i started dating this girl a month ago,but i observe she likes to flirt with different men...she likes to talk to different men on the phone,there was a day a guy sat her down by a corner a spoke with her...i felt somehow,she always say she loves me but each time she says that i know there is no truth in it...i even message her sometimes telling her i know she has many male she is dating but atleast she should show me some respect by not letting guys toast her in my presence or maybe we should break up...but she said it's nothing,that she can't even date that guy toasting her that night...bla bla bla..
but what i don't understand is since i told her that if she can't show me the respect of not flirting with some guys in my presence we should break up...or can a lady love many guys,i told her that night i know.. she LIKES me not LOVE.i don't know but each time we talk about love i don't always sense truth in her words...but what bothers me is why she is dating me.
ADVICE PLEASE.

Another simp.

Martinez39:
Another simp.

please advice...i don't want an heart break

Bia nwoke m, use your head. Can't you see the handwriting on the wall? The girl is a flirt and you are here talking about love. Collect your share of the cake and move on but make sure you use condom in order not to be infected or possibly become a baby daddy.


Kill every thought or feeling of love you have for her, this is the best i can tell you. Take it seriously in order for you not come to this forum typing long stories of how your heart was broken. I wouldn't have any words of encouragement to offer.

Cc marttol

marttol:
i started dating this girl a month ago,but i observe she likes to flirt with different men...she likes to talk to different men on the phone,there was a day a guy sat her down by a corner a spoke with her...i felt somehow,she always say she loves me but each time she says that i know there is no truth in it...i even message her sometimes telling her i know she has many male she is dating but atleast she should show me some respect by not letting guys toast her in my presence or maybe we should break up...but she said it's nothing,that she can't even date that guy toasting her that night...bla bla bla..
but what i don't understand is since i told her that if she can't show me the respect of not flirting with some guys in my presence we should break up...or can a lady love many guys,i told her that night i know.. she LIKES me not LOVE.i don't know but each time we talk about love i don't always sense truth in her words...but what bothers me is why she is dating me.
ADVICE PLEASE.

you need to face your books braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

The video couldn't play on my phone but I think the boy is wrong by beating his elder sis just because her mother chased his father away,and as for his uncle he shouldn't have slept with his landlord's daughter but I suggests the landlord should give him two weeks more then if he didn't pay his house rent,he should go and marry another wife before the igwe calls another village meeting, thank you.

HitSong:

you need to face your books braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

thanks mo ti gbo...i know i have a poor expression,but still advice on the issue i posted.

What you need is CONFIDENCE

Go and work on it.

biz2get:
What you need is CONFIDENCE
Go and work on it.

please explain more

marttol:
i started dating this girl a month ago,but i observe she likes to flirt with different men...she likes to talk to different men on the phone,there was a day a guy sat her down by a corner a spoke with her...i felt somehow,she always say she loves me but each time she says that i know there is no truth in it...i even message her sometimes telling her i know she has many male she is dating but atleast she should show me some respect by not letting guys toast her in my presence or maybe we should break up...but she said it's nothing,that she can't even date that guy toasting her that night...bla bla bla..
but what i don't understand is since i told her that if she can't show me the respect of not flirting with some guys in my presence we should break up...or can a lady love many guys,i told her that night i know.. she LIKES me not LOVE.i don't know but each time we talk about love i don't always sense truth in her words...but what bothers me is why she is dating me.
ADVICE PLEASE.

@bolded, that's your mistake right there. You have knowledge that she's running around on you & yet you're doing absolutely nothing about it to show that it is a behaviour you find totally UNACCEPTABLE. What message do you think you're passing on to her with that foolhardy statement? THAT YOU'RE GOING TO TAKE IT, that's what it means. So you either keep complaining or show her that you mean business by showing her the door.

Do you carry her financial burden ? That might be her reason for dating you . I also believe she does not know what she wants.

Stop being a sucker bro, I broke free, you can too.

If a girl/guy won't give you the respect you desire, she's probably not for you, sticking with her would ultimately bring you greater pain; this applies to both guys and girls

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HitSong:

you need to face your books braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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delugajackson:
That girl is a typical runs girl and you are just her back up boyfriend.

Better break up with her before she infects you with one of these new fancy sex diseases.

but she doesn't dress like a runs girl,though she ONLY WEARS TIGHT SKIRT,and doesn't make up or use earrings and she is extremely beautiful.

Kingosytex:


Bia nwoke m, use your head. Can't you see the handwriting on the wall? The girl is a flirt and you are here talking about love. Collect your share of the cake and move on but make sure you use condom in order not to be infected or possibly become a baby daddy.


Kill every thought or feeling of love you have for her, this is the best i can tell you. Take it seriously in order for you not come to this forum typing long stories of how your heart was broken. I wouldn't have any words of encouragement to offer.

Cc marttol

thanks boss,a brother also gave me this advice today.

