Money is the "Maggi" of the relationship.

PUSSYHOE:
The materialistic ones?

Many are ...just get your money and make your choice

PUSSYHOE:
So relationship is transactional? you must get something from him no matter what

I don't mean money. Perhaps you boring or lack depth to keep a relationship. Every thing ain't about money. If na money, Dubai king wife won't prefer security guard to a king.

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pansophist:
A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything.

You are so very correct

Fountainofyouth:



And when the said guy makes it, then decides to dump his girlfriend that stayed with him, for another one that "fits his new status", what do we call him;

An ungrateful bastard
A fvcking retard with no brain to reason
A senseless motherfvcker

Funny thing is guys like that will go for girls that will ask for every material things imaginable, will give her everything with a smile on his dumb face, but will still complain to his homies about ALL ladies generally, that is exactly what Op is talking about.

You dey vex girly

The girls that are not ready to suffer or support a man that will dump them ones they make it

Amarabae:
Money is the "Maggi" of the relationship.

.. since you know this why are you not using it to contribute to the relationship ?

Op it does not mean u shouldnt relate with any girl while ur broke or struggling cos if yu make up ur mind dat the only time u will relate with a girl is wen u self made or rich then bros e go hard u to get a good girl oo. D only girls wey go dey come ur way dat time na only gold diggers wey go wan chop ur money. The only thing is dont make women ur priority in life and the ladies u relating with in ur broke stage is amongst dose ladies u will choose wen u have made it. Very simple.

Martinez39:
A woman cannot love a man. She only wants what you can provide for her and how you make her feel. She is a leech that is forever enslaved to her ego.

a woman that will use her last 900k to pay for her husband's hospital bills while he's undergoing a serious operation in the hospital are u saying such a woman does not love her husband?

Fountainofyouth:



And when the said guy makes it, then decides to dump his girlfriend that stayed with him, for another one that "fits his new status", what do we call him;

An ungrateful bastard
A fvcking retard with no brain to reason
A senseless motherfvcker

Funny thing is guys like that will go for girls that will ask for every material things imaginable, will give her everything with a smile on his dumb face, but will still complain to his homies about ALL ladies generally, that is exactly what Op is talking about.

no sane man will dump a woman who stood by him when he was broke except that woman was hell to him during his broke days. Why will a sane man dump a woman who stood by him and encouraged him.

You can get girls even without making the dream cash. you have your yarns, dress sense and communication skills at your arsenal to do the do.

However as a person, I find it hard to date when I am not at a financial point.

I mean how can you be happy with yourself when you look into your bank account and when you scream all you hear is echooo?

If you don't like yourself in your broke state why will you expect another girl to come and like you all in the name of r/ship or don't you know happiness radiates from inside and is projected outside from our actions?

Simply said, if you are a broke guy you are better off hustling your way out, rather than consoling yourself with a girl who will stick with you in dire times.

#I never want a girl to say to me: I suffered with you when you had nothing! That statement should never exist in my life history!

#Dont suffer with me, I will meet you when I am at a better financial position, QED

I sometimes wonder.. Why men think they need money to be in a relationship. I know guys that don't have much but are in a very supportive relationship.

But you need money. Single or getting ready. Man or Woman. We all need money. Getting women shouldn't be your motivation to be rich. Be rich just because you want to be.

Whether you are poor or rich though, there is someone right in your level for you. But you can't be poor. So, get rich and get someone in your league to leave with and stop bickering.

Asin bros the matter tire me ooo am currently in the same shoes with your friends am just earning 45k but people especially girls they see me like say I don hammer its crazy.

what many guys fail to realise is that girls of nowadays are serious hunters seeking for men to devour financially the game is not easy for them but they know gullible men still exist so they test you every now and then to see if they can get anything from you.

the solution is be a bit stingy have the money but rearly give it out easily don't let anyone manipulate you and don't fall into the trap of believing that money will buy you sex all the time some girls will just collect the money and still deny you sex inside life.