successmatters:
Moral of the story, never lose your job.

golddeejay:

Really...so it is all the man's fault. Is she a goat that someone is forcing into marriage. She entered the marriage with her senses...to her it is all about the money. I don't know if you are guy or lady. But I hope you wouldn't be bitter if a made guy pretends to love you or someone close to you. Then treat you or that like sh!!t after the wedding...because you are just a transaction.

BigJoe19:
Na so na, who has time for stupid stress, 'if u want to leave Biko leave' has been my anthem since high school.

Awe4luv:

finally I found someone in thesame boat as me, lol....I saw it ....I saw it infact three days after she agreed, but I ignored, guess what, I suffer am well, but now na my new fiancee dey suffer am, I dey do but I no dey too do again.....I still love that idiot more anyways

Brock1:


No true love anywhere.

successmatters:
Moral of the story, never lose your job.

Smile4mee01:


Many women now want to be mothers and not wives. It's a sad thing, that why as a man Always Always put yourself first, it's not wickedness. It's to avoid stories that touch.

Knowing women for what they are, God forbid I loose my source of income. I will temporarily separate/leave before I am left.

Let me reveal something to you guys. If you have a woman in your life that does not exchange/invest/put in something to you and your life. Cut her loose. She will drain you of your energy time and resources and leave you empty.

Back to the story. Men pls pls pls. Always be on your grind, I know its not easy. A flip side. Woukd she have left if the husband was short but as wealthy as dangote?

engrchykae:
mine was devastating.
some women are devil personified.
three months to our traditional wedding,I saw a contact on her phone with the name " my love"
I thought am the one na as husband to be very soon.
I looked closely and saw that its not my number so I confronted her and she told me its her mopol friend.
she started explaining how the guy loves her so much.
I got angry and told her " then why are you not with him,why didn't he come to collect the list "
I called her father and lodged my complaints,the father later called back telling me how she has changed.
I called her and warned that if such happens again I will reconsider my position in marrying her.
do you know that this statement was registered in her heart for revenge.
I married her and after seven months she left me to get revenge and make me lose of all I spent in footing the bills of the traditional wedding.
I have learnt to be mean in handling relationship with women.
before I pity them and wrong myself to please them.
but not anymore.
what pains me most is that my siblings whom I first got married are now with kids each while this devil was deceiving that she is pregnant and I registered her ante natal.
when she attended for six months,I wasn't seeing any sign of pregnancy and she would tell me how she had flat tummy,how the doctor is surprised at her flat tummy.
I will be like,flat tummy in six months ?
I told her to go for scan which she did reluctantly.
results came out no pregnancy .
she started telling me how a prophet told her that time would come when her pregnancy would be appearing and disappearing.
how somebody is manipulating her pregnancy.
I told my mum to help her meet those women in the village who help in such matters.
that was when they told her that she should tell her husband the truth.
she came back packed her things in our house in the village and travelled to her parents.
later came town took her things and left.
if I assist my mum financially,there will be trouble in the house.
if she add her own money in preparing food,I must refund her.
she knows my pay but I don't know her financial status.
she hides her financial status from me.
I thank God she left as I feel liberated

AntiBrutus:


Will they listen? Forget all the attacks on ladies online, the men are same and worse than the women they so denigrate.

The dating dynamics in Nigeria is so fcked up and parasitic from both sides.

I said it the other day that if not for ego and god complex, I do not see why lots of Nigerian men will be looking for one small girl to confuse with money. Marry within your social class and stop disturbing SM. They wanted to blow up my mentions.

They see no need to work on any aspect of their lives. They just convince themselves that they can make money and get any woman they WANT. But as with any human devoid of common sense, they forgot the difference between a WANT and a NEED.

Money will sure get you the woman you want in a 3rd World Country where food is still a problem. Would it get the woman you NEED?

