Is it advisable for a christian to marry a Muslim ?
Is it advisable for a Muslim to marry a christian?
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conscience. They need it because d rate at which ladies cheat now...

Beauty with brain

If your woman only has sex and food to contribute then I suggest you to dissociate.

A woman must be kind to enable relationship or marriage work, what is kindness ? A kind person knows the condition of a situation and thinks how best to salvage it, a kind person doesn’t waste another’s sweat cause she recognize how hard life or wealth can be and so will always think how to support to earn more, women naturally think when they demand from a man and he gives you that he is a mumu, some people give because they feel it’s their way of showing kindness , but any woman who is not kind,whole hearted loving, pls I know we confuse respect to be love, it’s two different things but a woman must never give excuse or I don’t know how to cook cause if the guy says I don’t know how to marry e go be like relationship abuse
So better be kind

truthsayer009:
1. Fine face
2. Big breast
3. Big yansh

Thats all, thank you

What about moral behavior


Plenty fine face girls out there


But no moral behaviors


Never marry a club girl or street girl or social media girls


She would show you club attitudes

AreaFada2:


Sad thing is lots of women (even some men) still have the wrong notion of what men need in a woman/marriage. Sure men have different tastes. But when push comes to shove long term, all realise the value of some "boring" attributes.

A serious guy is quite happy with a lady with average physical attributes. Provided she's supportive, understanding, shares one's dreams and gives one PEACE OF MIND.

What use a lady with a fine face, big boobs, fat ass and porn star in bed but nags the living day light out of you? Always diametrically opposed to any plans to progress in life? She will just send you to the great beyond before your time.

Exactly but society has deceived many to believe that boyfriend girlfriend orientation applies to marriage. A girl can be dated for her big this and biiger that but if mentality same is carried into marriage, stories follow because that's a different ball game.

all she need is responsibility. pure heart of love good husband

A lady should have sense.. the common sense

LillyVal:
If a man must have a good job, a car and a house before marriage.
What must the lady have before going into marriage??

XhosaNostra:


Ah, you expect women to work like their fathers but still manage the homefront like their mothers? You can't have it both ways now, unless you're willing to share house chores.

First I wouldn't want my wife working like a father hence I don't woe ladies with such jobs.

Then did the man marry her to earn her own living (which may not even translate to our living) and be just a bed thing to him while he manages the household? If she wants to do both she can. Like mama or not is a different story after all is she not a mama?
What is the difference between a woman who won't take responsibility of the domestic duties and a sex object? Or one who insist unless its shared with a man who insist on not paying rent unless its shared?

If I marry such it will be a that she stays in her own house earning her own living I will marry another woman who knows how to be useful beyond earning her living then always visit for sex rump since that's mainly what you are willing to offer if you have a problem being domestically responsible.

I no spend time, energy and money to marry just to come spend another time and energy dey drag who go cook today when their are lots of women that know their duty looking for husband abi na you dey shelter, cloth and feed me? What I can do is make your job easy by say buying household appliances like washing machine dish washer etc so it won't be too stressful to do domestic duties like mamas of old.

LillyVal:
If a man must have a good job, a car and a house before marriage.
What must the lady have before going into marriage??

Good character!.

fcdgrand:
(1) total submission (2) good manners (3) know how to cook different types of healthy meals (must know how to cook 10 types of igbo soup's and other food) (4) quantity & quality lovemaking (5) must have abundant love (6) take care of family physical & spiritual (7) most important; must be a virgin or 18 to 22 yrs

...wowwwwwww......a virgin??
Interesting.......

princfred:
Did the man marry her to earn her living and be just a bed thing to him while he manages the household? If she wants to do both she can like mama or not is a different story. What is the difference between a woman who won't take responsibility of the domestic duties and a sex object?
If I marry such it will be My sister stay in your house earn you living I will marry another woman who knows how to be useful then always visit you for sex rump since that's mainly alll you are willing to offer if you have a problem being domestically responsible.

