Okay good day guys have been thinking about this issue for a while now. I have like let's say two girls have been asking out for a while now the surprising thing is that we are kind of close to the extent that I sometimes just hold them inappropriately and they don't even react just let me touch and stuff like that but when they are with their friends they introduce me as their bestie so I'm wondering what actually does this bestie mean because me I don't understand is it that they just want me close but they can't date me or what. cuz me and I'm just confused. do any of you guys have any similar experience

Girls I want to know what do you mean by my bestie

Boyfriend -zoned!

By them calling you their bestie simply meant that let's assume she paid you a visit and told you she's hungry.

And you joyfully used your last kido to buy two packs of indomie belleful,and you spiced it up with suya and fried eggs,with enough sokoto onions.

She would be eating the indomie,suya and the fried egg,whilst you would happily peck only the onions.


Simply put...you've been FRIEND ZONED!

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what that means is that u dull yourself when u ought to shoot your shot n Now u are too close to the extent that they don't see themselves dating u. one day, once u pester her too much she will open up to you that she prefers u as a friend than a lover.

Edoloaded:
Okay good day guys have been thinking about this issue for a while now. I have like let's say two girls have been asking out for a while now the surprising thing is that we are kind of close to the extent that I sometimes just hold them inappropriately and they don't even react just let me touch and kiss sometimes and stuff like that but when they are with their friends they introduce me as their bestie so I'm wondering what actually does this bestie mean because me I don't understand is it that they just want me close but they can't date me or what. cuz me and I'm just confused. do any of you guys have any similar experience

Girls I want to know what do you mean by my bestie

have you made your mind clear to them? I mean have you actually come forward and speak out your feelings?

Let's start from here

themaestro08:
have you made your mind clear to them? I mean have you actually come forward and speak out your feelings?

Let's start from here

Yes I did that oh.. i was even thinking that maybe the more we talk and play with eachother the more bonded we become

Unik3030:
what that means is that u dull yourself when u ought to shoot your shot n Now u are too close to the extent that they don't see themselves dating u. one day, once u pester her too much she will open up to you that she prefers u as a friend than a lover.

Funny thing na say i be shoot my shot oh.. i nor know as the matter come end up to this stage... My own even good one of my guy na brother zone them dey put am

Edoloaded:

Funny thing na say i be shoot my shot oh.. i nor know as the matter come end up to this stage... My own even good one of my guy na brother zone them dey put am

maybe u are too good

ahnie:
Boyfriend -zoned!

By them calling you their bestie simply meant that let's assume she paid you a visit and told you she's hungry.

And you joyfully used your last kido to buy two packs of indomie belleful,and you spiced it up with suya and fried eggs,with enough sokoto onions.

She would be eating the indomie,suya and the fried egg,whilst you would happily peck only the onions.


Simply put...you've been FRIEND ZONED!

Chaiiiiii imagine time wey i invest on them.. but i thought you gurls like to be treated nicely na.. how else.. it's not Asif I'm bad look or broke.. i just don't understand girls o

Unik3030:
maybe u are too good

Haba too good... Shuoo make i dey woze them slap whenever them fuckup ni.. me i nor understand oh

Edoloaded:


Yes I did that oh.. i was even thinking that maybe the more we talk and play with eachother the more bonded we become

then forget it bro. They probably just wanna be friends with you but the more important thing which is sexual attractiveness ain't there. So the ball is in your court, either you remain friends with them or
you walk away and find someone finds you attractive and more importantly want to be your friend.

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themaestro08:
then forget it bro. They probably just wanna be friends with you but the more important thing which is sexual attractiveness ain't there. So the ball is in your court, either you remain friends with them or
you walk away and find someone finds you attractive and more importantly want to be your friend.

Omo i go japaaaa one time

Edoloaded:

Chaiiiiii imagine time wey i invest on them.. but i thought you gurls like to be treated nicely na.. how else.. it's not Asif I'm bad look or broke.. i just don't understand girls o

you win some and you lose some... NO MAN can get them all, so you simply need to focus on getting back on your feet and move forward until you find someone who digs you (the way you dig her)

Okay, so there are a few options for what it means when she called you her bestie. Either she’s into you, or she values your friendship and doesn’t want a relationship. There are no simple answers to this, the answer is going to be to tell her up front if you like her, and ask her how she feels. Have deep meaningful conversation, because if you did ever end up in that relationship, that’s what would need to happen. If she isn’t interested, that’s okay, she’s probably flattered that you’re admitting those feelings. Ask her what bestie means to her. Also, ‘Friend Zone’ doesn’t exist in my opinion, because it’s almost a pressure towards women to be with you or make you sad, and that pressure is not fair. As a woman, I’ve found it really frustrating when a guy confesses to me, I politely turn him down and say ‘I value your friendship’, and that guy turns around and says, I can’t be friends with you if you aren’t into me. Take it how it is, and if she doesn’t wanna go in, respect that, and cherish the benefits of your platonic relationship as you search for a deeper one.

It means you ain't never fvckin her

I'm hungry and modupeoluwa123 I really need your help.

It means backup boyfriend

you have been friend zoned,

I'm presently in such category but I actually told her my feelings, I also told her that, I don't do bestie stuff

my present girlfriend start from bestie nd i b dey Bleep am pass her boyfriend..she broke up wit 4 guys nd i was still bestie wey dey collect.laslas she realized i ws her ultimate..summary:we dating nw nd its one sweet hell of a ride