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She would just be by your side a lil more while she makes sure she is fully into the next relationship ,
Then wait for your quarrels & snubbing

It depends on the lady though and also depends on the kind of relationship you are in with the lady. Some would start acting funny while some would just discard you ASAP while some other ones would stand by you.

Oga most of those ladies will say no problem but they're seriously looking for escape root.
That is exactly what Im facing now.

Ilekokonit:
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She told me not to give up,she said dont worry ur sef too much. all will be well,its just abt time..it happens

she will lose the hornyness she got for you too

its better to divorce her than tell her

When you tell a girl that you've lost yiur means of income, just wait for the silly attitude that will follow. It seems like there's something that goes off in their head automatically. Experienced it twice now.

Only 5% out of 100% will stay, naija babes are not Worth sacrificing anything for, they will flee at once when your down.

NUJABEZ:
When you tell a girl that you've lost yiur means of income, just wait for the silly attitude that will follow. It seems like there's something that goes off in their head automatically. Experienced it twice now.

Its because most naija ladies were raised to believe that only the woman is entitled to what the man has or will offer not both working together to make it through thick and thin or both entitled to each others achievement/wealth.

Watch how they'll start screaming scammer, lazy-man broke nigger etc at those who point out this their scammers orientation as this thread progresses.

But women today help some men though, just that some guy's ego no go allow am, and some women will bring it up to ridicule the man, depends on the type of partner you end up with

But NL sha why are most of the topics always about Nigerian women when na slay queen most boys dey do.

pcguru1:
But NL sha why are most of the topics always about Nigerian women when na slay queen most boys dey do.

Actually, to a very good extent, the difference between slay queens and most of the average niaja lady is that the former is general public unlimited slayers with no affiliation while most of the later is personal/private limited slayers asin one-at-a time slayers. The defining mindset is usually generally thesame - hypergamy and entitlment with their own wealth a no go area.
Sure, exceptions in minority abounds.

When I meet my babe sef,I no even get job and I was a cofam broke ass,she follow me soak garri for where I dey squat even when she get her own room.Now to God be the glory am doing fine for myself so if I tell am say I no get income again,e no go make difference baba.

Even some married women will leave their husbands

That will be d end of my relationship with u... For better I stay, for worst I go.....

Onyi22:
That will be d end of my relationship with u...
For better I stay, for worst I go.....

it's your nature

SmellingAnus:
Even some married women will leave their husbands

Did u say married women?/my wife started moving out to her mum's place at the slightest quarrel, immediately I lost my job. She left thrice, and has finally settled at her mum's place, claiming I verbally abuse her. She has been with her mum for the past 10 months.

Tunagee:


Did u say married women?/my wife started moving out to her mum's place at the slightest quarrel, immediately I lost my job. She left thrice, and has finally settled at her mum's place, claiming I verbally abuse her. She has been with her mum for the past 10 months.

Lord... So why do we get married if we can't cope through the brightest and darkest hour bros. Sometimes all these girls dirty attitudes makes me less bothered about settling down. Why get married if u can't stay together

I have used it twice. The first time was just a test and she started acting funny and left. Then the second time, i was actually tired of the relationship, i lied about financial issues and God so kind, she willingly left.

Tunagee:


Did u say married women?/my wife started moving out to her mum's place at the slightest quarrel, immediately I lost my job. She left thrice, and has finally settled at her mum's place, claiming I verbally abuse her. She has been with her mum for the past 10 months.

If she swallows her pride and comes back begging (which is harder the more educated she feels she is) don't make the mistake of taking her back because once your wife starts disrespecting you in any way, they never stop and it only gets worse.

Btw, she doesn't have a good mum. A good mum would have sent the fairweather runaway wife back to her husbands house.

Tunagee:


Did u say married women?/my wife started moving out to her mum's place at the slightest quarrel, immediately I lost my job. She left thrice, and has finally settled at her mum's place, claiming I verbally abuse her. She has been with her mum for the past 10 months.

I am so sorry bro... So sad this is the world we live in... Even a good woman may suddenly become bad once the husband loses her job... One of my friends that the husband has lost his job... His wife has told me many times that she is waiting for another to come and take her... I can't even tell my friend what his wife said to me because I don't want to be used as the excuse why they went their separate ways... Some women that remain after a job loss by their husbands even stay and cheat with impunity....

Ilekokonit:
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you will hear something like..."fairly use BOYFRIEND with 5yrs experience needed urgently for immediate relationship" pls apply.

When it's time to get married, it's best to marry someone who's financial status is not too far from yours. If you don't have such a person in your life, check very well, there must b some close female friends that you had when you were broke that you like very much. Once you make money, I bet you it will be very difficult to tell the difference between girls that like you and those that want financial stability due to your financial status (apart from the people I described earlier, reason am na, who no like better thing). Do you know why? These two sets of people will do almost the same things for you so how can you tell the difference

I really don't know how you actually expect any loyalty from women. Women get treated like shit mainly because you don't trust them. You hide money from them; you cheat; Hell, even the side pieces get treated better than wives. Well accept me, but I'm getting schooled to that game. when women do help you out, you leave them for "something better". You've have trained them to see you as only good for money and that they are disposable at any given moment. Women have no sense of security being with any man.

Women are feminist not because they don't need men. They are feminist because they can't rely on men.

lilmax:
she will lose the hornyness she got for you too

its better to divorce her than tell her

PromiseUche:
She would just be by your side a lil more while she makes sure she is fully into the next relationship ,
Then wait for your quarrels & snubbing

How can you be so sure?

kense88:
I have used it twice. The first time was just a test and she started acting funny and left. Then the second time, i was actually tired of the relationship, i lied about financial issues and God so kind, she willingly left.

hmmm new format to discard em biatches

dairykidd:

Lord... So why do we get married if we can't cope through the brightest and darkest hour bros. Sometimes all these girls dirty attitudes makes me less bothered about settling down. Why get married if u can't stay together

you be Bini boy abi?
tell me about the pros and cons of dating or getting married to a Bini girl.
what are their good qualities and bad sides too?

A responsible man should not lie to his wife

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
you be Bini boy abi?
tell me about the pros and cons of dating or getting married to a Bini girl.
what are their good qualities and bad sides too?

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Bro if i tell u say i know na lie oo.. If she's good and meets up to ur expectations abeg hold her strong. Most times na stereotyping dey kill us. Just love her for who she is regardless of where she comes from

dairykidd:
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Bro if i tell u say i know na lie oo.. If she's good and meets up to ur expectations abeg hold her strong. Most times na stereotyping dey kill us. Just love her for who she is regardless of where she comes from

I hear say most of them get angry a lot

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
I hear say most of them get angry a lot

Sort of sha.. especially when dey done love but at the same time dey can be very good when u understand how to love them well