Awe4luv:

Go and listen to when as man loves a woman, sang by Micheal Bolton, the black race is designed to believe in too many juju, na people like you will tell me sango was responsible for the thunder strike at the PGA tour

Tunagee:


But my principle as always been 'accept me the way iam and not for what I have'

OKOATA:
Please my question is how was the marriage terminated? Did both party appear in court or what's the procedure to terminate a marriage? I want to know about this so it will be easy for me if things go south

Awe4luv:

oh boy! this one mad ooooo, thank God for my life, ijo ope mi Ree ooooo.......chai! what a world

well in my case, I was always scared of marriage coz I knew once U made mistake in choosing the wrong woman then U done, so before I dated that idiot, I went to a prophet to pray over it, I wqs told I shouldn't proceed with her, but I turned deaf ears....lol...so I got what I wanted merely because she physically fits into my dream woman, beautiful, slim, light in complexion, sexy, tall etc....

but right now the person am with was sanctioned by thesame prophet that warned me over the first so I think am half secured.....

mechanics:
hmmmm, that's the consequences of one not seeking the face of God for His will, beauty is not everything.

Sholaani:

See them

Sholaani:

See them

akinade28:
....she didnt know he was short the first five years of the marriage when there was money?

engrchykae:
mine was devastating.
some women are devil personified.
three months to our traditional wedding,I saw a contact on her phone with the name " my love"
I thought am the one na as husband to be very soon.
I looked closely and saw that its not my number so I confronted her and she told me its her mopol friend.
she started explaining how the guy loves her so much.
I got angry and told her " then why are you not with him,why didn't he come to collect the list "
I called her father and lodged my complaints,the father later called back telling me how she has changed.
I called her and warned that if such happens again I will reconsider my position in marrying her.
do you know that this statement was registered in her heart for revenge.
I married her and after seven months she left me to get revenge and make me lose of all I spent in footing the bills of the traditional wedding.
I have learnt to be mean in handling relationship with women.
before I pity them and wrong myself to please them.
but not anymore.
what pains me most is that my siblings whom I first got married are now with kids each while this devil was deceiving that she is pregnant and I registered her ante natal.
when she attended for six months,I wasn't seeing any sign of pregnancy and she would tell me how she had flat tummy,how the doctor is surprised at her flat tummy.
I will be like,flat tummy in six months ?
I told her to go for scan which she did reluctantly.
results came out no pregnancy .
she started telling me how a prophet told her that time would come when her pregnancy would be appearing and disappearing.
how somebody is manipulating her pregnancy.
I told my mum to help her meet those women in the village who help in such matters.
that was when they told her that she should tell her husband the truth.
she came back packed her things in our house in the village and travelled to her parents.
later came town took her things and left.
if I assist my mum financially,there will be trouble in the house.
if she add her own money in preparing food,I must refund her.
she knows my pay but I don't know her financial status.
she hides her financial status from me.
I thank God she left as I feel liberated

Princeofasia:
dont people assassinate people again?
do they know that they can do it and make it look like a fatal accident?

felaismyhero:
lol.but a yoruba adage says: ki la fi n se oko obinrin,owo la fi n se oko obinrin(i hope i typed it right!) translation(what i think it means): what do we need to be a husband to a woman? money is what we need to be husband to a woman!

udemzyudex:
I have learnt this lesson as a guy, though I'm not yet married.

There is a very big difference between love and attraction.

If a lady love you ( because anybody can learn to love someone) and she's not attracted to you, believe me on the long run, it will only be a waste of time.

If she love you, you really have to be sure she's also attracted to you.
This way, she will do whatever you want.
Of course you will definitely know when a lady is attracted to you, she will always try to make things work even if things are getting out of hands because she genuinely love you.

benji93:
I am not understanding what you are writing, are you equating attraction to genuine love?

freemi:
infact i am angry and speechles readn ths post. U ve access to fed job, gave it to gold diggers then remain in contract..who dose that? So many wrongs frm d guy. He even refuse to invest

udemzyudex:


Equating? Read the post again, maybe you will understand it this time.

successmatters:
Moral of the story, never lose your job.