Dear Women, stop blaming men for your problems and your failures. Learn to depend on yourself, not men. Learn that men are not your enemies, but your allies, as long as you treat them fairly and with respect. Men naturally love women. Realize that men are not mind readers. If you want communication, then communicate-don't cry or pout or scream and expect your partner to divine your thoughts telepathically (and brand him as insensitive when he can't). If you have a problem, discuss it. Stop mentally abusing men. Don't willingly crush their egos and don't flaunt your bodies, then kick the poor suckers in the balls when they come too close. If you don't want the bull to charge, don't wave the red flag. Learn to be givers, not takers. Stop acting like arrogant, selfish babies. A cultural backlash is coming, gathering strength, like the suboceanic current which surges up into a tidal wave. A new "masculinism" in emerging, expressing itself in such groups as the Promise Keepers, the National Coalition of Free Men, the Men's Media Network, the Men's Defense Organization, and Internet Sites (Menweb, Backlash.Com), all evidence of the burgeoning frustration among American men, who are sick and tired of feminism's broad brush which condemns them all as sex fiends, "deadbeat dads", and insensitive morons. Fed up with the typical dishonest LovePeddler's gimmee-gimmee attitude, some men are staging wallet burnings to protest the female abuse of their roles as "success objects". Men are fed up with female greed, with dishonest prostitution. They are at the breaking point because women simply don't know when to stop. The feminist manifesto has pushed too far: "political correctness" wears mightily thin when little boys are nailed to pink crosses for innocently kissing female classmates; "first wives", bitter because their sexual commodity is old and worn oseduced when they were young and pretty) because they have been dumped for younger whores; a female judge instructs a young woman (who was appearing in court for "misusing" a credit card) to sit provocatively at a bus stop in a short skirt, because "men are easy" and will give her money (and if that fails she should position herself at a medical school to pick up a young doctor). And the media keep churning out books and articles and movies-of-the-week which portray women as angelic victims and men as depraved scum.

Tell them and where are all the ladies on nairaland now come and hear word and I know none of them will comment now

my guy leave dis mata..na so we meet am.if i give u 10million naira.with the condition,that u spend it alone clubbing and vacationing in dubai without any woman...u go fit?