frbona:
[s][/s] na dem

benji93:
Honestly, on reading again as suggested, i would think it means love + attraction =genuine love. But your thoughts are not clear enough. You seem to be of the opinion that love and attraction are two different things, but love and attraction actually overlap as far as i am concerned. How can you love someone without being attracted to them one way or another?

I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

stag:
Is the only problem here losing his job, money?

- No stories of infidelity on her part?
- Had there been relative peace since the marriage?
- Can we then say that, apart from her love of money, she was a good wife?

But bro, how can your brother be in a contract job and he fixed two of his in-laws in ‘well-paying’ Federal Government jobs with job security while he worked in a place without job security?

CrazyOptimist:
This kind of case is so rampant nowadays.
Married women leaving their husbands even after having kids for them.
Everyone wan be baby mama.

larryking540:

me self weak o

and the op day there, am not sure if e even get better paying job, some guys sha really think with their dick not their head,
my family first o,
the op brother even try, he sponsored the girl tru university, con give am car, con give e two brothers job,
bro the moment a lady rejects me, I just move on with my life, that's me o,,,i kw sabi day beg up and down, becus u go still continue to beg her even on top bed, which is irritating, it's a pity, a lady tells u openly u are too short, meaning u can't walk with me in public, and she is the one who is even broke to sponsor herself tru education, and d best compliment to give the guy way help her career is he is too short,
women sha are really ungrateful elements

Elliot2:
My elder bro learnt it the hard way too. Dude upgraded her without any concrete help for extended family but did for hers. Took her abroad with their househelp who is from her her place. Two have them connived to show my guy and his first daughter,which he had prior to marrying, pepper. First daughter got fed up and left home,and married to a white guy without letting him know. Now he has divorced,with the children in her custody. He is back to Nigeria depressed,with no family.

golddeejay:
Things dey happen. And Some go dey put love for head. As long as she be woman, I love my sense fully operational. These women ain't loyal!

greggng:
Stop blaming the lady ..you cannot force love on anyone. The lady was very clear at first....you are a short man I can't marry you but the short man ...like every other short man doesn't give up. They are very aggressive whenever they fail in any adventure. Because he was adamant they lady just married him for pity sake....free the lady and find a way to train your kids...both of you were not meant to be....let alone now that your job has ended...women no get that patient ....when you have plenty , you never bothered to manage...after training her to have wide mouth, do you expect her to stop when you are broke....women sense no reach that level...they want you to spend and spend till you taya

larryking540:


u are really a professor of statistics,
but na Tru sha,but y

marrying 9ja ladies is the last on my list right now,except say my people don go confirm say na from a responsible background,

Martinez39:
This is the problem. There is no such woman. Even yourself is like that. Unfortunately, guys never listen.

Such disrespect and insult. She never loved him, she married him out of pity and for poverty alleviation. She needed the marriage more than she needs him.

My heart goes out to your brother. The loyalty and submissiveness of a broke woman can never be trusted, except when tested with money.

I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immedi upately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

stag:


But bro, how can your brother be in a contract job and he fixed two of his in-laws in ‘well-paying’ Federal Government jobs with job security while he worked in a place without job security?

daddytime:
Hmmm...

Lesson learned he should move on with his life.

Money no fit buy true love.

Love wey money fit buy get expiry date.