Why can't you be domestically responsible too is all I'm asking? There're women out there who also won't marry a man that is useless with his hands. If you won't help her with house chores, then go change a lightbulb or fix a leaking tap like a man. Sex can't be the only thing you're offering either, when there're guys who're Jacks-of-all-trades. So basically, you can go fùck yourself if you expect to sit around doing nothing in a house you also live in.

To me, once a woman is beautiful, homely and loyal...i'll stand by her to achieve everything achievable.

XhosaNostra:


Why can't you be domestically responsible too is all I'm asking? There're women out there who also won't marry a man that is useless with his hands. If you won't help her with house chores, then go change a lightbulb or fix a leaking tap like a man. Sex can't be the only thing you're offering either, when there're guys who're Jacks-of-all-trades. So basically, you can go fùck yourself if you expect to sit around doing nothing in a house you also live in.

Of course there are domestic responsibilities of a man like fixing bulbs etc and those were not the ones you were referring to when talking about working like "mama". Those mama job are still your job for which you were married and if they are beyond you then what's the difference if the man brought in a paid sex peddler regularly instead? She earns her own living too. And sex is not the only thing I'm providing when I'm providing shelter, food and clothing unless she insists on providing those too which is akin to her living on her own then we meet for sex now and then. Otherwise why should a man spend his time energy and money to marry only to end up wasting another energy dragging who will cook today with the wife.

With white ladies were that is obtainable, its usually the woman who spends most time energy and money to marry and shelter the man. If you can't do that while not opting for the traditional way then thats selfish.

Magnoliaa:


Nice one. And the most important, an empty head.

Vagina and big breast.

Magnoliaa:

Nice one. And the most important, an empty head.

indeed for an empty head

Nothing much most men believe they'll provide basic needs.
Mostly a woman just have to be RESPECTFUL, PATIENT AND CONTENT.
Then surely she will live a very peaceful and comfortable marriage life

princfred:
Of course there are domestic responsibilities of a man like fixing bulbs etc and those were not the ones you meant when talking about working like "mama". Those mama job are still your job for which you were married and if they are beyond you then what the difference if the man brought in a paid sex peddler instead? She earns her own living too

I said help with house chores, I wasn't specific. Moreover, you can't be expecting someone to be all these wonderful things around the house for you, when I'm sure you don't come fully-equipped either. If you can't pick up a hammer & build something from scratch with your own two hands like a man, then fall back, because there's a man right now, somewhere, building a new coffee table for his home, while you're sitting on your heinie, daydreaming.

XhosaNostra:


I said help with house chores, I wasn't specific. Moreover, you can't be expecting someone to be all these wonderful things around the house for you, when I'm sure you don't come fully-equipped either. If you can't pick up a hammer & build something from scratch with your own two hands like a man, then fall back, because there's a man right now, somewhere, building a new coffee table for his home, while you're sitting on your heinies, daydreaming.

Like a man abi because that was always a Father's job. It's all too clear you were talking about sharing "Mama" job but since you want to obfuscate that I will let you be my point is all too livid already to be flogged and I'm sure you can get it if you want but goodluck with your quest for a man who will do a father's job and share " Mamas" job a house boy of a husband may suffice if hypergamy will allow you settle for that and also pay the price like white ladies do.

..................As if Mama's then were not earning a living yet doing their Mama's job without complaining.... ... Lazy feminists. No the man should build a kitchen (provide household appliances in modern time) and still be the part time cook because he is goat or dog abi and you are the one sheltering him.

princfred:


Of course there are domestic responsibilities of a man like fixing bulbs etc and those were not the ones you were referring to when talking about working like "mama". Those mama job are still your job for which you were married and if they are beyond you then what's the difference if the man brought in a paid sex peddler regularly instead? She earns her own living too. And sex is not the only thing I'm providing when I'm providing shelter, food and clothing unless she insists on providing those too which is akin to her living on her own then we meet for sex now and then. Otherwise why should a man spend his time energy and money to marry only to end up wasting another energy dragging who will cook today with the wife.

With white ladies were that is obtainable, its usually the woman who spends most time energy and money to marry and shelter the man. If you can't do that while not opting for the traditional way then thats selfish.