This guy na ogbaje oh can't break up without telling her... sissy everywhere...

marttol:
but she doesn't dress like a runs girl,though she ONLY WEARS TIGHT SKIRT,and doesn't make up or use earrings and she is extremely beautiful.

Looks can be deceiving, you better break up with her since she doesn't respect your wishes

marttol:
thanks boss,a brother also gave me this advice today.

That is the best bet. I was once in a similar situation. I had this girl that really claimed she loved me, i fell for her and along the line, i was opportune to read her text messages, chats both on fb and watsapp and instantly my perception about her changed, i bleeped her, told her her sins and dumped her straight away. Don't get too emotionally attached to any girl to avoid heartbreaks since you aren't like me who doesn't give a damn.

Bro that girl has the characteristic of a typical runs girl .......do yourself a Favour and break up with her.

Kingosytex:


That is the best bet. I was once in a similar situation. I had this girl that really claimed she loved me, i fell for her along the line but fortunately for me i was opportune to read her texts messages, chats both on fb and watsapp and instantly my perception about her changed, i bleeped her, told her her sins and dumped her straight away. Don't get too emotionally attached to any girl to avoid heartbreaks since you aren't like me who doesn't give a damn.

Kingosytex:


That is the best bet. I was once in a similar situation. I had this girl that really claimed she loved me, i fell for her along the line but fortunately for me i was opportune to read her texts messages, chats both on fb and watsapp and instantly my perception about her changed, i bleeped her, told her her sins and dumped her straight away. Don't get too emotionally attached to any girl to avoid heartbreaks since you aren't like me who doesn't give a damn.

cidieschat:
The video couldn't play on my phone but I think the boy is wrong by beating his elder sis just because her mother chased his father away,and as for his uncle he shouldn't have slept with his landlord's daughter but I suggests the landlord should give him two weeks more then if he didn't pay his house rent,he should go and marry another wife before the igwe calls another village meeting, thank you.

Nigerians

marttol:
but she doesn't dress like a runs girl,though she ONLY WEARS TIGHT SKIRT,and doesn't make up or use earrings and she is extremely beautiful.

Jeeeez! stop kidding. How do runs girls dress? Don't you know that appearance can't be deceptive. Haven't you heard about wolf in sheep clothing?

Kingosytex:


Jeeeez! stop kidding. How do runs girls dress? Don't you know that appearance can't be deceptive. Haven't you heard about wolf in sheep clothing?

Kingosytex:


Jeeeez! stop kidding. How do runs girls dress? Don't you know that appearance can't be deceptive. Haven't you heard about wolf in sheep clothing?

cidieschat:
The video couldn't play on my phone but I think the boy is wrong by beating his elder sis just because her mother chased his father away,and as for his uncle he shouldn't have slept with his landlord's daughter but I suggests the landlord should give him two weeks more then if he didn't pay his house rent,he should go and marry another wife before the igwe calls another village meeting, thank you.

That's true o. If only she had sacked the bishop, the landlord would have read the newspaper so that she would have prepared for Sunday school, submitted her lab report and see if Buhari will set Leah Sharibu free so that Ngozi can get her titration readings.

mrpoul:
Nigerians

what does he mean?

marttol:
but she doesn't dress like a runs girl,though she ONLY WEARS TIGHT SKIRT,and doesn't make up or use earrings and she is extremely beautiful.

Am I hallucinating or something? Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED and lukui must see this.

She has trapped you already while you're looking for love where there is no love. No matter the advice anyone give you here it won't change anything.


You are madly in love with her and she knows it that's why she's busy playing you like a football

Martinez39:
Am I hallucinating or something? Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED and lukui must see this.

Lol he talks like a small boy sha

Just free am bro

@marttol

Never treat a girl like she is too special and irreplaceable. Let every girl know that she can be replaced and for goodness' sake, get some self respect. People with self respect do not tolerate sh!t and are ready to call it quit. Either she is in or out. If she wants out, let her go. If she wants in but is behaving unseriously and badly, show her the door. Don't act like she is a golden trophy that must be won and kept by all means.

From the look of things and the way you've described her, call her now and end the relationship. Don't tell her way you are ending it, just say you are no longer interested.

Martinez39:
@marttol

Never treat a girl like she is too special and irreplaceable. Let every girl know that she can be replaced and for goodness' sake, get some self respect. People with self respect do not tolerate sh!t and are ready to call it quit. Either she is in or out. If she wants out, let her go. If she wants in but is behaving unseriously and badly, show her the door. Don't act like she is a golden trophy that must be won and kept by all means.

From the look of things and the way you've described her, call her now and end the relationship. Don't tell her way you are ending it, just say you are no longer interested.

Thanks boss

vincentjk:
She has trapped you already while you're looking for love where there is no love. No matter the advice anyone give you here it won't change anything.


You are madly in love with her and she knows it that's why she's busy playing you like a football

for your information,i'm not madly in love...shikena