I am not sure what kind of relationship am in any longer.
Everything seems very perfect (even too perfect), she does
not complain, she keeps saying yes to everything. She hardly gets angry
or irritable at what I do or say. She bends to my side 98% of the time.
sometimes, I try to be nasty so that she can be offended, but she's still cool.

Is this normal?

so what more do you want ?

she hates u!!!

If she argues or quarrels, she is troublesome! if she is gentle, na wahala, what more do u guys want?

D-sense:

she hates u!!!

That sounds more like what I was thinking. But, Its all just making
me feel like am perfect which I know I'm not. She's human and not a robot,
she should have her own voice and a mind of her own, don't you think so?

jaysay:

That sounds more like what I was thinking. But, Its all just making
me feel like am perfect which I know I'm not. She's human and not a robot,
she should have her own voice and a mind of her own, don't you think so?

I don laff tire for here  
Man wake up!!!!! ''Or u need a wake up call'' from BBC Radio 1.c'mon.
This girl is just trying to please u by anything she loves u of course.So why would u be an ingrate!!!! Tell me ooo pls.

ingrate?

Its strange, so I think. Is it normal I ask. could it be I have never been loved before?
This na real matter wey i don dey ponder for a while now.
I got tired of wondering alone, I'll just like to know what nairalanders think.

95 percent of nairalandas would blame u of why re u still wondering over her bahaviour.

D-sense:

95 percent of nairalandas would blame u of why re u still wondering over her bahaviour.

Am wondering cos I'm thinking she may just change when we get married,
that is my fear.

She has you where she wants you.To feel like she is marriage material.You see yourself, your thinking marriage with her as well.It is not normal behavior. She just wants to get married and she knows ur shallow enough to want a woman like that.So she is acting the part.I bet she is your perfect girlfriend and makes you feel like a king.LOL! Sign the certificate first and the truth will be revealed.You don't know this person as you have not seen her at her best and at her worst.You don't even know whether you can stad these two extreme's.She is acting.

jaysay:


Am wondering cos I'm thinking she may just change when we get  married,
that is my fear.

Ok if that's d case u can monitor her for a while to see if there ll be any change then u can make up yah mind.

TewMuch:

She has you where she wants you.To feel like she is marriage material.You see yourself, your thinking marriage with her as well.It is not normal behavior. She just wants to get married and she knows your shallow enough to want a woman like that.So she is acting the part.I bet she is your perfect girlfriend and makes you feel like a king.LOL! Sign the certificate first and the truth will be revealed.You don't know this person as you have not seen her at her best and at her worst.You don't even know whether you can stad these two extreme's.She is acting.

if I were feeling like a king I won't be bothered and I wont have shared it here.
It is sounding too good to be true. I need to see her true self. I'm not thrilled
by the behavior whatsoever, cos I know I've got my fault. Don't love me as a
perfect person, love me with my faults.

Men are just so so so impossible . . . chaii

Give him hell hez calling yuh . . . a lousy bi[i]t[/i]ch

give him no hell hez calling yuh. . . a conniving witch

(Ganja farmer what eva you say)

oh its 12 am. . . i un'stand

read again by 12pm today you 'll get it

Me says she is a bad actress. prolly waiting patiently to tie the knot, then she starts playing the 'real' script.  :oSHINE YA EYE

190:

Ganja mad-am anything you say is final[size=3pt] (i wont be drawn into any words wiv you cos i nor understand you at all)[/size]

Good to know

poster you should be happy,are you looking for a nag?

Goggles am disappointed at you. I thought you are part of the smart people here. This is not really about men being ingrates. There is more to what the OP is talking about. For instance, what if you cheated on your boyfriend and he didnt react. what will be going through your head?

Try telling her you don't see yourself settling down till 10yrs down the line and see if she will remain the same.Wait for 2 months and come update us.She may even come to nairaland and post.

Just wait, she will be on your case in no time! Probably just putting her best foot forward for now.

Now I see why people say "perfection is boring" You have a perfect gf and you're here complaining.

@Poster, She's not being real, she's just a GOOD PRETENDER, and believe you me, When she starts 2 unveil the real her, U will be stunned, Sleep with one eye open, that girl has an Oct 1 like surprise for u

Brownteeth:

Goggles am disappointed at you. I thought you are part of the smart people here

Correction, its googles. . . .and my smartness is not in question here you could have made your point without attacking me indirectly.why not come out and tell

me am dumb 

Do you know the duration of their relationship ? Do you know her temperament ?

Why should she get angry just because her boyfriend wants her to get angry  wat a dumb mentality

if her so-called boyfriend cannot live with this let him leave her now, cos i see nothing wrong with an agreeable person.

And the way you guys always look at situation of things thru the poster's eyes baffles me. . . you don't even consider the other part or think of the

fact dat he will exaggerate the situation just to make his point .

D-sense:

she hates u!!!

Oh! she hates you so much you have no idea!

i don't think that is normal
sometimes i get the urge to make my Man mad at me for no reason and i just love doing it sometimes
it is either she isn't letting out the real her or she wanna get to know you more before doing that
how long have u two been dating?