grandstar:
There's this lady in her 40's who is dating my cousin. The lady is a grandmother of 2 boys from her only child and daughter who she had out of wedlock.

She's desperate to marry my cousin who's married but he isn't interested. He's presently married but the wife fled to London with their kids when she got him deported for trying an arrangee marriage in England with a woman he was dating and that was spending wildly on him.

She fled to Europe with the kids after he was deported as he wanted a divorce and she was petrified he would get custody.

Anyway, that's not the point. My cousin isn't the marriage type. That's primarily why his marriage didn't work as he sees nothing wrong in adultery and still believes he is a player. He also doesn't like stress or wahala which will always present itself in any marriage. He treasures his peace so much. He likes to be left alone

The lady no wan listen. For over 10 years since he came back, she's refused to leave my cousin alone. Her friends have advised her but she's going nowhere. My cousin treats her shabbily and she puts up with it. Some women are just masochists.

Your cousin is a Gee for life....

Fountainofyouth:
She killed herself cos he took her kids from her not cos of the cheating asshole, he's still going to have the kids so who lose? Rubbish.

I can almost assure you that her family members rubbed it in because of her mistake instead of sticking with her.

There are legal ways to get those children but I guess she lost the will to fight because it was the neighbor her estranged husband married.

Never test your spouse to see if he or she loves you. Never threaten your spouse with divorce.

0temSapien:
Hell fire exists in your head. You can't burn inside fire for 100 trillion years because of a seeming mistake you committed within a lifespan of 40 years. This stupid idea is the reason why the gods of religions such as Yahweh, Allah, Moloch and thousands other are currently bound in a spiritual cage for global mind evolution to take place.

I am a Christian but I don't know why people believe that hell fire shit, it's impossible to be thrown in a blazing fire forever because I committed fornication. It just doesn't make sense

kushme:


Your cousin is a Gee for life....

Story Story !!

OKOATA:
I am a Christian but I don't know why people believe that hell fire shit, it's impossible to be thrown in a blazing fire forever because I committed fornication. It just doesn't make sense

Thank you.

why not report the case to the police that your kids have been kidnapped , and did you leave the kids for him after the divorce , me I'm not understanding this story oooo

RIP to her

I am sure the guy is tall, dark and handsome right.

pocohantas:


You must be lefulefu 2.0, you seem to have seen it all.

I might not have seen it all, I always move out of my comfort zone and I listen to real stories in d real life and see how they react individually to their different stories

it's better to marry an ugly woman or an illiterate dat has sense than a beautiful one without a sense of reasoning

same goes with a man
4get all dis princes and princess charming stuff,

I am sure the guy is tall, dark or fair, and handsome.
Right?

NaijaOlosho:
AT THE SAME TIME

Nigerian Man Commits Suicide Over Wife's Refusal To Have Sex With Him (Photos)


SEE THREAD HERE >>> https://www.nairaland.com/5383710/nigerian-man-commits-suicide-over

hehehehe...ohhhhh!!...see kpalava.... another case again... marriage don dey fear me...

Hmmm

AwkaetitiBabe:
See how a broke lazy husband can push a woman to commit suicide. Women are simply not wired to be bread winners.

She got all the cards, why she didn't dump the lady man beats me. Could be murder

That's not the issue. The husband didn't show her love irrespective of how she tried to please him

And to all you "God hate divorce" crew....Its better to disengage and stay alive than to stay put and lose your life

Bruno3000:
This is for all the guys' hearts she messed with, and for ignoring that one guy that truly loved her.
HER ABODE IN THE AFTER LIFE IS HELL FIRE...

I don't have time to argue o.

Hell fire is not a funny place my brother. You know,

We pray God to forgive our sins. Amen

EkunKekere:
A lesson for all those who want to use marriage to cover up their failures in other aspects of their lives or to fulfill societal expectations
What really amuses me are those married illiterate women who look down on single, well educated women.
I know a case of a married primary school dropout who can barely read and write, looking down on a single woman with a Masters degree.
Africans are truly nature's joke for humanity.