Lol, did you know that "in the good old days" to this day, some schools still teach needlework + home economics to girls so they can grow up to be useful human beings. It doesn't stop there, they also teach woodwork + electrical studies so you also won't slump around being idle. The two go hand-in-hand. If she must cook etc, build her a kitchen to cook in or zip it.

princfred:
Like a man abi because that was always a Father's job. It's all too clear you were talking about sharing "Mama" job but since you want to obfuscate that I will let you be my point is all to livid already to be flogged and I'm sure you can get it if you want but goodluck with your quest for a man who will do a father's job and share " Mamas" job a house boy of a husband may suffice if hypergamy will allow you settle for that and also pay the price like white ladies do.

I never said I'm looking for a houseboy because I'm capable of running a home. I earn my keep. Can you say the same about your efficiency with tools & doing a man's job?

She must have a functioning brain

Glink2018:


Any lady that have 3/4 of these quality is a good wife.
Nairaland ladies only pride on their butt and boobs...

Being 'virtuous' sums it all up...

12inchDickson:
is she going for a job interview

Lol

Magnoliaa:


Nice one. And the most important, an empty head.

MannieA:



But most guys that have commented just seem to be interested in the body and the face tho.....

You seem really triggered. Calm down. Some people don't take Nairaland seriously so they can comment anything...no man actually marries for sex alone.

truthsayer009:
1. Fine face
2. Big breast
3. Big yansh

Thats all, thank you

I hope u arent serious with this! I fit curse u for endangering my future

virgoquin:
Know all the sex styles in the world like doggy,lizard, cow girl,reverse cowgirl etc

Knowing how to ride dick and give a mouth job will be highly appreciated too..I think that is all for now

see what I'm reading from naija females this country is doomed indeed

XhosaNostra:


I never said I'm looking for a houseboy because I'm capable of running a home. I earn my keep. Can you say the same about your efficiency with tools & doing a man's job?

Now you are making a circus out of this. You are not looking for a houseboy but talk about Mamas job and sharing it with husband? Why not keep earning a living and expect you husband share mamas job with you? Or you want obfuscate your talk about Mama job no longer being for mamas abi na the gods you wan sharam with since you don't need a houseboy husband?

I said a woman should be able to run a home you explicitly imply that Mamas job must be shared because a woman earns a living (as if mamas of old weren't earning a living and was still doing Mama job) only to start giving examples of non-Mamas job only to go further to insist you don't need a houseboy (Mamas job sharing) husband and you can run a home. How can you be this confused this early in the day? Go the traditional way if you can fully do oyibo way una no go hear see how you are confused now. Do you want a husband to share Mama job with since you earn a living or not?

Well seems you've learnt a couple and come around so no need for further engagement as this thread is about what a woman's needs going into a marriage and you've just stated my point - not needing a houseboy (Mamas job sharing) husband and capable of running a home. Thanks

LillyVal:
If a man must have a good job, a car and a house before marriage.
What must the lady have before going into marriage??

who told u a man must have a car before marriage rubbish

princfred:


You are making a circus out of this. You are not looking for a houseboy but talk about Mamas job and sharing it with husband? Why not keep earning a living and expect you husband share mamas job with you? Or you want obfuscate your talk about Mama job no longer being for mamas abi na the gods you wan sharam with since you don't need a houseboy husband?

I said a woman should be able to run a home you explicitly imply that Mamas job must be shared because a woman earns a living only to start giving examples of non-Mamas job only to go further to insist you don't need a houseboy (Mamas job sharing) husband and you can run a home. How can you be this confused this early in the day? Go the traditional way if you can fully do oyibo way u a no go hear see how you are confused now.

Well seems you've learnt a couple and come around so no need for further engagement as this thread is about what a woman's needs going into a marriage and you've just stated my pointed - not needing a houseboy (Mamas job sharing) husband and capable of running a home. Thanks

I asked you a simple question. Don't shuck & jive around it, to take away focus from your own inability to do the things you're supposed to be capable of doing as a man. Can you build a chair for us to sit on while I serve a home cooked meal?