct 12, 2010
denzel2009:

190, dont you get tired of lying? tongue

Excuse me, angry angry

How has my real life concernz got to do with you

Or did what i just say TEAR YOUR BOXERS!!
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Specialist900(m): 12:18am On Oct 12, 2010
hmn
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by googles: 12:23am On Oct 12, 2010
Specialist900:

someone who complained when they were having protected sex that it was fornication and all of a sudden now wants unprotected se.x.

still doesn't matter . . . . she just might want to do it all the way skinny.

some pple like to have unprotected sex for reasons best known to them not because they have ulterior motives/intent.

sex and watever happens during the act should be a mutual thing not just a one-person decision thingy.some guys think its wat they want dat matters

If they want to go skinny dipping its ok but wen a girl wants dat shez a bloody schemer ryt ? wowzie
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by 190: 12:29am On Oct 12, 2010
Dats a new one

A Lady is seeing nothing wrong in having

Skin 2 skin shortly after dobodobo, shocked shocked


@POST
You were 100% right on using condom

She either wants to entangle you wiv pregnancy

or wants to make some money from you off pregnancy

cheating,

or shes a witch!!
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Odunnu: 1:08am On Oct 12, 2010
Omolola1:

Try to let her know the importance of using a condom. You should not hav walked out on her
You are a very funny gurl. You are suggesting the poster should start a tutorial in that mood. Na wa o.
Have you ever seen a man who is so charged up and ready for action but not allowed to work? It'l take only a gentleman to stand up, get dressed and walk.
@Poster, I salute your self control jor.
I think she's pregnant and wants you to have unprotectd sex so she can nail it on you.(my opinion,I could be wrong)
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Uclloyd28(m): 3:01am On Oct 12, 2010
Omolola1:

You shuld not have left her that way, you both should have sorted thngs out. Maybe she is ready to have a child
Lmao, the young man said he just started a life, He needs no Baby

Unwanted Baby can make a man unfocused and confused in Life


Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Uclloyd28(m): 3:06am On Oct 12, 2010
@Poster, If you really cant handle an Unwanted Pregnancy and possibly Baby Boy, Stop using Just One Condom o, Use two, she might put a pin to burst the Condom since she failed in the logic way, Girls can go extra mile when DESPERATE BRO, Use ur head

Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by spoilt(f): 4:03am On Oct 12, 2010
maybe she's a witch and has been told at her coven that she needs to contribute her quota of s!e!men.

Seriously maybe shes already on birthcontrol. Are you guys exclusive?
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Nobody: 5:01am On Oct 12, 2010
denzel2009:

190, dont you get tired of lying? tongue


So you sef don notice say the guy na lier?



190:

Last time i had unprotected sex.

WAY WAY Back then in the university

I didn't have No Good sound sleep for 3months,

I was scared for the virus,Kept checking my weight.

My hair,My eyes, Every little illness was a suspect~

Till it completed 3months and i checked it and was a (-ve) Negative

I threw a party (and tagged it my birthday then) peeps were wondering

why i would host 2 birthday parries alone in one year but i knew berra,

Since then its been TROJAN CONDOMzz OR no sex~


19o you got me laughing on this oh! I feel your fear jare.


@ Poster, just do a simple trick on her and you will unravel whatever her hidden agender is,

Just tell her that YOU GUYS SHOULD GO FOR AN HIV TEST only after that will you be having it RAW with her.

If she gives excuses then know there is deffinately something wrong.

Pregnancy better pass say make you dey do count down to when you go "kpeme / yamutu"

Abeg BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL OH!
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by Ikedonn(m): 8:38am On Oct 12, 2010
@poster
You did the right thing.I suppose she got some hidden agenda for you.Is eighter she got a disease or she wants to trap you with pregnancy.
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by 190: 8:41am On Oct 12, 2010
spoilt:

maybe she's a witch and has been told at her coven that she needs to contribute her quota of s!e!men.

Seriously maybe shes already on birthcontrol. Are you guys exclusive?

WORD
Re: Please Help Me Judge. Why Are Some Girls Like This? Girls! by InkedNerd(f): 8:53am On Oct 12, 2010
@OP: Your story is no different from when guys over here tell girls that they wanna have s.ex w/o protection. Some even give idiotic excuses about them being allergic to condoms tongue. All I can say is always protect yourself.

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