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How do you know, that someone is looking down on you, if you have never looked down on others. Think

Instead of her to stay alive and fight for the custody of children she brought into this world. Your children weren't enough to live for? The man will still cheat on the neighbor and she will take her frustration out on the children. The only victim I see here is the poor children �

Your Aunty does not have brain oooooo. That guy will marry this evening

dfrost:


And nobody was close to her to pull her out of depression?

And you had the time to tell the story but never had time to spend with her and help her?

If someone had taken her to a psychiatric hospital instead of praying for her, she wouldn't be dead now.

dfrost:


And nobody was close to her to pull her out of depression?

And you had the time to tell the story but never had time to spend with her and help her?

That's a typical African MAn

Why taken your life for unnecessary readon

femi4:
That's not the issue. The husband didn't show her love irrespective of how she tried to please him

And to all you "God hate divorce" crew....Its better to disengage and stay alive than to stay put and lose your life

Succint. Divorce and find happiness

Davash222:
It’s better to be single than to be in an unhealthy marriage or relationship.

I tell you. As painful as singlehood can be, it can't compare with the pain some marriages are going through.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Bread winner and the man is doing what? Well if he will cook, clean and take care of the kids and be humble and faithful, no wahala.

Your statements on this platform shows you as someone who is looking for a man to take care of your financial responsibility/problems. Try and consider taking full financial responsibility for yourself.
I may be wrong about you though

AwkaetitiBabe:
See how a broke lazy husband can push a woman to commit suicide. Women are simply not wired to be bread winners.

She got all the cards, why she didn't dump the lady man beats me. Could be murder

u

They are not wired to be bread winners yet majority of una go almost kill the bread winner of the house with demands.
I really felt for her. She didn't deserve that kind of man. How would a man be comfortable sitting at home doing nothing ??
I wish I had that kind of wife who would stand with one to build/ create wealth not a parasitic woman looking for the slightest opportunity to always take money away from ones pocket ..

Kiezodumah:
u

They are not wired to be bread winners yet majority of una go almost kill the bread winner of the house with demands.
I really felt for her. She didn't deserve that kind of man. How would a man be comfortable sitting at home doing nothing ??
I wish I had that kind of wife who would stand with one to build/ create wealth not a parasitic woman looking for the slightest opportunity to always take money away from ones pocket ..

Open thy eyes and yee shall find.

don4real18:

Your statements on this platform shows you as someone who is looking for a man to take care of your financial responsibility/problems. Try and consider taking full financial responsibility for yourself.
I may be wrong about you though

I've been taking full financial responsibility for years now so pls spare me. I simply say things as it is. As a sociologist I know what's obtainable in d society I live in.


So whatever comment I make, I don't so from objective observation unless I simply wanna seek attention.

judedwriter:


I tell you. As painful as singlehood can be, it can't compare with the pain some marriages are going through.

The cold nights is the worst

Martinez39:
I doubt this story. Naija woman throwing away money regularly on a broke man out of love for years? Kole werk o Kole werk.

My sister is doing it, her husband is jobless, she is the bread winner, she brought him a van of about two million so that he can drive for transportation, last week my younger bro told me on phone that he refused to drive saying that the weather is too cold for him, she is pregnant for their second child now and still goes to work all he does is to stay at home, all my brothers stopped talking to her cos she called them home breakers, she is on her own now , we pray her eyes open, she is madly in love.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Open thy eyes and yee shall find.

Perhaps I have found her already..

AwkaetitiBabe:
I've been taking full financial responsibility for years now so pls spare me. I simply say things as it is. As a sociologist I know what's obtainable in d society I live in.


So whatever comment I make, I don't so from objective observation unless I simply wanna seek attention.

Alright... Noted

AwkaetitiBabe:
See how a broke lazy husband can push a woman to commit suicide. Women are simply not wired to be bread winners.

She got all the cards, why she didn't dump the lady man beats me. Could be murder

As intelligent as you are you didn't read the post?
Babe you fall my hand o, I look at you differently in this forum.

Marriage is for matured mind not all about age
A person that is matured in mind and thinking will know that commiting suicide is not the best way to solve the problem
People that commite suicide are either defeated or Bewitched
It is important to give your life to Jesus Christ,He is the only One that can never disappoint or fail.The best lover