Ladies should enlighten me please.

Because you pressured them,

queeneve, kindly explain how we pressure you ladies.

Brownteeth:

queeneve, kindly explain how we pressure you ladies.

i think they pressure themselves after seeing friends getting married

Brownteeth:

queeneve, kindly explain how we pressure you ladies.

i was about to as the same queen

as far as i know you can take a donkey to the river but you cant force it to drink the water

you can date a girl but you cant force or pressure her to marry you

@OP

because your society says they are nothing if they arent married

They pressure themselves when they are outdated and not good looking again like age 28 to 35

You ask the woman how old she is and when she say she is 35 and not married, YOU THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH HER,

That what I mean BY YOU MEN PRESSURING THE WOMEN,

Nothing do me and Nothing do you but don't wait till Outdated,the earlier the better, Truth is bitter

the good majority are not necessarily forced but man the pressure

queeneve, is that the main reason?

All of you are so off it?
most of them are eager because they want the liberty of making love without guilt and maybe societal expectations sha!

Yes the main REASON

Cos they have a limited time to achieve that, plus that is literally the greatest achievement 4 them

So you saying BEING MARRIED IS THE GREATEST achievement of them all?


WTF?!!!

@Queeneve
Yes, cos a woman that is married gets more respect even in her immediate family, no matter what a woman has achieved in life, its still incomplete without a man

Now High you was doing good UNTIL YOU SAID THAT LAST CHIT,

A woman is not complete with out a man? Do you know what complete means? Complete means whole and to the end.

A woman is complete WITH A MAN? that means two and not one, if you take an apple and you cut it in half that become two, but if you superglue two halves together, it become one, AND YOU SAID WOMEN ARENT COMPLETE WITHOUT A MAN?!!!!

A WOMAN DOES NOT NEED A MAN TO BE COMPLETE, that what the society what the women to think, a man compliments a woman and vice versa, but a man does not complete a woman, a woman was completed when she left her mother's womb,


Ooooh lawd yall gon make me break another dish!!!

queeneve:

So you saying BEING MARRIED IS THE GREATEST achievement of them all?


WTF?!!!

my sister,help me ask o!

High_Chief:

@Queeneve
Yes, cos a woman that is married gets more respect even in her immediate family, no matter what a woman has achieved in life, its still incomplete without a man

boolsheet! this is 21st century dude!

Girl,

I am over here thinking of which dish to break!!!

That man up there done messed up!

queeneve:

Girl,

I am over here thinking of which dish to break!!!

That man up there done messed up!

Hey High chief has incured the wrath of the ladies o!
I'm running off o! Ko lori dori e mu,

Because they want to make sure there's someone there to catch the babies when they start shooting them out of their hole.
Hard to do it all on their own.

Because of menupause and a woman is not complete without a man.

Women generally all want to get married, but i will advice Black brother to be very careful here, be very careful.

Because our society puts too much pressure on them.

That's just the truth and You know it .As long as you are a Nigerian ,if you doubt me,then don't get married and see the result.No matter where you may live now,the culture still remains.

They know the bitter truth but will never admit.

If you like be the most educated,richest,influecia etc woman and no man to show there will be a big "BUT" in ur life.
Take it or leave it

Thank you jare Adagz 01.I am tired for this i too know people,when they know that without a man they are partial.

queeneve:

Now High you was doing good UNTIL YOU SAID THAT LAST CHIT,

A woman is not complete with out a man? Do you know what complete means? Complete means whole and to the end.

A woman is complete WITH A MAN? that means two and not one, if you take an apple and you cut it in half that become two, but if you superglue two halves together, it become one, AND YOU SAID WOMEN ARENT COMPLETE WITHOUT A MAN?!!!!

A WOMAN DOES NOT NEED A MAN TO BE COMPLETE, that what the society what the women to think, a man compliments a woman and vice versa, but a man does not complete a woman, a woman was completed when she left her mother's womb,


Ooooh lawd yall gon make me break another dish!!!

@ queeneve

I dont think there s anything wrong with his point out there, it's just a pity that Women of nowadays have come up with various forms of woman emancipation theories which simply wont work.
I stand to repeat it loud and clear that a woman is never complete without a man,this is even without geographical limitations You might always think of this in terms of the man you date or Marry alone but quote me anywhere, No Woman , Irrespective of how influential, rich or powerful in the society she is would still strongly need a man around her even if it is just the House boy she bullies around.
It's quite unfortunate that a lot of ladies on this forum know the truth but would intentionally want to shy away from it.

Because we live in a marriage mad society. We allow what people think to be a factor in our lives. We pretend to be something we are not because we want peoples approval or recognation. And we lack the conviction to stand up to popular opinion on how we should live our lives or how it should be.

@shakeyo2
Thank you my sister,
We simply lack the strenght to stand up to public opinion, I am sure there are many married women out there who would have prefered to remain single but were afraid of what people will say, she could not get husband, she could not do this and that, she is a prostitute. we simply could not weather the storm joo